Guest guest Posted February 16, 2008 Report Share Posted February 16, 2008 > what about that ha? > i find myself many times just bored.. i watched all the tv i can see, > and wrote all the emails i could write, i have no one to meet or no > thing to do and i find myself just wander pointless and feeling bored. > what thoughts are around this? > whats up with this? If you dont want to be bored maybe you should take care of that and... I dont know, find yourself a hoby? T Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2008 Report Share Posted February 16, 2008 > If you dont want to be bored maybe you should take care of that > and... I dont know, find yourself a hoby? thanks grandma.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2008 Report Share Posted February 16, 2008 OK, so I lied - I have inquired into boredom before - I just checked my blog and found this inquiry, " Life shouldn't be so boring " : http://www.selfhappiness.com/2007/12/inquiry-life-shouldnt-be-so-boring.html With love, Jon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2008 Report Share Posted February 17, 2008 boredom just means that you would like to be engaged in an activity that makes you grow and experience newer facets of life. go out for a walk in the park. you will love it. nature is a natural booster :-) > > what about that ha? > i find myself many times just bored.. i watched all the tv i can see, > and wrote all the emails i could write, i have no one to meet or no > thing to do and i find myself just wander pointless and feeling bored. > what thoughts are around this? > whats up with this? > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 Ironically, I was sitting here thinking that if I could have one thing it would be calmness. Wisdom would be wonderful, but I aim for calmness. I've been aiming for it for quite awhile and seem no closer to achieving it as so many things in everyday life piss me off. So here you are Facy, seemingly having achieved calmness at least for the moment. But you describe it as boredom. Both equal one and the same, but one has positive connotations and one negative. You get to choose. Vivian boredom so im doing the work and i really feel it's effects, im calm more than ever and good things are happening to me.. or atleast thats my preception, i wouldn't know the difference. one thing i do expirience lately is boredom, i just find myself with nothing to do, not strssed.. just bored. i dont nessecerily think i should do something all the time, so today i found myself closing the tv and just being with it.. sat on the couch doing nothing.. i tell you i feel the need to allways have some kind of entertainment.. so i watched my mind searching for interesting things to think about..till the boredom of that overpowered me and i got up and decided going to he beach with m laptop writing to you about it.. it's not any interesting here.. generaly in life i do find with it more freedom in terms of daring more.. but i do find myself bored much of the time, no sense of purpus or exitment. im not sure what my question is anyway.. so any reference to this issue of boredom will be apriciated. facy. No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG - http://www.avg.com Version: 8.0.138 / Virus Database: 270.4.5/1535 - Release Date: 7/4/2008 5:03 PM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2008 Report Share Posted July 9, 2008 Hey Vivian, I'd love to hear about the things in everyday life that piss you off - seriously! With love, Jon > > Ironically, I was sitting here thinking that if I could have one thing it would be calmness. Wisdom would be wonderful, but I aim for calmness. I've been aiming for it for quite awhile and seem no closer to achieving it as so many things in everyday life piss me off. > > So here you are Facy, seemingly having achieved calmness at least for the moment. But you describe it as boredom. Both equal one and the same, but one has positive connotations and one negative. You get to choose. > > Vivian > boredom > > > so im doing the work and i really feel it's effects, im calm more > than ever and good things are happening to me.. or atleast thats my > preception, i wouldn't know the difference. > one thing i do expirience lately is boredom, i just find myself with > nothing to do, not strssed.. just bored. > i dont nessecerily think i should do something all the time, so today > i found myself closing the tv and just being with it.. sat on the > couch doing nothing.. i tell you i feel the need to allways have some > kind of entertainment.. so i watched my mind searching for > interesting things to think about..till the boredom of that > overpowered me and i got up and decided going to he beach with m > laptop writing to you about it.. > it's not any interesting here.. > generaly in life i do find with it more freedom in terms of daring > more.. but i do find myself bored much of the time, no sense of > purpus or exitment. > im not sure what my question is anyway.. so any reference to this > issue of boredom will be apriciated. > facy. > > > > > No virus found in this incoming message. > Checked by AVG - http://www.avg.com > Version: 8.0.138 / Virus Database: 270.4.5/1535 - Release Date: 7/4/2008 5:03 PM > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 10, 2008 Report Share Posted July 10, 2008 Hi Vivian, Interesting you say that on toughness - I was running this morning and all kinds of tough thoughts going through my head - " I should be doing more " , " I shouldn't be such a useless fuck " , getting really angry with myself - then a young guy riding his bike got, in my opinion, " too close " as he came past me, to which I muttered " fucking idiot " out loud and gave him a very dark look - if looks could kill and all that - in that moment I was. The wind was swirling, my mind was fighting that and feeling stormy itself. I wanted the whole world to 'fuck off and die' at one point. By the way, this was me running 5 miles this morning - only the second time I've done that this year, after almost two days of lying around on the floor, too tired to do anything physical - yet still I was a useless fuck according to my thinking :-) More and more I find that my high expectations are there to crucify myself and others on - ouch :-) With love and thanks, Jon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 10, 2008 Report Share Posted July 10, 2008 yea, what im expiriencing regarding that is many times when i stand in line.. for the mail, market, pharmacy, mcdonalds, for the doctor..etc. i allways getting angry when people try to cut in line, or when people try to get ahead of me when driving.. it really piss's me off.. or when strangers simply ordering me to do something.. like move my vehicle, or .. when they told me not to feed the cat. i think the thought family are " i should stand for myself " " they view me as weak " " they think they are better than me " " they dont respect me " " i sould show them how worthy i am " " i shouldn't let people step on me " " i should be folded and i should have spine " etc. > > Hi Vivian, > > Interesting you say that on toughness - I was running this morning and > all kinds of tough thoughts going through my head - " I should be doing > more " , " I shouldn't be such a useless fuck " , getting really angry with > myself - then a young guy riding his bike got, in my opinion, " too > close " as he came past me, to which I muttered " fucking idiot " out > loud and gave him a very dark look - if looks could kill and all that > - in that moment I was. > > The wind was swirling, my mind was fighting that and feeling stormy > itself. I wanted the whole world to 'fuck off and die' at one point. > > By the way, this was me running 5 miles this morning - only the second > time I've done that this year, after almost two days of lying around > on the floor, too tired to do anything physical - yet still I was a > useless fuck according to my thinking :-) > > More and more I find that my high expectations are there to crucify > myself and others on - ouch :-) > > With love and thanks, > > Jon > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 10, 2008 Report Share Posted July 10, 2008 hi facy, all cool stuff to do the work on, if that feels right - i notice that often i don't want to, i just want to stay with how i feel and let it be ok :-) " They don't respect me " is a great belief to inquire into - in my experience, most people don't even realize I exist in these situations - they are full of mental chatter and just trying to get on with life as best they can - that could just be me of course, rather than them :-) With love, Jon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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