Guest guest Posted January 6, 2006 Report Share Posted January 6, 2006 I haven't had a change to get through all of the messages responding to my email. I wanted to say thank you to all for your words of support and love. Someone (I am sorry I don't know who) asked about letting the intimacy_after_PC group know, since I am not on there anymore. Please feel free to let them know. Also some people have suggested that we shouldn't give up and we shouldn't stop chemo, or we should try something else. If it were me, I would fight. But to be honest, Dale never fought. From the first moment of diagnosis he gave up. Everything we tried failed. And with each failure I watched him give up more. He is ready to die. He is tired of hurting. He made the doctor give him a time frame. And then he counted out the time he has left and decided when he is going to die. The doctor was reluctant and did try to give hope for a miracle. But this is Dale. It is how he is. It is the man I fell in love with and I don't have the desire or strength to try to force him to fight. He knows about fighting, his dad fought for 5 years past his diagnosis of 6 months. But Dale didn't fight. And I accept that as his right. He will die when he wants and how he wants. And I will be there loving him. Peace on the journey,Juel captwildchild@...************************************If you are going through hell....keep going. -Sir Winston ChurchillMalecare ( www.malecare.com ) recommends that all men, upon attaining adulthood, discuss prostate cancer and the latest prostate cancer screening tests, with their physician, annually. Yahoo! DSL Something to write home about. Just $16.99/mo. or less Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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