Re: My heart is broken

[Guest guest]

I am sorry to hear that you lost your furry friend!

You can look into rescuing a young small dog. The fee for rescue is usually

much smaller than buying from a breeder. Plus, you would be helping with pet

overpopulation. I am sure there are lots of rescue groups in your area.

www.petfinder is a good place to start looking.

As far as small breeds go I love beagles, JRT's, Daschunds, Cavalier King

Spaniels, and Bichons. Although Bichons need monthly grooming which is

expensive.

;-) Cristen in NC

[ ] My heart is broken

Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very smart.

Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd been doing,

he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures all of a

sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to take his

place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to care for,

and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have for me? I

don't know much about the smaller breeds.

Dennis

[Guest guest]

I am sorry to hear that you lost your furry friend!

You can look into rescuing a young small dog. The fee for rescue is usually

much smaller than buying from a breeder. Plus, you would be helping with pet

overpopulation. I am sure there are lots of rescue groups in your area.

www.petfinder is a good place to start looking.

As far as small breeds go I love beagles, JRT's, Daschunds, Cavalier King

Spaniels, and Bichons. Although Bichons need monthly grooming which is

expensive.

;-) Cristen in NC

[ ] My heart is broken

Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very smart.

Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd been doing,

he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures all of a

sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to take his

place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to care for,

and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have for me? I

don't know much about the smaller breeds.

Dennis

[Guest guest]

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Hi Dennis. So sorry about your loss. I know how hard it is to lose

a beloved pet. As far as breeds go you might consider a Boston

Terrior. I bought one almost three years ago as a gift for my FIL

and it has worked out very well. The are very smart, curious, good

with children and other animals and low maintenance. Good luck to

you!

-- In , " Dennis W " <betnden@a...> wrote:

> Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

> veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very

smart.

> Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd

been doing,

> he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures

all of a

> sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to

take his

> place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

> I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to

care for,

> and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have

for me? I

> don't know much about the smaller breeds.

>

> Dennis

[Guest guest]

-

Hi Dennis. So sorry about your loss. I know how hard it is to lose

a beloved pet. As far as breeds go you might consider a Boston

Terrior. I bought one almost three years ago as a gift for my FIL

and it has worked out very well. The are very smart, curious, good

with children and other animals and low maintenance. Good luck to

you!

-- In , " Dennis W " <betnden@a...> wrote:

> Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

> veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very

smart.

> Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd

been doing,

> he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures

all of a

> sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to

take his

> place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

> I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to

care for,

> and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have

for me? I

> don't know much about the smaller breeds.

>

> Dennis

[Guest guest]

----- Original Message -----

From: Dennis W

> Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

veterinarian hospital.

Dennis, I'm so sorry for your loss.

Nina

I REMEMBER

(In memory of beloved pets who are gone, but not forgotten.)

I stood by your bed last night, I came to have a peep.

I could see that you were crying. You found it hard to sleep.

I whined to you softly as you brushed away a tear,

" It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here. "

I was close to you at breakfast, I watched you pour the tea,

You were thinking of the many times your hands reached down to me.

I was with you at the shops today. Your arms were getting sore.

I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.

I was with you at my grave today, You tend it with such care.

I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.

I walked with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.

I gently put my paw on you, I smiled and said " It's me. "

You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair.

I tried so hard to let you know, that I was standing there.

It's possible for me to be so near you everyday.

To say to you with certainty, " I never went away. "

You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...

in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.

The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning

and say " Good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning. "

And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,

I'll rush across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.

I have so many things to show you, there is so much for you to see.

Be patient, live your journey out... then come home to be with me.

- Author unknown

[Guest guest]

----- Original Message -----

From: Dennis W

> Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

veterinarian hospital.

Dennis, I'm so sorry for your loss.

Nina

I REMEMBER

(In memory of beloved pets who are gone, but not forgotten.)

I stood by your bed last night, I came to have a peep.

I could see that you were crying. You found it hard to sleep.

I whined to you softly as you brushed away a tear,

" It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here. "

I was close to you at breakfast, I watched you pour the tea,

You were thinking of the many times your hands reached down to me.

I was with you at the shops today. Your arms were getting sore.

I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.

I was with you at my grave today, You tend it with such care.

I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.

I walked with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.

I gently put my paw on you, I smiled and said " It's me. "

You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair.

I tried so hard to let you know, that I was standing there.

It's possible for me to be so near you everyday.

To say to you with certainty, " I never went away. "

You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...

in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.

The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning

and say " Good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning. "

And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,

I'll rush across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.

I have so many things to show you, there is so much for you to see.

Be patient, live your journey out... then come home to be with me.

