Splitting CD

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Date: Mon, December 11, 2006 9:10 am

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The following message is from Randi Kreger:

Advance Notice: New SPLITTING CD

Dear all:

I wanted to let you all know that I am publishing a new CD; it is a CD

companion to SPLITTING: PROTECTING YOURSELF WHEN DIVORCING A BORDERLINE OR

NARCISSIST. It's called, naturally, the SPLITTING CD.

The SPLITTING CD is a 2-disk set of an in-depth interview with

Eddy, the author of SPLITTING. Right now I have 50 test copies at my

distributor Book Clearing House (888 35-SHELL) and I'm looking for some

initial feedback from list members before I put it on the BPDCentral.com

website.

Bill is an awesome guy; nice, knowledgeable as all get-out and both a

therapist and attorney who specializes in representing partners with BPD

spouses. The price of the CDs is $25 and the SPLITTING booklet is the same

price, but you can get both for $40 ($10 off). You can ONLY get it by

calling 888-35-SHELL (). Once you listen to it, please let me

know what you think by sending me an email at RandiBPDCentral (DOT)

<mailto:Randi%40BPDCentral.com> com. I may

or may not put it on the web as a review.

Following is the copy I am going to put on the web:

PIX: THE SPLITTING CD

The overwhelming positive response to the Splitting: Protecting Yourself

When Divorcing a Borderline or Narcissist encouraged us to produce a

two-CD set of a 2-CD discussion with A. Eddy, the author of (see

his biography below). Bill expounds into the topics he wrote about in

Splitting, tackles some new ones, and answers frequently asked questions.

It's $25; if you need both the CD and the Splitting booklet (also $25) at

the same time you can get both for $40 (a $10 discount).

Measuring the price by Mr. Eddy's hourly rate, the 2-CD set is worth more

than $500; the booklet is worth about $50,000.

CD 1 PLAYLIST

Introduction

1. Introduction

2. Definition of BPD and NPD

3. Why you shouldn't discuss the diagnosis

4. The best way to tell your partner

5. Preparing for a high-conflict divorce

6. Retaining the right attorney

7. Educating your attorney about BPD

8. Evaluating the attorney's experience with BPD

9. Retaining an effective attorney (continued)

10. Temporary decisions and declarations

11. How to get your attorney to return your phone calls

12. Switching attorneys

13. Chances of gaining custody from the courts

14. Taking a more active role with children

15. Staying in the marriage for fear of not obtaining custody

16. Issues for unmarried couples with children

17. Differing laws in each state

18. Lies and false accusations (distortion campaigns)

19. The assertive approach; finding a balance

20. Gender bias in the courts

CD 2 PLAYLIST

1. Should you bring up the diagnosis in court?

2. Bringing experts/professionals into court

3. Being interviewed by the evaluator

4. False sexual allegations

5. False domestic violence allegations

6. Domestic violence of men

7. Parental alienation syndrome

8. Pros and cons of representing yourself

9. Mediation and collaborative divorce

10. Grandparents: access to grandchildren

11. Avoiding continuing battles after divorce

12. Seven ways to help your attorney understand your situation

Eddy is an attorney specializing in family law based in San Diego,

Cal. He has been a licensed clinical social worker in psychiatric

hospitals, giving him great expertise in high-conflict family resolution.

Eddy has a national reputation in high-conflict personalities and is known

for his involvement with issues such as child abuse, domestic violence,

and false allegations. He won reversals in two Court of Appeals cases and

obtained rare sanctions in a case of false allegations of child sexual

abuse.

R.

List Manager, The Welcome to Oz Online Community for Family Members with a

Borderline Loved One