Guest guest Posted December 31, 2006 Report Share Posted December 31, 2006 a, Thank you for bringing up such an important topic. I'll put a pot of coffee on and we'll discuss. ;o) One of my favorite quotes is from this very well known quantum physicist. She says that " a man sees a beautiful woman and his member gets hard. It wasn't a touch that brought him to arousal, it was a single thought. " Like all aspects of our lives, sex is in our brains. So that explains to me why my past experiences have made me take a step back and go, " Every verbal and physical message I got from my mother and father regarding sex, their fights about sex, their sexual life that they inappropriately told me about (like I could fix it), the abuse itself, all filled my little, precious childhood brain with their insanity with sex, sex roles, and relationships = how they never work b/c someone will always cheat and leave, etc. Absolutely, a. I would ask you what were the sexual roles; those " images " that you see know tell you now that you are a grown up? I'm going to joural mine. And even before I do that, I just thought of some, and felt this headache come on, and an angry feeling at how insane their messages were. So just by thinking directly about what they crammed in my head, caused a headache. I don't feel very sexy right now. LOL. Party Mass and Party Safely, Greg. Is a low sex drive part of a KO thing? Anyone out there find his/her sex drive tied into the KO upbringing? My drive has been really low for the last 5 years or so, basically once I two years into my marriage when I started to trying to live up to images of being a wife and mother and homemaker. I'm not sure where all the images come from, but I'm sure lots of it is tied into Nada. Anyone have any thoughts? a __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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