Guest guest Posted January 18, 2011 Report Share Posted January 18, 2011 This is just my opinion, so take it for how it's offered.. Do you love your Partner more or a dust free home? When we get sick, some things have to move to the side. I would LOVE to hire a person to come in and clean a couple times a week.but if you've asked your partner and she says NO...then to keep going on about the issue would be like telling your partner " nothing you do is good enough, I want to hire someone to do the housework right " .. You've said she DOES work around the house..if she doesn't want someone to come in and do housework, and she's DOING what she thinks is the most important parts, then pushing the issue could be taken by her being told she's not " good enough " ...so is having a dust free home more important than keeping your Partner happy? I know that in my household, the dishes might go a day or two without being washed, I may not run the vacuum more than twice a week...and I NEVER dust (unless a spider is seen, then the entire area is stripped, cleaned and disinfected..I'm arachnophopic..) IF my partner were to offer to hire a housekeeper, I'd jump at the chance..BUT, I didn't WANT to have someone come in and he INSISTED, I'd be more than a little miffed and upset that my work wasn't good enough. Marta, AR If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. ~ Carradine From: Hugs-N-Pain [mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ] On Behalf Of mnbranch08@... Sent: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 11:45 AM To: Hugs-N-Pain Subject: Nedd Advice... I need a house keeper too... Im sick normally with my health issues but I try to do somethings at home... Barb tries but, not trying to be little the idea but she sometimes will vacuum the living room, lately did the laundry and dishes but well, she never dusts, never vacuum's the other rooms... Kitchen is tile ect ect... No bathrooms ect... I try not to say much cause of course I CANT do these things anymore and I feel bad saying anything... She tells me not to have a worker in two hours a week which she is eligable cause of her being disabled with her hands... So what do I do... I want to hire someone for a day a month and pay them, Im still fighting with her on this lol... Me being a little bit foo foo, I hate it... I clutter so does she, we need it but what do I do? She says no all the time and I have a big strain for this one... Before I was not so sick but I cant do them now... Im tired of trying too and with me having damaged my knee/leg now its worse cause I cant go anywhere without my walker... Any suggestions? Love and Peace Always Shaun and Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2011 Report Share Posted January 22, 2011 I do understand what your saying and Yes I do love her... Its just my asthma is effected as is my breathing... ON oxygen 24/7 and cpap at night I have trouble with all the dust... But yes I do understand what you are saying... And I will try to keep that in mind for future... I guess I will dig out my ole mask and just do it myself and stop whining... Love and Peace Always Shaun and Barb In a message dated 1/18/2011 11:10:38 P.M. Mountain Standard Time, myshadowridge@... writes: This is just my opinion, so take it for how it's offered.. Do you love your Partner more or a dust free home? When we get sick, some things have to move to the side. I would LOVE to hire a person to come in and clean a couple times a week.but if you've asked your partner and she says NO...then to keep going on about the issue would be like telling your partner " nothing you do is good enough, I want to hire someone to do the housework right " .. You've said she DOES work around the house..if she doesn't want someone to come in and do housework, and she's DOING what she thinks is the most important parts, then pushing the issue could be taken by her being told she's not " good enough " ...so is having a dust free home more important than keeping your Partner happy? I know that in my household, the dishes might go a day or two without being washed, I may not run the vacuum more than twice a week...and I NEVER dust (unless a spider is seen, then the entire area is stripped, cleaned and disinfected..I'm arachnophopic..) IF my partner were to offer to hire a housekeeper, I'd jump at the chance..BUT, I didn't WANT to have someone come in and he INSISTED, I'd be more than a little miffed and upset that my work wasn't good enough. Marta, AR If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. ~ Carradine From: _Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ) [mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ) ] On Behalf Of _mnbranch08@..._ (mailto:mnbranch08@...) Sent: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 11:45 AM To: _Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ) Subject: Nedd Advice... I need a house keeper too... Im sick normally with my health issues but I try to do somethings at home... Barb tries but, not trying to be little the idea but she sometimes will vacuum the living room, lately did the laundry and dishes but well, she never dusts, never vacuum's the other rooms... Kitchen is tile ect ect... No bathrooms ect... I try not to say much cause of course I CANT do these things anymore and I feel bad saying anything... She tells me not to have a worker in two hours a week which she is eligable cause of her being disabled with her hands... So what do I do... I want to hire someone for a day a month and pay them, Im still fighting with her on this lol... Me being a little bit foo foo, I hate it... I clutter so does she, we need it but what do I do? She says no all the time and I have a big strain for this one... Before I was not so sick but I cant do them now... Im tired of trying too and with me having damaged my knee/leg now its worse cause I cant go anywhere without my walker... Any suggestions? Love and Peace Always Shaun and Barb [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2011 Report Share Posted January 22, 2011 I hate housework anyway so its no skin off my nose, but its really needing a good cleaning... We will figure it out... Love and Peace Always Shaun and Barb In a message dated 1/22/2011 4:59:58 P.M. Mountain Standard Time, myshadowridge@... writes: Stirring up the dust (by dusting) is actually WORSE for you than letting it sit……even if you wear a mask when you actually DUST, it stays in the air for hours and can bring on an asthma attack….. Marta, AR If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. ~ Carradine From: _Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ) [mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ) ] On Behalf Of _mnbranch08@..._ (mailto:mnbranch08@...) Sent: Saturday, January 22, 2011 4:28 PM To: _Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ) Subject: Re: Need Advice... I do understand what your saying and Yes I do love her... Its just my asthma is effected as is my breathing... ON oxygen 24/7 and cpap at night I have trouble with all the dust... But yes I do understand what you are saying... And I will try to keep that in mind for future... I guess I will dig out my ole mask and just do it myself and stop whining... Love and Peace Always Shaun and Barb In a message dated 1/18/2011 11:10:38 P.M. Mountain Standard Time, _myshadowridge@..._ (mailto:myshadowridge@...) <mailto:myshadowridge%40yahoo.com> writes: This is just my opinion, so take it for how it's offered.. Do you love your Partner more or a dust free home? When we get sick, some things have to move to the side. I would LOVE to hire a person to come in and clean a couple times a week.but if you've asked your partner and she says NO...then to keep going on about the issue would be like telling your partner " nothing you do is good enough, I want to hire someone to do the housework right " .. You've said she DOES work around the house..if she doesn't want someone to come in and do housework, and she's DOING what she thinks is the most important parts, then pushing the issue could be taken by her being told she's not " good enough " ...so is having a dust free home more important than keeping your Partner happy? I know that in my household, the dishes might go a day or two without being washed, I may not run the vacuum more than twice a week...and I NEVER dust (unless a spider is seen, then the entire area is stripped, cleaned and disinfected..I'm arachnophopic..) IF my partner were to offer to hire a housekeeper, I'd jump at the chance..BUT, I didn't WANT to have someone come in and he INSISTED, I'd be more than a little miffed and upset that my work wasn't good enough. Marta, AR If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. ~ Carradine From: __Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain ) <mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> _ (mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ) <mailto:Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> ) [mailto:__Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain ) <mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> _ (mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ) <mailto:Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> ) ] On Behalf Of __mnbranch08@..._ (mailto:_mnbranch08@...) <mailto:_mnbranch08%40aol.com> _ (mailto:_mnbranch08@..._ (mailto:mnbranch08@...) <mailto:mnbranch08%40aol.com> ) Sent: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 11:45 AM To: __Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain ) <mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> _ (mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ) <mailto:Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> ) Subject: Nedd Advice... I need a house keeper too... Im sick normally with my health issues but I try to do somethings at home... Barb tries but, not trying to be little the idea but she sometimes will vacuum the living room, lately did the laundry and dishes but well, she never dusts, never vacuum's the other rooms... Kitchen is tile ect ect... No bathrooms ect... I try not to say much cause of course I CANT do these things anymore and I feel bad saying anything... She tells me not to have a worker in two hours a week which she is eligable cause of her being disabled with her hands... So what do I do... I want to hire someone for a day a month and pay them, Im still fighting with her on this lol... Me being a little bit foo foo, I hate it... I clutter so does she, we need it but what do I do? She says no all the time and I have a big strain for this one... Before I was not so sick but I cant do them now... Im tired of trying too and with me having damaged my knee/leg now its worse cause I cant go anywhere without my walker... Any suggestions? Love and Peace Always Shaun and Barb [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2011 Report Share Posted January 22, 2011 Stirring up the dust (by dusting) is actually WORSE for you than letting it sit……even if you wear a mask when you actually DUST, it stays in the air for hours and can bring on an asthma attack….. Marta, AR If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. ~ Carradine From: Hugs-N-Pain [mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ] On Behalf Of mnbranch08@... Sent: Saturday, January 22, 2011 4:28 PM To: Hugs-N-Pain Subject: Re: Need Advice... I do understand what your saying and Yes I do love her... Its just my asthma is effected as is my breathing... ON oxygen 24/7 and cpap at night I have trouble with all the dust... But yes I do understand what you are saying... And I will try to keep that in mind for future... I guess I will dig out my ole mask and just do it myself and stop whining... Love and Peace Always Shaun and Barb In a message dated 1/18/2011 11:10:38 P.M. Mountain Standard Time, myshadowridge@... <mailto:myshadowridge%40yahoo.com> writes: This is just my opinion, so take it for how it's offered.. Do you love your Partner more or a dust free home? When we get sick, some things have to move to the side. I would LOVE to hire a person to come in and clean a couple times a week.but if you've asked your partner and she says NO...then to keep going on about the issue would be like telling your partner " nothing you do is good enough, I want to hire someone to do the housework right " .. You've said she DOES work around the house..if she doesn't want someone to come in and do housework, and she's DOING what she thinks is the most important parts, then pushing the issue could be taken by her being told she's not " good enough " ...so is having a dust free home more important than keeping your Partner happy? I know that in my household, the dishes might go a day or two without being washed, I may not run the vacuum more than twice a week...and I NEVER dust (unless a spider is seen, then the entire area is stripped, cleaned and disinfected..I'm arachnophopic..) IF my partner were to offer to hire a housekeeper, I'd jump at the chance..BUT, I didn't WANT to have someone come in and he INSISTED, I'd be more than a little miffed and upset that my work wasn't good enough. Marta, AR If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. ~ Carradine From: _Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> ) [mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> ) ] On Behalf Of _mnbranch08@... <mailto:_mnbranch08%40aol.com> _ (mailto:mnbranch08@... <mailto:mnbranch08%40aol.com> ) Sent: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 11:45 AM To: _Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> ) Subject: Nedd Advice... I need a house keeper too... Im sick normally with my health issues but I try to do somethings at home... Barb tries but, not trying to be little the idea but she sometimes will vacuum the living room, lately did the laundry and dishes but well, she never dusts, never vacuum's the other rooms... Kitchen is tile ect ect... No bathrooms ect... I try not to say much cause of course I CANT do these things anymore and I feel bad saying anything... She tells me not to have a worker in two hours a week which she is eligable cause of her being disabled with her hands... So what do I do... I want to hire someone for a day a month and pay them, Im still fighting with her on this lol... Me being a little bit foo foo, I hate it... I clutter so does she, we need it but what do I do? She says no all the time and I have a big strain for this one... Before I was not so sick