Guest guest Posted January 22, 2011 Report Share Posted January 22, 2011 Does Barb work? If so, you need to explain to her that since you are unable, and she works, that she doesn't have the time to spare on cleaning. I forget- are you on disability? If you are, talk to your doctor, get a referal letter amd take it to you socil security office. They will ask you some questions (general stuff like what you can or can't do), and figure out how many hours a month you need a care giver to come clean your home. I know this because before I became disabled I worked two jobs. One as a cashier at a convenience store, and one as an in-home health giver. Usually the state pays the total cost for a care giver. Sandy ________________________________ To: Hugs-N-Pain Sent: Tue, January 18, 2011 11:44:48 AM Subject: Nedd Advice... I need a house keeper too... Im sick normally with my health issues but I try to do somethings at home... Barb tries but, not trying to be little the idea but she sometimes will vacuum the living room, lately did the laundry and dishes but well, she never dusts, never vacuum's the other rooms... Kitchen is tile ect ect... No bathrooms ect... I try not to say much cause of course I CANT do these things anymore and I feel bad saying anything... She tells me not to have a worker in two hours a week which she is eligable cause of her being disabled with her hands... So what do I do... I want to hire someone for a day a month and pay them, Im still fighting with her on this lol... Me being a little bit foo foo, I hate it... I clutter so does she, we need it but what do I do? She says no all the time and I have a big strain for this one... Before I was not so sick but I cant do them now... Im tired of trying too and with me having damaged my knee/leg now its worse cause I cant go anywhere without my walker... Any suggestions? Love and Peace Always Shaun and Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2011 Report Share Posted January 23, 2011 No Barb does not work she too is disabled and that is why im trying to push the issue to get someone here to do the cleaning... I know she tries but its hard on us both... She is not as bad as me, only her arms and shoulders and hands... But I know its hard on her... Love and Peace Always, Shaun and Barb... > > Does Barb work? If so, you need to explain to her that since you are unable, and > she works, that she doesn't have the time to spare on cleaning. I forget- are > you on disability? If you are, talk to your doctor, get a referal letter amd > take it to you socil security office. They will ask you some questions (general > stuff like what you can or can't do), and figure out how many hours a month you > need a care giver to come clean your home. I know this because before I became > disabled I worked two jobs. One as a cashier at a convenience store, and one as > an in-home health giver. Usually the state pays the total cost for a care giver. > > Sandy > > > > > ________________________________ > From: " mnbranch08@... " mnbranch08@... > To: Hugs-N-Pain > Sent: Tue, January 18, 2011 11:44:48 AM > Subject: Nedd Advice... > > > I need a house keeper too... Im sick normally with my health issues but I > try to do somethings at home... Barb tries but, not trying to be little the > idea but she sometimes will vacuum the living room, lately did the laundry > and dishes but well, she never dusts, never vacuum's the other rooms... > Kitchen is tile ect ect... No bathrooms ect... I try not to say much cause of > course I CANT do these things anymore and I feel bad saying anything... She > tells me not to have a worker in two hours a week which she is eligable cause of > > her being disabled with her hands... So what do I do... I want to hire > someone for a day a month and pay them, Im still fighting with her on this > lol... Me being a little bit foo foo, I hate it... I clutter so does she, we > need > > it but what do I do? She says no all the time and I have a big strain for > this one... Before I was not so sick but I cant do them now... Im tired of > trying too and with me having damaged my knee/leg now its worse cause I cant > go anywhere without my walker... Any suggestions? > > > Love and Peace > Always > Shaun and Barb > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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