- Author unknown

[Guest guest]

----- Original Message -----

From: Dennis W

> I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to care for,

and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have for me? I

don't know much about the smaller breeds.

You can go to http://www.akc.org and check out the various breeds for size,

temperament, coat, etc. Then when you think you've found something you might be

interested in, check for a rescue group for that breed of dog. You can google

" rescue (your state)(breed of dog) " to find the closest rescue organization for

that breed. Or you could go to petfinder and look around for a dog that is

appealing to you. Or visit your local shelter and see what they have available.

I have 9 dogs and only 2 of them were " bought " from a breeder for a specific

purpose. The rest are either rescues that we fostered/adopted or bought from

someone to get them out of poor living conditions.

You'll probably want to get something with a really short coat so you won't have

any major grooming to do (I wish mine required less grooming now that I have

RA).

Good luck on finding a new buddy and keep us posted on how the search is going.

Nina

[Guest guest]

----- Original Message -----

From: Dennis W

> I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to care for,

and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have for me? I

don't know much about the smaller breeds.

You can go to http://www.akc.org and check out the various breeds for size,

temperament, coat, etc. Then when you think you've found something you might be

interested in, check for a rescue group for that breed of dog. You can google

" rescue (your state)(breed of dog) " to find the closest rescue organization for

that breed. Or you could go to petfinder and look around for a dog that is

appealing to you. Or visit your local shelter and see what they have available.

I have 9 dogs and only 2 of them were " bought " from a breeder for a specific

purpose. The rest are either rescues that we fostered/adopted or bought from

someone to get them out of poor living conditions.

You'll probably want to get something with a really short coat so you won't have

any major grooming to do (I wish mine required less grooming now that I have

RA).

Good luck on finding a new buddy and keep us posted on how the search is going.

Nina

[Guest guest]

I'm so sorry about your pet. It is so devastating to lose a friend like that.

My vote is for spaniels. I love them...they are smart, friendly, and cuddly.

The ancient Celts actually had laws establishing how many spaniels a woman had

to be provided with by her husband, depending on her station in life. Look in

the newspapers for someone giving away puppies, or even a more mature dog, and

check the local humane society. There are even some " non-euthanasia " shelters

run by animal rights groups. Since they keep the animals until they are

adopted, they usually are very happy to have you take one.

Cristen s <cdharriss@...> wrote:

I am sorry to hear that you lost your furry friend!

You can look into rescuing a young small dog. The fee for rescue is usually

much smaller than buying from a breeder. Plus, you would be helping with pet

overpopulation. I am sure there are lots of rescue groups in your area.

www.petfinder is a good place to start looking.

As far as small breeds go I love beagles, JRT's, Daschunds, Cavalier King

Spaniels, and Bichons. Although Bichons need monthly grooming which is

expensive.

;-) Cristen in NC

[ ] My heart is broken

Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very smart.

Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd been doing,

he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures all of a

sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to take his

place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to care for,

and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have for me? I

don't know much about the smaller breeds.

Dennis

[Guest guest]

I'm so sorry about your pet. It is so devastating to lose a friend like that.

My vote is for spaniels. I love them...they are smart, friendly, and cuddly.

The ancient Celts actually had laws establishing how many spaniels a woman had

to be provided with by her husband, depending on her station in life. Look in

the newspapers for someone giving away puppies, or even a more mature dog, and

check the local humane society. There are even some " non-euthanasia " shelters

run by animal rights groups. Since they keep the animals until they are

adopted, they usually are very happy to have you take one.

Cristen s <cdharriss@...> wrote:

I am sorry to hear that you lost your furry friend!

You can look into rescuing a young small dog. The fee for rescue is usually

much smaller than buying from a breeder. Plus, you would be helping with pet

overpopulation. I am sure there are lots of rescue groups in your area.

www.petfinder is a good place to start looking.

As far as small breeds go I love beagles, JRT's, Daschunds, Cavalier King

Spaniels, and Bichons. Although Bichons need monthly grooming which is

expensive.

;-) Cristen in NC

[ ] My heart is broken

Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very smart.

Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd been doing,

he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures all of a

sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to take his

place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to care for,

and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have for me? I

don't know much about the smaller breeds.

Dennis

[Guest guest]

You might look in your local paper to see if someone is trying

to give away puppies............Joyce M

[ ] My heart is broken

Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very smart.

Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd been doing,

he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures all of a

sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to take his

place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to care for,

and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have for me? I

don't know much about the smaller breeds.

Dennis

[Guest guest]

You might look in your local paper to see if someone is trying

to give away puppies............Joyce M

[ ] My heart is broken

Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very smart.

Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd been doing,

he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures all of a

sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to take his

place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to care for,

and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have for me? I

don't know much about the smaller breeds.

