IM members of the group

[Guest guest]

I have tried to IM several other members on here, and I never get a

reply. Now at first I thought there was something wrong, maybe it

wasn't working. has been the only one I think who has ever

answered me back. I'm not angry or upset about it, I guess it just

seems really unfriendly to me, and I thought that's what we were here

for. I wonder if it would be different if I were also a woman (like

most of the group)and not a man. I don't flirt, and I don't hit on

anyone, so if you see me on here, it's safe to chat with me. My wife

is well aware that I spend time on here and reads my posts regularly(as

well as some of yours).