Guest guest Posted January 16, 2007 Report Share Posted January 16, 2007 I am interested in all viewpoints on this. Soon I have to go to a hearing to hopefully obtain a court order to get some peace from my nada. All I really know about what will happen is I give my statement and then she rebuts. Last time the p.o. got us some reasonable peace and quiet. So that is what I am hoping for, but we have a different judge. Primarily, I asked for this court order b/c of threatening emails, letters, and stalking of members of my household. She has not tried to be nice, even in a manipulative way, in four years. My plan as of now is to just stick to the facts, present the threatening documents in question and hope for the best. It is embarassing to have to do this!!! If not for her following us and threatening us, I'd never have done this. Its impossible to ignore someone if they are upsetting your kids. Is the short and sweet idea the best? I want to not get sucked into any arguments (her lawyer will be present, but I think so long as I don't have a lawyer, there won't be any questioning. I just want to keep my dignity above all else. I'm so tired of this I would just pick up and move to Jamaice if I could. But I can't right now, but I don't want to fight. I just want to be left alone. Any ideas on how to cope with this??? My children are 100 percent in agreement, they don't want to spend any time with her, and my t. says no way should you enter back into contact. Wish me luck on staying calm and cool. It definitely feels like another dimension, to have to ask the state to get you some peace!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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