Guest guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 yes he does many times. he has many people fooled. When he is good he is good to me. But when he is bad OMG it is enough to drive you over the edge. one thing he loves to do. He works night shift. so in order to make sure I don't sleep either. he will get on one of his rant and raves just before he lives and out the door with a slam. no bye just cussing. I lay in the bed crying. I could write a book on him. and the things he has done and said, I think at times his fist could not have hurt as bad as his words. Jena Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 you better thank God for this man all day every day. He is far and few. Jena Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 Peggy, Thank God for him every day! I'd give almost anything for a hubby like that. Alanna Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 I do thank God everyday - believe me. I know God blessed me with him. I don't know what I would do with one like some of you discribe. Wishing you a less pain day Peggy From: Alanna Wilgus <awilgus@.... com> Subject: Re: Ok, weird question.... . To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Friday, June 12, 2009, 5:28 PM , I had something similar when I was taking Effexor (an antidepressant) . I looked it up online and people called them " brain shivers " . I had terrible headaches trying to get off of it - I had to open up the capsules and decrease it by 1 or 2 pellets a day. I've never had them since. Maybe you should ask your doctor @ it. I hope you are doing OK. Alanna Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 I do, believe me I do Wishing you less pain Peggy From: Alanna Wilgus <awilgus@.... com> Subject: Re: Ok, weird question.... . To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Friday, June 12, 2009, 5:28 PM , I had something similar when I was taking Effexor (an antidepressant) . I looked it up online and people called them " brain shivers " . I had terrible headaches trying to get off of it - I had to open up the capsules and decrease it by 1 or 2 pellets a day. I've never had them since. Maybe you should ask your doctor @ it. I hope you are doing OK. Alanna Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 Hi Alanna Mine came in from outside and ask me if I was dying, because I look like it and then he wanted to know if I washed clothes. I can barley stay awake or walk and he wants me to do. He always says he is going to leave but I never get lucky. He calls me names or says he is tired of my crap, Then when say something about it later he has no idea what I am talking about. You sure the to are not brothers? Lol We went to Lowes 2 wks ago and him and I and an employee which was helping us was standing there I asked Ben (husband) a question and he said as loud as he could to shut the ______up. I walked fast went out to the car 30 mins later he called on the cell wanting to know where I was. When he got to the car I stated I was never so humiliated in my life he smiled and said what did I do I could go on I am so tired of his crap his 2 children do no wrong in his eyes mine are monsters 28 and 21 his is 27 and 35 and DSS just came and took the 35 year olds child. There is no winning Need to talk I never have anyone to talk to. Thanks for listing. Love and Hugs Sent from my BlackBerry Smartphone provided by Alltel Re: Ok, weird question..... Dear Alanna What do you mean with the sentence , I pray all the time that my husband will change or that I will find the patience to not let him get to me??? I hope you dont mind me asking?? liefs Annemie Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 Jena, You should see how sweet and helpful my husband is out in public. It makes me want to hurl! Alanna Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Re: Ok, weird question..... yes he does many times. he has many people fooled. When he is good he is good to me. But when he is bad OMG it is enough to drive you over the edge. one thing he loves to do. He works night shift. so in order to make sure I don't sleep either. he will get on one of his rant and raves just before he lives and out the door with a slam. no bye just cussing. I lay in the bed crying. I could write a book on him. and the things he has done and said, I think at times his fist could not have hurt as bad as his words. Jena Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 Lotacats, I've been taking this shit for years. You're right. Enough is enough. Hugs, Alanna Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 I want one. Lotacats “I love cats because I enjoy my home; and little by little, they become its visible soul.†Twitter_follow me http://twitter.com/LotacatsFunPix Express Chronic Pain Awareness http://www.cafepress.com/lotacatspix/5815010 Lotacatsfunpix.com http://www.lotacatsfunpix.com/ Deviantart http://lotacats05.deviantart.com/ From: Alanna Wilgus <awilgus@.... com> Subject: Re: Ok, weird question.... . To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Friday, June 12, 2009, 5:28 PM , I had something similar when I was taking Effexor (an antidepressant) . I looked it up online and people called them " brain shivers " . I had terrible headaches trying to get off of it - I had to open up the capsules and decrease it by 1 or 2 pellets a day. I've never had them since. Maybe you should ask your doctor @ it. I hope you are doing OK. Alanna Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 hi lotacats how is the kittys doing my big boxer dog has his own kitty how the cat kutels up with hem on the couch with us and thay love allover each other the cat lets hem stick his head