Guest guest Posted August 2, 2001 Report Share Posted August 2, 2001 WELL I JUST SPOKE TO MELISSA HAD TO CALL HER AS I JUST CAN NOT WATCH THE BABY TODAY SO I NEEDED TO FIND OUT HOW SICK SHE WAS FIRST SO THE CAT IS OUT OF THE BAG ABOUT WHAT HAS BEEN GOING ON WITH ME AND MY LEGS AND PAIN SHE WAS SO ANGRY AT ME FOR NOT TELLING HER SOONER TOLD HER I DID NOT WANT ANYONE TO KNOW UNTIL AFTER MRI AND NEUROLOGIST APPT TOLD HER I NOW NEED TO USE A CANE AND I WILL NOT BE GOING TO THE PARTY ON SUNDAY--AS I DO NOT WANT QUESTIONS ABOUT THE CANE AND ETC--SO SHE WILL TAKE GIFT FOR ME TOLD HER NOT TO SAY A WORD TO ANYONE!!!!!!!!!!!! ABOUT THIS SO WHEN KIRA WAKES UP SHE TOLD ME TO CALL LONNIE TO COME GET HER AND TAKE HER TO DAY CARE I FEEL SO BADLY--THESE ARE MY GRAND CHILDREN AND RIGHT NOW ATLEAST I HOPE FOR RIGHT NOW I CAN NOT WATCH OR TAKE CARE OF THEM BEEN CRYING MY EYES OUT BUT I GUESS I NEEDED A GOOD CRY ANYWAY LIFE SUCKS BETSY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2001 Report Share Posted August 2, 2001 Bets..... I know ya love your grandkids, hon but they are NOT your responsibility !!!!! You GOT to take care of YOU right now, hon !!!!! 8^) WELL I JUST SPOKE TO MELISSA HAD TO CALL HER AS I JUST CAN NOT WATCH THE BABY TODAY SO I NEEDED TO FIND OUT HOW SICK SHE WAS FIRST SO THE CAT IS OUT OF THE BAG ABOUT WHAT HAS BEEN GOING ON WITH ME AND MY LEGS AND PAIN SHE WAS SO ANGRY AT ME FOR NOT TELLING HER SOONER TOLD HER I DID NOT WANT ANYONE TO KNOW UNTIL AFTER MRI AND NEUROLOGIST APPT TOLD HER I NOW NEED TO USE A CANE AND I WILL NOT BE GOING TO THE PARTY ON SUNDAY--AS I DO NOT WANT QUESTIONS ABOUT THE CANE AND ETC--SO SHE WILL TAKE GIFT FOR ME TOLD HER NOT TO SAY A WORD TO ANYONE!!!!!!!!!!!! ABOUT THIS SO WHEN KIRA WAKES UP SHE TOLD ME TO CALL LONNIE TO COME GET HER AND TAKE HER TO DAY CARE I FEEL SO BADLY--THESE ARE MY GRAND CHILDREN AND RIGHT NOW ATLEAST I HOPE FOR RIGHT NOW I CAN NOT WATCH OR TAKE CARE OF THEM BEEN CRYING MY EYES OUT BUT I GUESS I NEEDED A GOOD CRY ANYWAY LIFE SUCKS BETSY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2001 Report Share Posted August 2, 2001 BETS DON'T DO THIS TO YOUR SELF PLEASE. THIS IS NOTSOMETHING YOU CAN DO ANYTHING ABOUT. I AGREE WITH MELISSA THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER BEFORE NOW BUT I UNDERSTAND ABOUT NOT WANTING TO WORRY ANYONE ELSE UNTIL YOU FIND OUT ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. I JUST WISH THAT I COULD TAKE AWAY ALL THE WORRY AND PAIN YOU ARE GOING THROUGH AND THAT I WAS CLOSER SO I COULD HELP YOU WITH BUBI DUTY. HOW IS LARRY DOING IS HE HANGING IN THERE OK? LET ME KNOW IF I CAN DO ANYTHING FOR YOU. LUV U JO http://community.webtv.net/jowaca/JOSFAVORITEPICTURES WELL I JUST SPOKE TO MELISSA HAD TO CALL HER AS I JUST CAN NOT WATCH THE BABY TODAY SO I NEEDED TO FIND OUT HOW SICK SHE WAS FIRST SO THE CAT IS OUT OF THE BAG ABOUT WHAT HAS BEEN GOING ON WITH ME AND MY LEGS AND PAIN SHE WAS SO ANGRY AT ME FOR NOT TELLING HER SOONER TOLD HER I DID NOT WANT ANYONE TO KNOW UNTIL AFTER MRI AND NEUROLOGIST APPT TOLD HER I NOW NEED TO USE A CANE AND I WILL NOT BE GOING TO THE PARTY ON SUNDAY--AS I DO NOT WANT QUESTIONS ABOUT THE CANE AND ETC--SO SHE WILL TAKE GIFT FOR ME TOLD HER NOT TO SAY A WORD TO ANYONE!!!!!!!!!!!! ABOUT THIS SO WHEN KIRA WAKES UP SHE TOLD ME TO CALL LONNIE TO COME GET HER AND TAKE