Guest guest Posted February 12, 2005 Report Share Posted February 12, 2005 I haven't been able to really enjoy life here as visitors do ... isn't that always the way? For awhile, I'd make time to go to the beach after work and walk ... La Jolla Shores is my favorite ... then sometimes on Saturday mornings early (the fire fighters jog then, too!) Once I started moving further and further away to be able to afford my changing family size (got smaller then bigger then smaller again) and my bad financing habits, I stopped going to the beach. I'm hoping to start again one of these days. I'm not sure which mall you're talking about ... we have four that are open and two that are closed that have great stores (I know there's more but these are the ones nearest San Diego proper). Fashion Valley just underwent a huge revamp and is now quite nice to window shop in. The one downtown, Horton Plaza, is usually busy and I don't get down there much. With our new ballpark, I'm downtown more than before ... but usually stick to the area near the park. Thanks for the invite! I've put it in my 'friends' file. Pattie Rae Sandberg <Raes_Yorkies@...> wrote: oh and pattie... i took a cab way out to this really well known quilt shop because i love quilting... and then iwalked way down to this really well known place to eat.. i think it was and irish place... can't remember the name of the place...rae Re: [ ] Just Curious I thought I'd share a little about my friend, Pam, at work who has had RA for many years. She's in her mid-forties now and works full time. She and I have talked a lot lately about RA since it seemed for awhile that I might have some sort of autoimmune disease of my own ... but so far, the doctor has found nothing to indicate that. My pain goes on and I will be seeing a physical therapist next. Pam is on Remicade now and loves it. She is a very determined lady who has gone through studies and helped test medicines. She took dance classes during some of her worst periods of the disease. She refuses to use handicapped parking spaces and walks constantly. She has deformities in her fingers and wrists and she walks a little bend over at the waist but she never lets that get her down. She once told me that when she didn't move for several minutes, her joints would freeze up so she is in constant movement at work. She's on 3 mg pred, trying to reduce it to 2 mg in an effort to get off it but is having problems. I know there are other RX she's taking as well but don't remember them all. We talked specifically about the prednisone because she is rail thin! Everyone I've ever known who's been on that toxic agent is rounded. Pam has two Siberian Huskies and a husband with his own health problems and she takes care of all of them. I know she's been in some serious pain at times but she never lets it stop her. I know not everyone can be like her and she gives me encouragement to keep going even when I'm hurting most (like now when it's been raining non-stop for three days here in SUNNY southern Calif). She is truly an inspiration. Loving hugs, Pattie ltlmisscrankypants <ltlmisscrankypants@...> wrote: Hi again... Seeing as I am new to all of this, I was wondering how many of you are able to work full-time. Prior to be diagnosed and taking ill in December, I worked 40-50 hours a week. Now that I am off sick, I spend most of my day resting or slowly trying to get the easy stuff done around the house. I am booked off work by my Rheumatologist until at least June, but don't know if I can return to the same job due to the physical demands. Is it possible to find a balance of meds that allows people with severe RA to lead a " normal " life? Can I support my family again by one day being able to hold down a job? How debilitating is this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2005 Report Share Posted February 12, 2005 I haven't been able to really enjoy life here as visitors do ... isn't that always the way? For awhile, I'd make time to go to the beach after work and walk ... La Jolla Shores is my favorite ... then sometimes on Saturday mornings early (the fire fighters jog then, too!) Once I started moving further and further away to be able to afford my changing family size (got smaller then bigger then smaller again) and my bad financing habits, I stopped going to the beach. I'm hoping to start again one of these days. I'm not sure which mall you're talking about ... we have four that are open and two that are closed that have great stores (I know there's more but these are the ones nearest San Diego proper). Fashion Valley just underwent a huge revamp and is now quite nice to window shop in. The one downtown, Horton Plaza, is usually busy and I don't get down there much. With our new ballpark, I'm downtown more than before ... but usually stick to the area near the park. Thanks for the invite! I've put it in my 'friends' file. Pattie Rae Sandberg <Raes_Yorkies@...> wrote: oh and pattie... i took a cab way out to this really well known quilt shop because i love quilting... and then iwalked way down to this really well known place to eat.. i think it was and irish place... can't remember the name of the place...rae Re: [ ] Just Curious I thought I'd share a little about my friend, Pam, at work who has had RA for many years. She's in her mid-forties now and works full time. She and I have talked a lot lately about RA since it seemed for awhile that I might have some sort of autoimmune disease of my own ... but so far, the doctor has found nothing to indicate that. My pain goes on and I will be seeing a physical therapist next. Pam is on Remicade now and loves it. She is a very determined lady who has gone through studies and helped test medicines. She took dance classes during some of her worst periods of the disease. She refuses to use handicapped parking spaces and walks constantly. She has deformities in her fingers and wrists and she walks a little bend over at the waist but she never lets that get her down. She once told me that when she didn't move for several minutes, her joints would freeze up so she is in constant movement at work. She's on 3 mg pred, trying to reduce it to 2 mg in an effort to get off it but is having problems. I know there are other RX she's taking as well but don't remember them all. We talked specifically about the prednisone because she is rail thin! Everyone I've ever known who's been on that toxic agent is rounded. Pam has two Siberian Huskies and a husband with his own health problems and she takes care of all of them. I know she's been in some serious pain at times but she never lets it stop her. I know not everyone can be like her and she gives me encouragement to keep going even when I'm hurting most (like now when it's been raining non-stop for three days here in SUNNY southern Calif). She is truly an inspiration. Loving hugs, Pattie ltlmisscrankypants <ltlmisscrankypants@...