Dennis

[Guest guest]

I'm so sorry to hear about your furry friend, Dennis. I know what

it's like. I have a Bichon now who I love dearly but grooming is

difficult. They are very attached loving lap dogs but I agree with

the others who suggest newspaper ads & shelters or rescues. Sometime

when people move they are forced to give up their dogs & either place

an ad or let their vet know. You might want to check that out.

You'll probably will never love another dog the same way but believe

me when I say, you will find a new companion who you will love dearly.

Warmly,

Lori

> Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

> veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very

smart.

> Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd

been doing,

> he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures

all of a

> sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to

take his

> place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

> I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to

care for,

> and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have

for me? I

> don't know much about the smaller breeds.

>

> Dennis

[Guest guest]

I'm so sorry to hear about your furry friend, Dennis. I know what

it's like. I have a Bichon now who I love dearly but grooming is

difficult. They are very attached loving lap dogs but I agree with

the others who suggest newspaper ads & shelters or rescues. Sometime

when people move they are forced to give up their dogs & either place

an ad or let their vet know. You might want to check that out.

You'll probably will never love another dog the same way but believe

me when I say, you will find a new companion who you will love dearly.

Warmly,

Lori

> Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

> veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very

smart.

> Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd

been doing,

> he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures

all of a

> sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to

take his

> place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

> I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to

care for,

> and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have

for me? I

> don't know much about the smaller breeds.

>

> Dennis

[Guest guest]

Dennis,

I'm sorry for the loss of your companion. I know how hard it is for

you right now. I had a lab for 14 yrs, and he passed away a couple of

years ago. It is very hard.

The Jack russell terrier's are so adorable and smart. We have a rat

terrier, and she is very smart, and is a good dog. We got her a few

months back, out of the local paper, and gave only $50. I notice

they are not too expensive.

I will pray that you will find another dog, that will work for you.

I still cry over my lab, just think of all the good times you shared

with him over the years.

Take care,

Tawny

> Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

> veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very

smart.

> Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd

been doing,

> he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures

all of a

> sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to

take his

> place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

> I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to

care for,

> and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have

for me? I

> don't know much about the smaller breeds.

>

> Dennis

[Guest guest]

Dennis,

I'm sorry for the loss of your companion. I know how hard it is for

you right now. I had a lab for 14 yrs, and he passed away a couple of

years ago. It is very hard.

The Jack russell terrier's are so adorable and smart. We have a rat

terrier, and she is very smart, and is a good dog. We got her a few

months back, out of the local paper, and gave only $50. I notice

they are not too expensive.

I will pray that you will find another dog, that will work for you.

I still cry over my lab, just think of all the good times you shared

with him over the years.

Take care,

Tawny

> Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

> veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very

smart.

> Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd

been doing,

> he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures

all of a

> sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to

take his

> place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

> I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to

care for,

> and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have

for me? I

> don't know much about the smaller breeds.

>

> Dennis

[Guest guest]

Dennis, I am sooo sorry for your loss. I know how that is. It sure

is amazing how those little critters leave such loving footprints on

our hearts. My dad has a terrier mix. Not sure what the mix is,

though. She is a smart little cookie. Jack Russels are such

wonderful dogs. My sister has a chow lab mix. She is a bit bigger

than a Jack Russel but is a wonderful and smart dog. My last dog

was a poodle peekinese mix. She was a very intelligent mut as well.

How old was your dog? They are like our children. My older cat,

who is 15 now, treats me as if I were HER child. She is so

motherly, knowing when I need a little love, when I am in pain,

ect., ect. Again, please accept my condolences......Marina

> Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

> veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very

smart.

> Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd

been doing,

> he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures

all of a

> sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to

take his

> place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

> I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to

care for,

> and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have

for me? I

> don't know much about the smaller breeds.

>

> Dennis

[Guest guest]

Dennis, I am sooo sorry for your loss. I know how that is. It sure

is amazing how those little critters leave such loving footprints on

our hearts. My dad has a terrier mix. Not sure what the mix is,

though. She is a smart little cookie. Jack Russels are such

wonderful dogs. My sister has a chow lab mix. She is a bit bigger

than a Jack Russel but is a wonderful and smart dog. My last dog

was a poodle peekinese mix. She was a very intelligent mut as well.

How old was your dog? They are like our children. My older cat,

who is 15 now, treats me as if I were HER child. She is so

motherly, knowing when I need a little love, when I am in pain,

ect., ect. Again, please accept my condolences......Marina

> Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

> veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very

smart.

> Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd

been doing,

> he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures

all of a

> sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to

take his

> place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

> I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to

care for,

> and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have

for me? I

> don't know much about the smaller breeds.