HER TO DAY CARE I FEEL SO BADLY--THESE ARE MY GRAND CHILDREN AND RIGHT NOW ATLEAST I HOPE FOR RIGHT NOW I CAN NOT WATCH OR TAKE CARE OF THEM BEEN CRYING MY EYES OUT BUT I GUESS I NEEDED A GOOD CRY ANYWAY LIFE SUCKS BETSY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 3, 2001 Report Share Posted August 3, 2001 JO THANKS SO MUCH KIRA CAME HOME REAL SICK FROM DAY CARE YESTERDAY MELISSA HAD TO GIVE HER ASTHMA TREATMENTS AND IT IS MY FAULT AS I COULD NOT WATCH HER SEE WILL KEEP MY MOUTH SHUT FROM NOW ON AND DO MY BUBI DUTY MELISSA HAD TO STAY HOME TODAY TO CARE FOR KIRA SHE IS HAVING ALOT OF PROBLEMS AT WORK AND DOES NOT NEED THIS NOW SHE IS MAIN INCOME LOVE BETSY BETS DON'T DO THIS TO YOUR SELF PLEASE. THIS IS NOTSOMETHING YOU CAN DO ANYTHING ABOUT. I AGREE WITH MELISSA THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER BEFORE NOW BUT I UNDERSTAND ABOUT NOT WANTING TO WORRY ANYONE ELSE UNTIL YOU FIND OUT ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. I JUST WISH THAT I COULD TAKE AWAY ALL THE WORRY AND PAIN YOU ARE GOING THROUGH AND THAT I WAS CLOSER SO I COULD HELP YOU WITH BUBI DUTY. HOW IS LARRY DOING IS HE HANGING IN THERE OK? LET ME KNOW IF I CAN DO ANYTHING FOR YOU. LUV U JO http://community.webtv.net/jowaca/JOSFAVORITEPICTURES Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 3, 2001 Report Share Posted August 3, 2001 Bets..... It is Not YOUR Fault that Kira is sick, hon !!! You didnt give birth to her, knowing you'd put her into day care !!!! Do you know that since Mikes mom died 3 years ago, We havent even been able to go to a show together ??!! Shes was the only babysitter we ever had, but thats not HER fault !!!!! Where the h*ll is Lonnie ??!!! Sorry, but it p*sses me off that You feel guilty, hon !!!! 8^) JO THANKS SO MUCH KIRA CAME HOME REAL SICK FROM DAY CARE YESTERDAY MELISSA HAD TO GIVE HER ASTHMA TREATMENTS AND IT IS MY FAULT AS I COULD NOT WATCH HER SEE WILL KEEP MY MOUTH SHUT FROM NOW ON AND DO MY BUBI DUTY MELISSA HAD TO STAY HOME TODAY TO CARE FOR KIRA SHE IS HAVING ALOT OF PROBLEMS AT WORK AND DOES NOT NEED THIS NOW SHE IS MAIN INCOME LOVE BETSY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 3, 2001 Report Share Posted August 3, 2001 KAREN I DO FEEL QUILTY ABOUT KIRA IF I WOULD HAVE KEPT HER YESTERDAY SHE WOULD HAVE HAD ONE ON ONE ATTENTION AND GOT HER ASTHMA TREATMENTS AND ETC IT IS MY FAULT SHE GOT SICKER LOVE BETS Bets..... It is Not YOUR Fault that Kira is sick, hon !!! You didnt give birth to her, knowing you'd put her into day care !!!! Do you know that since Mikes mom died 3 years ago, We havent even been able to go to a show together ??!! Shes was the only babysitter we ever had, but thats not HER fault !!!!! Where the h*ll is Lonnie ??!!! Sorry, but it p*sses me off that You feel guilty, hon !!!! 8^) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 3, 2001 Report Share Posted August 3, 2001 BETS IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT !!!!!!! YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE GUILTY ABOUT. IT IS ALSO NOT YOUR FAULT THAT MELISSA HAD TO TAKE OFF TODAY THAT IS LONNIES ALL BY HIS LONESOME. ON BOTH COUNTS HE COULD HAVE TAKEN CARE OF HIS OWN CHILD AS HE IS HOME ALL DAY TWEEDLING HIS THUMBS BUT HE DID NOT. HE COULD BE CARIN FOR KIRA TODAY BUT HE ISN'T. SHE IS HIS CHILD AND HIS RESPONSIBILITY NOT