> wrote: Hi again... Seeing as I am new to all of this, I was wondering how many of you are able to work full-time. Prior to be diagnosed and taking ill in December, I worked 40-50 hours a week. Now that I am off sick, I spend most of my day resting or slowly trying to get the easy stuff done around the house. I am booked off work by my Rheumatologist until at least June, but don't know if I can return to the same job due to the physical demands. Is it possible to find a balance of meds that allows people with severe RA to lead a " normal " life? Can I support my family again by one day being able to hold down a job? How debilitating is this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2005 Report Share Posted February 12, 2005 yes, pattie... that is it, horton plaza downtown... it was very busy and the first day i walked down there i went in on one side and then came out on another... and was sort of lost.. haha ha... i saw this noce looking lady and asked her if she would guide me back to the hotel, she was a da for the city of san diego... she and i walked and talked... and then she pointed me in the right direction... and i made it back...) well, i amd feeling pretty good today except for my knee... rae Re: [ ] Just Curious I thought I'd share a little about my friend, Pam, at work who has had RA for many years. She's in her mid-forties now and works full time. She and I have talked a lot lately about RA since it seemed for awhile that I might have some sort of autoimmune disease of my own ... but so far, the doctor has found nothing to indicate that. My pain goes on and I will be seeing a physical therapist next. Pam is on Remicade now and loves it. She is a very determined lady who has gone through studies and helped test medicines. She took dance classes during some of her worst periods of the disease. She refuses to use handicapped parking spaces and walks constantly. She has deformities in her fingers and wrists and she walks a little bend over at the waist but she never lets that get her down. She once told me that when she didn't move for several minutes, her joints would freeze up so she is in constant movement at work. She's on 3 mg pred, trying to reduce it to 2 mg in an effort to get off it but is having problems. I know there are other RX she's taking as well but don't remember them all. We talked specifically about the prednisone because she is rail thin! Everyone I've ever known who's been on that toxic agent is rounded. Pam has two Siberian Huskies and a husband with his own health problems and she takes care of all of them. I know she's been in some serious pain at times but she never lets it stop her. I know not everyone can be like her and she gives me encouragement to keep going even when I'm hurting most (like now when it's been raining non-stop for three days here in SUNNY southern Calif). She is truly an inspiration. Loving hugs, Pattie ltlmisscrankypants <ltlmisscrankypants@...> wrote: Hi again... Seeing as I am new to all of this, I was wondering how many of you are able to work full-time. Prior to be diagnosed and taking ill in December, I worked 40-50 hours a week. Now that I am off sick, I spend most of my day resting or slowly trying to get the easy stuff done around the house. I am booked off work by my Rheumatologist until at least June, but don't know if I can return to the same job due to the physical demands. Is it possible to find a balance of meds that allows people with severe RA to lead a " normal " life? Can I support my family again by one day being able to hold down a job? How debilitating is this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2005 Report Share Posted February 12, 2005 yes, pattie... that is it, horton plaza downtown... it was very busy and the first day i walked down there i went in on one side and then came out on another... and was sort of lost.. haha ha... i saw this noce looking lady and asked her if she would guide me back to the hotel, she was a da for the city of san diego... she and i walked and talked... and then she pointed me in the right direction... and i made it back...) well, i amd feeling pretty good today except for my knee... rae Re: [ ] Just Curious I thought I'd share a little about my friend, Pam, at work who has had RA for many years. She's in her mid-forties now and works full time. She and I have talked a lot lately about RA since it seemed for awhile that I might have some sort of autoimmune disease of my own ... but so far, the doctor has found nothing to indicate that. My pain goes on and I will be seeing a physical therapist next. Pam is on Remicade now and loves it. She is a very determined lady who has gone through studies and helped test medicines. She took dance classes during some of her worst periods of the disease. She refuses to use handicapped parking spaces and walks constantly. She has deformities in her fingers and wrists and she walks a little bend over at the waist but she never lets that get her down. She once told me that when she didn't move for several minutes, her joints would freeze up so she is in constant movement at work. She's on 3 mg pred, trying to reduce it to 2 mg in an effort to get off it but is having problems. I know there are other RX she's taking as well but don't remember them all. We talked specifically about the prednisone because she is rail thin! Everyone I've ever known who's been on that toxic agent is rounded. Pam has two Siberian Huskies and a husband with his own health problems and she takes care of all of them. I know she's been in some serious pain at times but she never lets it stop her. I know not everyone can be like her and she gives me encouragement to keep going even when I'm hurting most (like now when it's been raining non-stop for three days here in SUNNY southern Calif). She is truly an inspiration. Loving hugs, Pattie ltlmisscrankypants <ltlmisscrankypants@...> wrote: Hi again... Seeing as I am new to all of this, I was wondering how many of you are able to work full-time. Prior to be diagnosed and taking ill in December, I worked 40-50 hours a week. Now that I am off sick, I spend most of my day resting or slowly trying to get the easy stuff done around the house. I am booked off work by my Rheumatologist until at least June, but don't know if I can return to the same job due to the physical demands. Is it possible to find a balance of meds that allows people with severe RA to lead a " normal " life? Can I support my family again by one day being able to hold down a job? How debilitating is this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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