in his mouth i pet the cat and get slober all over my hand i wish i could have had it on vidio them playing today so you all could have seen it lotacats i hope you are haveing less pain donnie From: Alanna Wilgus <awilgus@.... com> Subject: Re: Ok, weird question.... . To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Friday, June 12, 2009, 5:28 PM , I had something similar when I was taking Effexor (an antidepressant) . I looked it up online and people called them " brain shivers " . I had terrible headaches trying to get off of it - I had to open up the capsules and decrease it by 1 or 2 pellets a day. I've never had them since. Maybe you should ask your doctor @ it. I hope you are doing OK. Alanna Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2009 Report Share Posted June 27, 2009 Hi Donnie Glad you are back sorry nothing has changed at home. I hope for a very low pain night for all of us. Love and hugs Sent from my BlackBerry Smartphone provided by Alltel Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2009 Report Share Posted June 28, 2009 hi jena you are rite my wife talks about me like a peace of shit to everbody and i still have donot beleve in not descraseing nobody you still that to talk about them respectfull i donot beleve in talking somebody down donnie From: Alanna Wilgus <awilgus@.... com> Subject: Re: Ok, weird question.... . To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Friday, June 12, 2009, 5:28 PM , I had something similar when I was taking Effexor (an antidepressant) . I looked it up online and people called them " brain shivers " . I had terrible headaches trying to get off of it - I had to open up the capsules and decrease it by 1 or 2 pellets a day. I've never had them since. Maybe you should ask your doctor @ it. I hope you are doing OK. Alanna Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2009 Report Share Posted June 28, 2009 I asked him and he said he bases it on -  Marriage vows for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer   and Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church,               and gave himself for it; That if you follow those you will be a good husband. Guess that should tell you he is a preacher huh?  I should add that his daddy set a good example for him.  I am praying for all your marriages, I cannot understand how you can go thru all the pain and stuff you have to deal with without the support of your spouse. I feel guilty just telling you what an awesome husband I have. Praying that you get support you need from somewhere. Wishing you gentle hugs and less pain God bless y'all Peggy From: Alanna Wilgus <awilgus@.... com> Subject: Re: Ok, weird question.... . To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Friday, June 12, 2009, 5:28 PM , I had something similar when I was taking Effexor (an antidepressant) . I looked it up online and people called them " brain shivers " . I had terrible headaches trying to get off of it - I had to open up the capsules and decrease it by 1 or 2 pellets a day. I've never had them since. Maybe you should ask your doctor @ it. I hope you are doing OK. Alanna Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Ok, weird question.... . Hi everyone! The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? Thanks & everyone take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2009 Report Share Posted June 29, 2009 Hey Donnie, I haven't talked to you in a while .I hope you have a pain free day. I have slipped a disc in my back and am a 10 on a scale from 1 to 10. Are you still in KY ? I was there last week , in somerset... > To: Hugs-N-Pain > From: donnie3024@... > Date: Sun, 28 Jun 2009 10:33:37 -0700 > Subject: Re: Ok, weird question..... > > hi lotacats my freand i hope you are haveing a low pain day donnie > > > > From: Alanna Wilgus <awilgus@.... com> > Subject: Re: Ok, weird question.... . > To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com > Date: Friday, June 12, 2009, 5:28 PM > > , > I had something similar when I was taking Effexor (an antidepressant) . I > looked it up online and people called them " brain shivers " . I had terrible > headaches trying to get off of it - I had to open up the capsules and > decrease it by 1 or 2 pellets a day. I've never had them since. > Maybe you should ask your doctor @ it. > I hope you are doing OK. > Alanna > Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry > > Ok, weird question.... . > > Hi everyone! > The group has been so busy lately; I've been trying to keep up but have > fallen behind. I hope everyone is doing well and the pain is staying low. > I have a weird question that I think is related to the narcotic meds but am > not sure and am wondering if anyone knows or has experienced it...when the > meds are totally out of my system like when I wake in the am or sometimes > even when it's a little past my normal dosing time, I get this odd feeling > in my head..it feels like " brain zaps " ; I know that sounds weird but that's > the best description I can come up with. In my forehead area there is this > heavy " zap " that lasts maybe 3 seconds; this will come and go frequently, it > seems until about a 1/2 hour to an hour after I take my meds. The only other > time I have felt that is when I was trying to get off an antideppresant; I'd > get that exact same feeling but it came frequently and after my Dr told me > to just take my med the feeling went away within an hour. Ok now that you > all think I'm crazy, has anyone felt anything like that???? > > Thanks & everyone take care, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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