YOURS. YOU ARE BUBI NOT MOM OR DAD. SO GET OFF YOUR GUILT TRIP CAUSE IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. MELISSA'S BOSS BEING MAD AT HER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU EITHER THAT IS ON HER I LOVE YOU TO PIECES BUT YOU CAN NOT TAKE THE BLAME FOR THEM AND THEIR DOING. WHAT EVER HAPPENS IS UP TO THEM NOT YOU. AND BESIDES KIRA WOULD HAVE GOTTEN WORSE HAD SHE BEEN WITH YOU CAUSE ASTHMA IS LIKE THAT AND YOU KNOW BECAUSE YOU ALSO HAVE IT. LUV U JO http://community.webtv.net/jowaca/JOSFAVORITEPICTURES JO THANKS SO MUCH KIRA CAME HOME REAL SICK FROM DAY CARE YESTERDAY MELISSA HAD TO GIVE HER ASTHMA TREATMENTS AND IT IS MY FAULT AS I COULD NOT WATCH HER SEE WILL KEEP MY MOUTH SHUT FROM NOW ON AND DO MY BUBI DUTY MELISSA HAD TO STAY HOME TODAY TO CARE FOR KIRA SHE IS HAVING ALOT OF PROBLEMS AT WORK AND DOES NOT NEED THIS NOW SHE IS MAIN INCOME LOVE BETSY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 3, 2001 Report Share Posted August 3, 2001 You tell, her, Jo !!!!! I tried !!!! 8^) ALRIGHT BETS MY DEAR DAUGHTER, LISTEN TO YOUR SISTER!!! 'CAUSE THEY ARE MY WORDS ALSO!!! MOM Re: BREAKING MY HEART BETS IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT !!!!!!! YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE GUILTY ABOUT. IT IS ALSO NOT YOUR FAULT THAT MELISSA HAD TO TAKE OFF TODAY THAT IS LONNIES ALL BY HIS LONESOME. ON BOTH COUNTS HE COULD HAVE TAKEN CARE OF HIS OWN CHILD AS HE IS HOME ALL DAY TWEEDLING HIS THUMBS BUT HE DID NOT. HE COULD BE CARIN FOR KIRA TODAY BUT HE ISN'T. SHE IS HIS CHILD AND HIS RESPONSIBILITY NOT YOURS. YOU ARE BUBI NOT MOM OR DAD. SO GET OFF YOUR GUILT TRIP CAUSE IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. MELISSA'S BOSS BEING MAD AT HER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU EITHER THAT IS ON HER I LOVE YOU TO PIECES BUT YOU CAN NOT TAKE THE BLAME FOR THEM AND THEIR DOING. WHAT EVER HAPPENS IS UP TO THEM NOT YOU. AND BESIDES KIRA WOULD HAVE GOTTEN WORSE HAD SHE BEEN WITH YOU CAUSE ASTHMA IS LIKE THAT AND YOU KNOW BECAUSE YOU ALSO HAVE IT. LUV U JO http://community.webtv.net/jowaca/JOSFAVORITEPICTURES Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 3, 2001 Report Share Posted August 3, 2001 ALRIGHT BETS MY DEAR DAUGHTER, LISTEN TO YOUR SISTER!!! 'CAUSE THEY ARE MY WORDS ALSO!!! MOM Re: BREAKING MY HEART BETS IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT !!!!!!! YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE GUILTY ABOUT. IT IS ALSO NOT YOUR FAULT THAT MELISSA HAD TO TAKE OFF TODAY THAT IS LONNIES ALL BY HIS LONESOME. ON BOTH COUNTS HE COULD HAVE TAKEN CARE OF HIS OWN CHILD AS HE IS HOME ALL DAY TWEEDLING HIS THUMBS BUT HE DID NOT. HE COULD BE CARIN FOR KIRA TODAY BUT HE ISN'T. SHE IS HIS CHILD AND HIS RESPONSIBILITY NOT YOURS. YOU ARE BUBI NOT MOM OR DAD. SO GET OFF YOUR GUILT TRIP CAUSE IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. MELISSA'S BOSS BEING MAD AT HER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU EITHER THAT IS ON HER I LOVE YOU TO PIECES BUT YOU CAN NOT TAKE THE BLAME FOR THEM AND THEIR DOING. WHAT EVER HAPPENS IS UP TO THEM NOT YOU. AND BESIDES KIRA WOULD HAVE GOTTEN WORSE HAD SHE BEEN WITH YOU CAUSE ASTHMA IS LIKE THAT AND YOU KNOW BECAUSE YOU ALSO HAVE IT. LUV U JO http://community.webtv.net/jowaca/JOSFAVORITEPICTURES Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 