Re: VENT: I hate being the boundary police!

[Guest guest]

Thanks, Grace. That's exactly how I feel.

My upbringing and FOG is so dense that I feel like I'm the bad guy.

I keep " feeling " it from their clueless perspectives and can't feel

it from my own. I minimize my needs and perspectives.

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> > I just got a happy birthday call on my work # from fada. I hung

up

> as

> > soon as I heard his voice.

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> > It's so against my nature to do this and I HATE IT! I hate

having to

> > say No over and over again in word and action and not being

> respected.

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> > Even being NC sucks! But I know it's better than being on the

roller

> > coaster of BP.

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