Re: Marla

[Guest guest]

Welcome to the group.

Best wishes,

--- mmp464@... wrote:

> Thank you very kindly. Yes i became new to the group

> about a few days ago. I

> had became a little discouraged about a few days

> ago, about the fact i had

> not been able to concieve yet; So i emailed Dr.

> Levin, and he gave me hope,

> he also invited me to join the group so i did; Ever

> since then i have been on

> the computer doing alot of reading of the different

> posts and experiences of

> the different women. I am a little shy, that's why

> you probably have not seen

> me on the posts to much. First let me officially

> introduce myself. My name is

> Marla Peeler, i am a 37 year old housewife, this is

> my second marriage of 7

> 1/2 years. My first marriage was abusive, also

> sometime after that marriage i

> had my tubes tied. After having 5 babies. I have a

> dau. who is 18, a son 17,

> a son 15, a son 13, a son 10, and a grandson 1. And

> a good man who married me

> with all these kids. Kids that are not fathered by

> him. So the greatest gift

> i want to give to him is his own. I had my TR Dec.

> 99 and been trying ever

> since. I do have a follow-up Fri. with Dr. Levin so

> say a little prayer for

> me.

>

>

> Thanks for listening, and feel better soon

>

> Marla

> mmp464@...

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been

> removed]

>

>

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ME! 37

DH 34

DD 15

DD 7

TL 11/95

TR summer 2002!

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[Guest guest]

Marla,

Thank you for the kind words. Yes, it is very hard to not shelter them or want

to. I've always been very protective of my boys, but is 22 and has grown

into a wonderful young man, whom I am very proud of. I hate what he is going

through and I know in my heart he has to get through it in his way and in his

time, but that doesn't stop me from wanting to take it all away from him. I'm

praying for his healing and I really feel that is all I can do at this point,

besides let him know I'm here. I believe he knows that all too well. From what I

know, he will only be here on leave next week, then there is the talk of a

medical discharge. This is going to kill his ego. He wanted this so bad. I just

want to hug him and I have asked if I can see him long enough when he does get

home to do so. I've not seen him in 7 months. That hug is long over due.

Again, thank you for the kind words. I must stop worrying, here it is nearly 2am

and I'm still up.

Hugs,

~Tommie~

www.myspace.com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.

Lotacats

Hi,

This is totally off topic, but I really need to talk to you about my son. He

is back at base right now. About a month ago he got cellulitis in his ankle,

infected to the bone. I think I might have told you about this. Anyway, they

sent him to Germany via Med a vac because he wasn't responding to IV antibiotics

there in Afghanistan. He has been severely depressed after the 1st week of being

at war. War has done a number on him mentally. He was only over there for a

month and OMG cats, he is in horrible shape. He won't hardly talk to anyone. He

has horrible nightmares, flash backs and anger issues. Is there anything I can

do to help him? He's supposed to be coming home next week, but he won't come to

my home, he will go to his fiancee's. I've gotten word from a friend of his here

that they are talking about medical discharge with 75%pay. He is in such bad

shape and I feel so helpless. I knew this was going to happen to him. I just

knew it. I tried so hard to talk him into not going in the Army, but he wanted

this so bad. He wanted to go fight for his Country. It totally breaks my heart

to know the shape he is in. He is to b in town the 14th or 15th. The only reason

he has contacted this friend is because he fought in Nam. He's 70 yrs old with

lots of wisdom. I'm hoping he can help him.

Any words of advise from you would be greatly appreciated. I'm so worried

about him.

Thanks and many hug,

~Tommie~

www.myspace.com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.

[Guest guest]

hi tommie and lotacats i hope you 2 have less pain and get a good nites sleep

and tommie sence you are allmost 72 i have a old walker with 1 broken wheel do

you want it donnie

Subject: Re: Marla

To: Hugs-N-Pain

Date: Sunday, October 11, 2009, 6:48 AM

 

Marla,

Thank you for the kind words. Yes, it is very hard to not shelter them or want

to. I've always been very protective of my boys, but is 22 and has grown

into a wonderful young man, whom I am very proud of. I hate what he is going

through and I know in my heart he has to get through it in his way and in his

time, but that doesn't stop me from wanting to take it all away from him. I'm

praying for his healing and I really feel that is all I can do at this point,

besides let him know I'm here. I believe he knows that all too well. From what I

know, he will only be here on leave next week, then there is the talk of a

medical discharge. This is going to kill his ego. He wanted this so bad. I just

want to hug him and I have asked if I can see him long enough when he does get

home to do so. I've not seen him in 7 months. That hug is long over due.

Again, thank you for the kind words. I must stop worrying, here it is nearly 2am

and I'm still up.

Hugs,

~Tommie~

www.myspace. com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.

Lotacats

Hi,

This is totally off topic, but I really need to talk to you about my son. He is

back at base right now. About a month ago he got cellulitis in his ankle,

infected to the bone. I think I might have told you about this. Anyway, they

sent him to Germany via Med a vac because he wasn't responding to IV antibiotics

there in Afghanistan. He has been severely depressed after the 1st week of being

at war. War has done a number on him mentally. He was only over there for a

month and OMG cats, he is in horrible shape. He won't hardly talk to anyone. He

has horrible nightmares, flash backs and anger issues. Is there anything I can

do to help him? He's supposed to be coming home next week, but he won't come to

my home, he will go to his fiancee's. I've gotten word from a friend of his here

that they are talking about medical discharge with 75%pay. He is in such bad

shape and I feel so helpless. I knew this was going to happen to him. I just

knew it. I tried so hard

to talk him into not going in the Army, but he wanted this so bad. He wanted to

go fight for his Country. It totally breaks my heart to know the shape he is in.

He is to b in town the 14th or 15th. The only reason he has contacted this

friend is because he fought in Nam. He's 70 yrs old with lots of wisdom. I'm

hoping he can help him.

Any words of advise from you would be greatly appreciated. I'm so worried about

him.

Thanks and many hug,

~Tommie~

www.myspace. com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.