>

> Dennis

[Guest guest]

Dennis:

I am sorry that you lost your beloved pet. Animals love

unconditionally, and for many of us it's heartbreaking to lose them. I

would suggest checking out your local JRT rescue foundation...or do a

search online for it. They have many all across North America.

All the best...

--- In , " Dennis W " <betnden@a...>

wrote:

> Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

> veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very

smart.

> Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd been

doing,

> he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures

all of a

> sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to

take his

> place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

> I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to care

for,

> and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have

for me? I

> don't know much about the smaller breeds.

>

> Dennis

[Guest guest]

Dennis:

I am sorry that you lost your beloved pet. Animals love

unconditionally, and for many of us it's heartbreaking to lose them. I

would suggest checking out your local JRT rescue foundation...or do a

search online for it. They have many all across North America.

All the best...

> Last Friday night, my companion of a number of years died inn the

> veterinarian hospital. He was a Jack Terrier and was very

smart.

> Now, I am having a problem dealing with it. When I do things I'd been

doing,

> he's not there like he was supposed to be. He was having seizures

all of a

> sudden, but we don't know the reason. Now I need another dog to

take his

> place. I think that's the easier way to get over his passing.

> I can't afford much, but want a smart, small dog that's easy to care

for,

> and I can train from the beginning. What suggestions do you have

for me? I

> don't know much about the smaller breeds.

>

> Dennis

[Guest guest]

i am so sorry to hear about your loss. i got my terrier mix at an animal

shelter. i paid $75, that was 12 years ago. she is very smart too. she will be

14 this year and still going strong. loves to walk at least twice a day. also

know i will have a hard time when she passes and i will have to get another

dog right away. good luck to you dennis.

kathy in il

[Guest guest]

i am so sorry to hear about your loss. i got my terrier mix at an animal

shelter. i paid $75, that was 12 years ago. she is very smart too. she will be

14 this year and still going strong. loves to walk at least twice a day. also

know i will have a hard time when she passes and i will have to get another

dog right away. good luck to you dennis.

kathy in il

[Guest guest]

Dennis,

I agree that the easiest way to get over the loss of a loved pet is

to get another one but don't rush into it. Take your time to grieve

over the loss of this pet.

I lost my best friend Babe about 8 years ago and I rushed right out

and replaced her with another puppy of the same breed. I couldn't

give this puppy the real love she needed as I kept thinking about

Babe. We didn't give Minnie any less love but I couldn't bond with

her as I had with Babe.

I would advise getting a different kind of dog - one that is nothing

like your Jack Terrier. That may have been my mistake -

both Babe and Minnie were White German Shepherds. Minnie died a few

years back from cancer - she bonded with my husband and was a very

happy dog. We have 2 left Mickie her hubby and Sissie their

daughter.

I grieve with you as I know how much a loss of a pet hurts. My

prayers are with you.

God bless,

Althea

[Guest guest]

Dennis,

I agree that the easiest way to get over the loss of a loved pet is

to get another one but don't rush into it. Take your time to grieve

over the loss of this pet.

I lost my best friend Babe about 8 years ago and I rushed right out

and replaced her with another puppy of the same breed. I couldn't

give this puppy the real love she needed as I kept thinking about

Babe. We didn't give Minnie any less love but I couldn't bond with

her as I had with Babe.

I would advise getting a different kind of dog - one that is nothing

like your Jack Terrier. That may have been my mistake -

both Babe and Minnie were White German Shepherds. Minnie died a few

years back from cancer - she bonded with my husband and was a very

happy dog. We have 2 left Mickie her hubby and Sissie their

daughter.

I grieve with you as I know how much a loss of a pet hurts. My

prayers are with you.

God bless,

Althea

[Guest guest]

Oh, man, I am so sorry. We have a 15 year old australian cattle dog,

and I'm dreading the day she goes. She's been through a lot with me.

I'd still consider a jrt. They are relatively inexpensive (around

$300 as opposed to close to $1000 for a fox terrier in our area) and

are great companions. Actually, if you like the jrt's, I'd recommend

just about any of the " true " terriers...rat terrier, westie, fox

(including the minis), etc.

If you don't mind getting a slightly larger dog that is a little less

expensive than a jrt but still has a lot of energy, intelligence,

and " spunk " , look into australian cattle dogs. They also go by blue

heeler and queensland heeler. They take a " firm hand " , and so aren't

for everybody, but since you've enjoyed a jrt, you probably can

handle, and would like, a heeler. I've seen them in the papers out

here for as little as $50, but usually run $150-300. They weigh, on

average, about 40 lbs. They are a few inches taller than a long-

legged jrt, and MUCH wider (we're talking little tanks, here).

Good luck. Just rememeber the new dog will never replace your guy,

but your grief will get better over time, and the good memories will

replace the sadness.