im not sure i believe katie

[Guest guest]

all of her stories about her life always end with how people love her and how

her approach changes people's mind.

i would like to hear her tell once about something realistic that happens, like

someone shouts her on the traffic.. and how she deals with it.

how she deals with people that aren't nice, or more accurate how she thinks

about it.. how can she stay positive.

[Guest guest]

she has and i cant recall where it is.. some guy pulled out a gun and he was

going to shoot her. not to mention having a cornea transplant

and not being able to see much..having cancer and periods of being paralysed.

and probably more..

if i read or hear of where this info is i will write again.. dont know at the

moment.. i think we naturally want to assume people who are happy have easier

lives and it isnt true..

i have assumed that often myself.. roslyn

-- In Loving-what-is , " facy102 " wrote:

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> all of her stories about her life always end with how people love her and how

her approach changes people's mind.

> i would like to hear her tell once about something realistic that happens,

like someone shouts her on the traffic.. and how she deals with it.

> how she deals with people that aren't nice, or more accurate how she thinks

about it.. how can she stay positive.

>

[Guest guest]

writing about the guy with the gun she said she felt sorry for him.. because

she knew if he did fire it.. he would hurt himself..

its not what others do to us that hurts us its what we do to hurt others that

hurts us. rh

-- In Loving-what-is , " facy102 " wrote:

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> all of her stories about her life always end with how people love her and how

her approach changes people's mind.

> i would like to hear her tell once about something realistic that happens,

like someone shouts her on the traffic.. and how she deals with it.

> how she deals with people that aren't nice, or more accurate how she thinks

about it.. how can she stay positive.

>

[Guest guest]

Facy,

What you are asking for is not possible. You are asking for to see

something and label it as a " problem " or as " wrong " . If you read about her life

during her first 46 years she experienced many problems but that was prior to

her " waking up " and The Work.

Steve

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> all of her stories about her life always end with how people love her and how

her approach changes people's mind.

> i would like to hear her tell once about something realistic that happens,

like someone shouts her on the traffic.. and how she deals with it.

> how she deals with people that aren't nice, or more accurate how she thinks

about it.. how can she stay positive.

>

[Guest guest]

i see what you mean.. if someone yelled at katie in traffic she wouldnt see that

as a problem.. so its not about staying positive.

its more not seeing negative in anything because shes so clear

this morning i was doing the work on i am not good enough.. which i do

believe..

i was also reading katie realized that her thoughts were not true.

which is frustrating because

i still see many of my thoughts are true

and someone on the hotline said sometimes the thoughts are true it isnt to prove

they arent true. which was helpful to me.

then i realized the stress was that i should be good enough..

or at least good enough in my evaluation of good enough.

maybe i shouldnt be good enough. does that make any sense..???

explain that to me steve.. thanks roslyn

-- In Loving-what-is , " Steve Daily " wrote:

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> Facy,

>

> What you are asking for is not possible. You are asking for to see

something and label it as a " problem " or as " wrong " . If you read about her life

during her first 46 years she experienced many problems but that was prior to

her " waking up " and The Work.

>

> Steve

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> > all of her stories about her life always end with how people love her and

how her approach changes people's mind.

> > i would like to hear her tell once about something realistic that happens,

like someone shouts her on the traffic.. and how she deals with it.

> > how she deals with people that aren't nice, or more accurate how she thinks

about it.. how can she stay positive.

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Actually has spoken many times about negative events: when husband No. 2

had his guns stolen,;when he threatened to leave her; when she got stuck in an

airport for hours while on her way to do the Work; when her mother was very ill

and subsequently died; sitting with others in their last day; thinking another

car was about to crash into hers. In each case she reacted without anger or fear

and in some instances enjoyment.

Vivian

Re: im not sure i believe katie

writing about the guy with the gun she said she felt sorry for him.. because

she knew if he did fire it.. he would hurt himself..

its not what others do to us that hurts us its what we do to hurt others that

hurts us. rh

-- In Loving-what-is , " facy102 " wrote:

>

> all of her stories about her life always end with how people love her and

how her approach changes people's mind.

> i would like to hear her tell once about something realistic that happens,

like someone shouts her on the traffic.. and how she deals with it.

> how she deals with people that aren't nice, or more accurate how she thinks

about it.. how can she stay positive.

>

[Guest guest]

maybe the relief would come if you didn't evaluate whether or not you are good

enough (and according to whose standards anyway?). Just BE.

Vivian

Re: im not sure i believe katie

i see what you mean.. if someone yelled at katie in traffic she wouldnt see

that as a problem.. so its not about staying positive.

its more not seeing negative in anything because shes so clear

this morning i was doing the work on i am not good enough.. which i do

believe..

i was also reading katie realized that her thoughts were not true.

which is frustrating because

i still see many of my thoughts are true

and someone on the hotline said sometimes the thoughts are true it isnt to

prove they arent true. which was helpful to me.

then i realized the stress was that i should be good enough..

or at least good enough in my evaluation of good enough.

maybe i shouldnt be good enough. does that make any sense..???

explain that to me steve.. thanks roslyn

-- In Loving-what-is , " Steve Daily " wrote:

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> Facy,

>

> What you are asking for is not possible. You are asking for to see

something and label it as a " problem " or as " wrong " . If you read about her life

during her first 46 years she experienced many problems but that was prior to

her " waking up " and The Work.

>

> Steve

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> > all of her stories about her life always end with how people love her and

how her approach changes people's mind.

> > i would like to hear her tell once about something realistic that happens,

like someone shouts her on the traffic.. and how she deals with it.

> > how she deals with people that aren't nice, or more accurate how she

thinks about it.. how can she stay positive.

> >

>

[Guest guest]

yes makes sense.. thanks

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> > > all of her stories about her life always end with how people love her

and how her approach changes people's mind.

> > > i would like to hear her tell once about something realistic that

happens, like someone shouts her on the traffic.. and how she deals with it.

> > > how she deals with people that aren't nice, or more accurate how she

thinks about it.. how can she stay positive.

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