Re: huge revelation about getting dressed!

[Guest guest]

Charlie,

I've used similar processes to desensitize myself

about that (getting up and out of the house) and other

things. Actually, almost every life activity of mine

was tainted by my FOO, so I've talked myself through

almost everything you can imagine. Some things, I

still have to do this. Getting going in the morning

is one of the toughest. I haven't blamed myself about

it for a long time. After all, as a child, I was

wired to deal with my nada’s crisis, being blamed, and

yelled at so often, starting before I even got out of

bed, and who wants to face another day of

FOO-lishness? (Sorry about that pun.)

One Non-BP Recovering Man

--- baast2play wrote:

> Charlotte,

>

> Congrats on the breakthrough! It's so wonderful

> when things start to

> click.

>

> I'm all for positive affirmations and I have had to

> do this as well.

>

> In fact, check out this cool concept I read about in

> my spiritual

> parenting newsletter:

> http://www.affirmagy.com/StoreFront.bok

>

> My nada loved to castrophize as well and if I tried

> to calm her down,

> she was just cycle up. I knew something was off

> though when I was in

> college in LA and she was warning me about a rapist

> on the lose in our

> hometown 600 miles away!

>

> Keep it up, Charlotte.

>

> a

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Thanks very much non for your feedback on my recent two posts. My

nada says almost daily, 'I just can't get going this morning.' There

must be projection involved in the mix, there. I am amazed at the

sheer AMOUNT of stuff you have overcome.

take care,

Charlie

>

> > Charlotte,

> >

> > Congrats on the breakthrough! It's so wonderful

> > when things start to

> > click.

> >

> > I'm all for positive affirmations and I have had to

> > do this as well.

> >

> > In fact, check out this cool concept I read about in

> > my spiritual

> > parenting newsletter:

> > http://www.affirmagy.com/StoreFront.bok

> >

> > My nada loved to castrophize as well and if I tried

> > to calm her down,

> > she was just cycle up. I knew something was off

> > though when I was in

> > college in LA and she was warning me about a rapist

> > on the lose in our

> > hometown 600 miles away!

> >

> > Keep it up, Charlotte.

> >

> > a

> >

> >

>

>

> __________________________________________________

>