but I cant do them now... Im tired of trying too and with me having damaged my knee/leg now its worse cause I cant go anywhere without my walker... Any suggestions? Love and Peace Always Shaun and Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2011 Report Share Posted January 22, 2011 For what its worth, We started using the maximum filtration furnace filters about 5 years ago. (3M Filtrete 1250) During the winter, we change them out every 3 weeks. Thats right, the better the filter, the more is removed from the air and the filter needs to be replaced more frequenty. Seems to keep the dust down for us. We have just adapted to the expense of the filters and try to buy them when they are on sale. Pain From: myshadowridge@... Date: Sat, 22 Jan 2011 17:58:56 -0600 Subject: RE: Need Advice... Stirring up the dust (by dusting) is actually WORSE for you than letting it sit……even if you wear a mask when you actually DUST, it stays in the air for hours and can bring on an asthma attack….. Marta, AR If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. ~ Carradine From: Hugs-N-Pain [mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ] On Behalf Of mnbranch08@... Sent: Saturday, January 22, 2011 4:28 PM To: Hugs-N-Pain Subject: Re: Need Advice... I do understand what your saying and Yes I do love her... Its just my asthma is effected as is my breathing... ON oxygen 24/7 and cpap at night I have trouble with all the dust... But yes I do understand what you are saying... And I will try to keep that in mind for future... I guess I will dig out my ole mask and just do it myself and stop whining... Love and Peace Always Shaun and Barb In a message dated 1/18/2011 11:10:38 P.M. Mountain Standard Time, myshadowridge@... <mailto:myshadowridge%40yahoo.com> writes: This is just my opinion, so take it for how it's offered.. Do you love your Partner more or a dust free home? When we get sick, some things have to move to the side. I would LOVE to hire a person to come in and clean a couple times a week.but if you've asked your partner and she says NO...then to keep going on about the issue would be like telling your partner " nothing you do is good enough, I want to hire someone to do the housework right " .. You've said she DOES work around the house..if she doesn't want someone to come in and do housework, and she's DOING what she thinks is the most important parts, then pushing the issue could be taken by her being told she's not " good enough " ...so is having a dust free home more important than keeping your Partner happy? I know that in my household, the dishes might go a day or two without being washed, I may not run the vacuum more than twice a week...and I NEVER dust (unless a spider is seen, then the entire area is stripped, cleaned and disinfected..I'm arachnophopic..) IF my partner were to offer to hire a housekeeper, I'd jump at the chance..BUT, I didn't WANT to have someone come in and he INSISTED, I'd be more than a little miffed and upset that my work wasn't good enough. Marta, AR If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. ~ Carradine From: _Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> ) [mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> ) ] On Behalf Of _mnbranch08@... <mailto:_mnbranch08%40aol.com> _ (mailto:mnbranch08@... <mailto:mnbranch08%40aol.com> ) Sent: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 11:45 AM To: _Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> ) Subject: Nedd Advice... I need a house keeper too... Im sick normally with my health issues but I try to do somethings at home... Barb tries but, not trying to be little the idea but she sometimes will vacuum the living room, lately did the laundry and dishes but well, she never dusts, never vacuum's the other rooms... Kitchen is tile ect ect... No bathrooms ect... I try not to say much cause of course I CANT do these things anymore and I feel bad saying anything... She tells me not to have a worker in two hours a week which she is eligable cause of her being disabled with her hands... So what do I do... I want to hire someone for a day a month and pay them, Im still fighting with her on this lol... Me being a little bit foo foo, I hate it... I clutter so does she, we need it but what do I do? She says no all the time and I have a big strain for this one... Before I was not so sick but I cant do them now... Im tired of trying too and with me having damaged my knee/leg now its worse cause I cant go anywhere without my walker... Any suggestions? Love and Peace Always Shaun and Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2011 Report Share Posted January 22, 2011 Well at least you have someone to come over and do it for you... I can speak typonese so dont worry about the typos... Love and Peace Always Shaun and Barb In a message