Guest guest Posted December 10, 2006 Report Share Posted December 10, 2006 Has anyone else's BPD mom ever made threats about their partners' safety? I've been NC with my nada for about 3 months now as I started thinking I didn't actually deserve her unpleasant behaviour towards me (took me 20 years to figure that one out) and am suddenly getting very anxious when my boyfriend goes out alone - I keep having thoughts that something bad may happen to him (actually feel nervous actually putting it in words). Whenever someone would cross my nada - she would say " they'll pay for that somehow " . When my aunt (her sister) lost her husband while driving (he had a sudden heart attack) - she said " that's what happens when people go against me " . I guess that's just probably another way she had of trying to control me. I know I'm being silly but can't help feeling worried about my partner's safety. It's not even like she lives close to us - there's an ocean separating us (thank goodness!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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