Re: WHY=portal to others insanity

[Guest guest]

> Well, Sylvia Plath was writing about her father, and how she married a

> " vampire " who was very much like her father.

>

> The fact is, some women respond better to absolute jerks. I think

part of

> it is that we tend to look for people who mirror our parents in some

way.

> Lucky for me, my girlfriend's dad is a quiet guy with a weird sense

of humor

> and an amazingly brilliant mind in his limited area of interest. I

don't

> really *know* the guy well, because like I said he's a quiet guy and

I'm bad

> at chit-chat myself... but I'm lucky that I've got enough similarity

to be

> her boyfriend.

I read one research article which found that the average person

chooses a spouse who are similar to their same gender parent.

Anas

" All humans are dead except those who have knowledge ... and all those

who have knowledge are asleep, except those who do good deeds ... and

those who do good deeds are deceived, except those who are sincere ...

and those who are sincere are always in a state of worry. " - Imam

Shafi'