Guest guest Posted March 14, 2008 Report Share Posted March 14, 2008 Dear Mishell, welcome to the group. > Hello, I am new to this group and was wondering if I can use The Work > to help me deal with my boyfriend who drinks too much? I think you can. > I am having a > hard time dealing with his alcoholism why? What's exactly bothers you most? Describe the situation. Is it when he's sober, is it when he's drunk, is it when someone talks about his problem, is it when there's a bottle of wine on the table and he looks at it a certain way? Is it when he's not around? ... Try to isolate the thought that's buggering you most, in that moment. > and a few months ago I purchased > Byron 's book because I was doing some research on-line and > someone blogged about it. I was also having some difficulties at work > and with my boss so I wanted to try and figure out if my problems at > home were transferring over to my job or vise versa. You could find that you have similar thoughts at work and at home. You could also find that you do the work on your boyfriend and that the situation at work improves. > I read the first > few chapters and applied some of the questions to my situation and > things seemed to get better. But recently, things have become crazy > again and I came across this group after also joining and Alanon online > group. Hopefully, getting back to The Work will help me focus on my > problems of " letting go " . Yes. And I find the problems have to do with " not letting go " ! ;-) > Mishell Love, Lesen Sie Ihre E-Mails jetzt einfach von unterwegs. www.yahoo.de/go Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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