working for what they want

[Guest guest]

We live in such a me generation with the kids. I have not forgotten

what it was like with my parents. If you wanted the extras you

worked for them. Some people dont agree with this well what favors

are we doing them by handing them everything. This does not teach

them the basics of life. When we hand kids everything it does not

teach them responsiblity for things. We give them toys when their

little, we buy cars for them when they turn 16 (usually better then

what we drive). We pay for their college education. Then they go out

in the real world and do not know how to function because everything

has been done for them. So what favors have we done for them.

Ok I am off my soapbox now. It does take usually two incomes to

support a family. This is where I have the debate about keeping on

working with my pain. I know it will be tight around the house but

not to the point of bankrupting us. I will talk to the pain doc tues

when I go see him. I may end up trying to get on disabilty for I

dont know how much longer I can work like I am.

When my mind is on my pain and I cant wait till I can be done with a

client. I try hard not to fixate on the pain and work through it. At

this time its not working so well. Its all I can do to cut hair

while trying to put the pain out of my mind and the pain is winning.

Ok had my say.

from Missouri