Guest guest Posted June 15, 2005 Report Share Posted June 15, 2005 WOW!!!!!!!!!!! is right Kim Sounds like a real sticky situation. You will be in my prayers, and try not to stay so positive that something bad will happen but that something good will. Trudy ksamedifference <ksamedifference@...> wrote: Wow!!! I thought that I was the only one with a non-supportal spouse. I think that we all tend to think from time to time that we are the only ones who seem to be facing certain challenges or dilemas. That it what makes being in the group so great because we can see that we are not alone. That is a big deal! The lonliness and desperate need for simple validation is unreal! Kinda like being lost in a bubble. My spouse (not married) but close enough after 6 years just doesn't get it and announced the other day that he is going to get his kids for the summer and possibly longer. I lost it. I cannot handle them right now. He doesn't do a thing with them and places all the responsibility on me and that doesn't get it. I love the kids but they hate me. I raised the boy for a couple of years and made it through even after being poisoned by the little brat. So, needless to say...I'm a feart!~~!!!I'm not sure that we are gonna make it over this hurdle. I knew that he didn't get that I'm sick but darnit!!! I'm trying to stay positive and I'm about the most negative person on the planet! The only real positive thought is that I'm positive something negative will happen. He-hee! Anyhow, Praying for the world to change. Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2005 Report Share Posted June 15, 2005 WOW!!!!!!!!!!! is right Kim Sounds like a real sticky situation. You will be in my prayers, and try not to stay so positive that something bad will happen but that something good will. Trudy ksamedifference <ksamedifference@...> wrote: Wow!!! I thought that I was the only one with a non-supportal spouse. I think that we all tend to think from time to time that we are the only ones who seem to be facing certain challenges or dilemas. That it what makes being in the group so great because we can see that we are not alone. That is a big deal! The lonliness and desperate need for simple validation is unreal! Kinda like being lost in a bubble. My spouse (not married) but close enough after 6 years just doesn't get it and announced the other day that he is going to get his kids for the summer and possibly longer. I lost it. I cannot handle them right now. He doesn't do a thing with them and places all the responsibility on me and that doesn't get it. I love the kids but they hate me. I raised the boy for a couple of years and made it through even after being poisoned by the little brat. So, needless to say...I'm a feart!~~!!!I'm not sure that we are gonna make it over this hurdle. I knew that he didn't get that I'm sick but darnit!!! I'm trying to stay positive and I'm about the most negative person on the planet! The only real positive thought is that I'm positive something negative will happen. He-hee! Anyhow, Praying for the world to change. Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2005 Report Share Posted June 15, 2005 Kim this is just awful. How old was he when he tried to poison you? I just don't know how you can handle more kids without having help. I hope you can get it across to your non understanding spouse that you are just to sick to deal with any more. a On Jun 15, 2005, at 12:17 PM, ksamedifference wrote: > Wow!!! I thought that I was the only one with a non-supportal > spouse. I think that we all tend to think from time to time that we > are the only ones who seem to be facing certain challenges or > dilemas. That it what makes being in the group so great because we > can see that we are not alone. That is a big deal! The lonliness and > desperate need for simple validation is unreal! Kinda like being lost > in a bubble. My spouse (not married) but close enough after 6 years > just doesn't get it and announced the other day that he is going to > get his kids for the summer and possibly longer. I lost it. I cannot > handle them right now. He doesn't do a thing with them and places all > the responsibility on me and that doesn't get it. I love the kids but > they hate me. I raised the boy for a couple of years and made it > through even after being poisoned by the little brat. So, needless to > say...I'm a feart!~~!!!I'm not sure that we are gonna make it over > this hurdle. I knew that he didn't get that I'm sick but darnit!!! > I'm trying to stay positive and I'm about the most negative person on > the planet! The only real positive thought is that I'm positive > something negative will happen. He-hee! Anyhow, Praying for the > world to change. Kim > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2005 Report Share Posted June 15, 2005 Kim this is just awful. How old was he when he tried to poison you? I just don't know how you can handle more kids without having help. I hope you can get it across to your non understanding spouse that you are just to sick to deal with any more. a On Jun 15, 2005, at 12:17 PM, ksamedifference wrote: > Wow!!! I thought that I was the only one with a non-supportal > spouse. I think that we all tend to think from time to time that we > are the only ones who seem to be facing certain challenges or > dilemas. That it what makes being in the group so great because we > can see that we are not alone. That is a big deal! The lonliness and > desperate need for simple validation is unreal! Kinda like being lost > in a bubble. My spouse (not married) but close enough after 6 years > just doesn't get it and announced the other day that he is going to > get his kids for the summer and possibly longer. I lost it. I cannot > handle them right now. He doesn't do a thing with them and places all > the responsibility on me and that doesn't get it. I love the kids but > they hate me. I raised the boy for a couple of years and made it > through even after being poisoned by the little brat. So, needless to > say...I'm a feart!~~!!!I'm not sure that we are gonna make it over > this hurdle. I knew that he didn't get that I'm sick but darnit!!! > I'm trying to stay positive and I'm about the most negative person on > the planet! The only real positive thought is that I'm positive > something negative will happen. He-hee! Anyhow, Praying for the > world to change. Kim > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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