3, 2001 Report Share Posted August 3, 2001 Betsy you do not need to feel guilty. You know deep down that if Kira had gotten worse at your house would have blamed the cigarette smoke. and Lonnie need to grow up and figure out how to deal with their children. It is very hard to balance jobs and kids, but we do it. I was the only support we had at one time and will be again when Mark gives up his paper route. Mark had to stay home when I couldn't miss work--it was not necessarily convenient for him either, but that is the way it works. God forbid you have an accident or something trying to take care of those children and something happen to you--then they would figure out how to go on without you. Its not easy and its fine for you to try and solve their problems when you can, but right now you need to care for yourself first--because no one else can. MJ / Mom to Will 1/6/94 and wife to Mark 5/19/90 Back to work as RN BSN CCRN Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 3, 2001 Report Share Posted August 3, 2001 Betsy are you sore from your "family" beating up on you yet. If it makes you feel better feeling guilty go ahead, but we know it is not your fault. You would care for those kids 24/7 if they asked you, but they are not you responsibility. MJ / Mom to Will 1/6/94 and wife to Mark 5/19/90 Back to work as RN BSN CCRN Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 3, 2001 Report Share Posted August 3, 2001 Boy, MJ !!! You got Bets down pat, hon !!! LOL ! 8^) Betsy are you sore from your "family" beating up on you yet. If it makes you feel better feeling guilty go ahead, but we know it is not your fault. You would care for those kids 24/7 if they asked you, but they are not you responsibility. MJ / Mom to Will 1/6/94 and wife to Mark 5/19/90 Back to work as RN BSN CCRN Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 3, 2001 Report Share Posted August 3, 2001 Right On MJ!!!!<G>! hugs, robin > Betsy you do not need to feel guilty. You know deep down that if Kira had > gotten worse at your house would have blamed the cigarette smoke. > and Lonnie need to grow up and figure out how to deal with their > children. It is very hard to balance jobs and kids, but we do it. I was the > only support we had at one time and will be again when Mark gives up his > paper route. Mark had to stay home when I couldn't miss work--it was not > necessarily convenient for him either, but that is the way it works. God > forbid you have an accident or something trying to take care of those > children and something happen to you--then they would figure out how to go on > without you. Its not easy and its fine for you to try and solve their > problems when you can, but right now you need to care for yourself > first--because no one else can. > > MJ / Mom to Will 1/6/94 and wife to Mark 5/19/90 > Back to work as RN BSN CCRN Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2001 Report Share Posted August 4, 2001 OK LADIES LESSON LEARNED!! SPOKE WITH MELISSA BEFORE I WENT FOR MRI - ALONE OF COURSE!! SHE SAID THE SAME THING!! ALSO OFFERED TO TAKE ME FOR MY MRI OR ANY OTHER PLACE OR DOC I HAVE TO GO TO DON " T WANT TO BE A BURDEN ON HER EITHER--AFTER ALL SHE IS JUST MY NEICE I WILL SURVIVE THIS!! AND LIVE WITH WHATEVER IT TURNS OUT TO BE TOOK A FALL IN HOUSE WHEN I GOT BACK FROM MRI TOOK LONGER TO GET UP THIS TIME OH WELL SUCH IS LIFE LOVE BETS You tell, her, Jo !!!!! I tried !!!! 