dated 1/23/2011 12:41:03 A.M. Mountain Standard Time, twhlvrldy@... writes: If I had someone come to clean my house, they would walk in, take one look and RUN! LOL! I am not a house keeper by any means, but I'm anal about keeping my dishes washed (most of the time) and the windows clean. I just hate vacuuming! In fact, my step-daughter is coming over Monday to vacuum for me. I can do it, but with my rotator cuff being torn, I'm trying my best not to do anything to worsen it, and I have found that vacuuming is one of the most painful things to do. I really want it better before my trip! I had it almost mended (just by doing theraputic excersises at home), but then we had to help the daughter in law & her family move, and it undid everything I worked so hard on. Please forgive my spelling & typos. I'm doing it in the dark, and I cannot type without looking at the keyboard! Sandy ________________________________ From: Marta <_myshadowridge@..._ (mailto:myshadowridge@...) > To: _Hugs-N-Pain _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ) Sent: Wed, January 19, 2011 12:09:45 AM Subject: RE: Need Advice... This is just my opinion, so take it for how it's offered.. Do you love your Partner more or a dust free home? When we get sick, some things have to move to the side. I would LOVE to hire a person to come in and clean a couple times a week.but if you've asked your partner and she says NO...then to keep going on about the issue would be like telling your partner " nothing you do is good enough, I want to hire someone to do the housework right " .. You've said she DOES work around the house..if she doesn't want someone to come in and do housework, and she's DOING what she thinks is the most important parts, then pushing the issue could be taken by her being told she's not " good enough " ...so is having a dust free home more important than keeping your Partner happy? I know that in my household, the dishes might go a day or two without being washed, I may not run the vacuum more than twice a week...and I NEVER dust (unless a spider is seen, then the entire area is stripped, cleaned and disinfected..I'm arachnophopic..) IF my partner were to offer to hire a housekeeper, I'd jump at the chance..BUT, I didn't WANT to have someone come in and he INSISTED, I'd be more than a little miffed and upset that my work wasn't good enough. Marta, AR [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2011 Report Share Posted January 22, 2011 If I had someone come to clean my house, they would walk in, take one look and RUN! LOL! I am not a house keeper by any means, but I'm anal about keeping my dishes washed (most of the time) and the windows clean. I just hate vacuuming! In fact, my step-daughter is coming over Monday to vacuum for me. I can do it, but with my rotator cuff being torn, I'm trying my best not to do anything to worsen it, and I have found that vacuuming is one of the most painful things to do. I really want it better before my trip! I had it almost mended (just by doing theraputic excersises at home), but then we had to help the daughter in law & her family move, and it undid everything I worked so hard on. Please forgive my spelling & typos. I'm doing it in the dark, and I cannot type without looking at the keyboard! Sandy ________________________________ To: Hugs-N-Pain Sent: Wed, January 19, 2011 12:09:45 AM Subject: RE: Need Advice... This is just my opinion, so take it for how it's offered.. Do you love your Partner more or a dust free home? When we get sick, some things have to move to the side. I would LOVE to hire a person to come in and clean a couple times a week.but if you've asked your partner and she says NO...then to keep going on about the issue would be like telling your partner " nothing you do is good enough, I want to hire someone to do the housework right " .. You've said she DOES work around the house..if she doesn't want someone to come in and do housework, and she's DOING what she thinks is the most important parts, then pushing the issue could be taken by her being told she's not " good enough " ...so is having a dust free home more important than keeping your Partner happy? I know that in my household, the dishes might go a day or two without being washed, I may not run the vacuum more than twice a week...and I NEVER dust (unless a spider is seen, then the entire area is stripped, cleaned and disinfected..I'm arachnophopic..) IF my partner were to offer to hire a housekeeper, I'd jump at the chance..BUT, I didn't WANT to have someone come in and he INSISTED, I'd be more than a little miffed and upset that my work wasn't good enough. Marta, AR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2011 Report Share Posted January 23, 2011 Sounds like a good plan , We have a humidifier but im not sure how well that works... I