8^) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2001 Report Share Posted August 4, 2001 Bets... glad to hear from ya, hon ! Did ya manage to get your Fri appt moved up ? I'm glad is acting like she should ! Dont say your 'just an aunt' !! You're like a mother to that girl, hon !!!! Your attitude seems a LOT better today, sweetie !! You hang in there, girl ! You're one of the Strongest women I know !!!!! 8^) OK LADIES LESSON LEARNED!! SPOKE WITH MELISSA BEFORE I WENT FOR MRI - ALONE OF COURSE!! SHE SAID THE SAME THING!! ALSO OFFERED TO TAKE ME FOR MY MRI OR ANY OTHER PLACE OR DOC I HAVE TO GO TO DON " T WANT TO BE A BURDEN ON HER EITHER--AFTER ALL SHE IS JUST MY NEICE I WILL SURVIVE THIS!! AND LIVE WITH WHATEVER IT TURNS OUT TO BE TOOK A FALL IN HOUSE WHEN I GOT BACK FROM MRI TOOK LONGER TO GET UP THIS TIME OH WELL SUCH IS LIFE LOVE BETS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2001 Report Share Posted August 4, 2001 MJ YOUR RIGHT SHE AND HE WOULD PROBABLY HAVE BLAMED IT ON CIGARETTE SMOKE EVEN THOUGH SHE DOES NOT GO ON MY LINAI WHERE WE SMOKE BUT HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF ME NOW AS NO ONE ELSE WILL OR WANTS TO LOVE BETSY Betsy you do not need to feel guilty. You know deep down that if Kira had gotten worse at your house would have blamed the cigarette smoke. and Lonnie need to grow up and figure out how to deal with their children. It is very hard to balance jobs and kids, but we do it. I was the only support we had at one time and will be again when Mark gives up his paper route. Mark had to stay home when I couldn't miss work--it was not necessarily convenient for him either, but that is the way it works. God forbid you have an accident or something trying to take care of those children and something happen to you--then they would figure out how to go on without you. Its not easy and its fine for you to try and solve their problems when you can, but right now you need to care for yourself first--because no one else can. MJ / Mom to Will 1/6/94 and wife to Mark 5/19/90 Back to work as RN BSN CCRN Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2001 Report Share Posted August 4, 2001 MY DEAR KAREN NO COULD NOT GET APPT PUSHED UP AS I AM A NEW PATIENT SO WILL JUST HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL FRIDAY IT WILL BE HERE SOON AS TIME GOES SO FAST JUST GOING WITH THE FLOW RIGHT NOW - THAT IS ALL I CAN DO JUST DO NOT WANT TO BE AROUND YOU KNOW WHO!!! BUT HAVE NO WHERE OR NOTHING TO DO TODAY - AND IT IS RAINING AS ALWAYS MAY SEE WHAT MELISSA AND KIDS ARE DOING CAN " T REST OR SLEEP HERE EITHER AS HE ALWAYS FINDS THINGS TO DO THAT WAKE ME UP OR PISS ME OFF OH GOD FORGIVE ME HOW I HATE THIS MAN MORE AND MORE EACH DAY HE IS SELFISH-USELESS AND WORTHLESS TO ME NOW MORE THAN EVER LOVE YA BETS Bets... glad to hear from ya, hon ! Did ya manage to get your Fri appt moved up ? I'm glad is acting like she should ! Dont say your 'just an aunt' !! You're like a mother to that girl, hon !!!! Your attitude seems a LOT better today, sweetie !! You hang in there, girl ! You're one of the Strongest women I know !!!!! 8^) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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