keep getting attacks so mabye redueing stuff in the home would be our next option so I can breath better... Thanks... Love and Peace Always, Shaun and Barb... > > > For what its worth, We started using the maximum filtration furnace filters about 5 years ago. (3M Filtrete 1250) During the winter, we change them out every 3 weeks. Thats right, the better the filter, the more is removed from the air and the filter needs to be replaced more frequenty. Seems to keep the dust down for us. We have just adapted to the expense of the filters and try to buy them when they are on sale. > > > > > Pain > From: myshadowridge@... > Date: Sat, 22 Jan 2011 17:58:56 -0600 > Subject: RE: Need Advice... > > > > > > > Stirring up the dust (by dusting) is actually WORSE for you than letting it sit……even if you wear a mask when you actually DUST, it stays in the air for hours and can bring on an asthma attack….. > > Marta, AR > > If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. ~ Carradine > > From: Hugs-N-Pain [mailto:Hugs-N-Pain ] On Behalf Of mnbranch08@... > Sent: Saturday, January 22, 2011 4:28 PM > To: Hugs-N-Pain > Subject: Re: Need Advice... > > I do understand what your saying and Yes I do love her... Its just my > asthma is effected as is my breathing... ON oxygen 24/7 and cpap at night I > have trouble with all the dust... But yes I do understand what you are > saying... And I will try to keep that in mind for future... I guess I will dig out > my ole mask and just do it myself and stop whining... > > Love and Peace > Always > Shaun and Barb > > In a message dated 1/18/2011 11:10:38 P.M. Mountain Standard Time, > myshadowridge@... <mailto:myshadowridge%40yahoo.com> writes: > > This is just my opinion, so take it for how it's offered.. > > Do you love your Partner more or a dust free home? When we get sick, some > things have to move to the side. I would LOVE to hire a person to come in > and clean a couple times a week.but if you've asked your partner and she > says NO...then to keep going on about the issue would be like telling your > partner " nothing you do is good enough, I want to hire someone to do the > housework right " .. > > You've said she DOES work around the house..if she doesn't want someone to > come in and do housework, and she's DOING what she thinks is the most > important parts, then pushing the issue could be taken by her being told > she's not " good enough " ...so is having a dust free home more important than > keeping your Partner happy? > > I know that in my household, the dishes might go a day or two without > being > washed, I may not run the vacuum more than twice a week...and I NEVER dust > (unless a spider is seen, then the entire area is stripped, cleaned and > disinfected..I'm arachnophopic..) IF my partner were to offer to hire a > housekeeper, I'd jump at the chance..BUT, I didn't WANT to have someone > come > in and he INSISTED, I'd be more than a little miffed and upset that my work > wasn't good enough. > > Marta, AR > > If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. ~ Carradine > > From: _Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> ) > [mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> ) ] > On > Behalf Of _mnbranch08@... <mailto:_mnbranch08%40aol.com> _ (mailto:mnbranch08@... <mailto:mnbranch08%40aol.com> ) > Sent: Tuesday, January 18, 2011 11:45 AM > To: _Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:_Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> _ (mailto:Hugs-N-Pain <mailto:Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> ) > Subject: Nedd Advice... > > I need a house keeper too... Im sick normally with my health issues but I > try to do somethings at home... Barb tries but, not trying to be little > the > idea but she sometimes will vacuum the living room, lately did the laundry > and dishes but well, she never dusts, never vacuum's the other rooms... > Kitchen is tile ect ect... No bathrooms ect... I try not to say much cause > of > course I CANT do these things anymore and I feel bad saying anything... > She > tells me not to have a worker in two hours a week which she is eligable > cause of > her being disabled with her hands... So what do I do... I want to hire > someone for a day a month and pay them, Im still fighting with her on this > lol... Me being a little bit foo foo, I hate it... I clutter so does she, > we > need > it but what do I do? She says no all the time and I have a big strain for > this one... Before I was not so sick but I cant do them now... Im tired of > trying too and with me having damaged my knee/leg now its worse cause I > cant > > go anywhere without my walker... Any suggestions? > > Love and Peace > Always > Shaun and Barb > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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