Guest guest Posted November 29, 2011 Report Share Posted November 29, 2011 ,Let me remind you and everyone else on the listserve that one of the rules on the listserve is to stay on topic and avoid being too wordy or rambling. I sympathize with you, but there are 900+ people on the listserve who are here to discuss/read about IMP, and not personal lives. This is not a forum for venting or ranting, as therapeutic as that may be. As Gordon has said, we have a pretty low screening threshold on this listserve, and as long as content is not libelous, illegal or abusive, we are likely to let people post away in the spirit of a free exchange of ideas. But you have to stay on topic and shorten your posts (I suggest 200 words or less). I don't mean to single you out, but your 2255 word post has caught my attention. An alternative is to start sending private messages to those whom you personally want to communicate with, rather than the whole listserve. Or you could start your own blog and post as much as you want, on whatever topic you want. Blogger.com and Wordpress.com are free blogging sites.Thanks for your cooperation. SetoAdmin Thank You for your Support, BUT, most of what I need a chill from is Not here but in other really dysfunctional areas of my private life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2011 Report Share Posted November 29, 2011 It came into to question and even the concept of why I was so upset was publically being aired and questioned, and I felt I had a need and a right to fill in the blanks and help put things in a proper and very openly honest perspective... Also, as a sort of side note, there is real clinical value in some of this post in getting into the American Medical and Theraputic Communities the concept of "Mobbing" as it really is and needs to be better understood. I strongly suggest that everyone here google the term and add it to your theraputic tool kits. Instead we half heartedly discuss workplace, academic and other social systems "Bullying" which does not nearly begin to properly lay out what is happening is such situations and the all too real debilitating and harmful, wounding Trauma that such inexcuseable behaviors inflict upon those that are so wrongly selected out by harmful toxic manipulative and insecure people. Not to beat the dead horse here but after at least 3 years or more of this kind of horrible mistreatment by some of the worst in our community, I am very beat up, sort of half out of steam and not nearly as on my game as I once was. And I am a logical, hard nosed fighter raised by a man who was like wise the same kind of fighter for justice and what is right, who he too was almost destroyed and not allowed a teacher's license because of his Un-American Activities, Blacklisting from his college days and youth in the 50's after serving at the end of WWII. This is not pretty stuff, but I just laid out a pretty good clinical example of my own personal life here.... And that is also why I am probably a bit more weiry and quick to protect myself these days... and for that, My Hypervigilance, a symptom of my over exposure to this stuff, I appologize to any and all. But it does not mean that I don't make a good point, if not in a overly verbose and defensive or offensive way.... Take it all in together, for what it is worth.... I need to get some work done myself at the office now but I will try to post some informative links later in the next few days to help you all learn more about what is now finally starting to gain professional and legal recognition in parts of Scandanavia and I believe a bit in Canada as well.... It is truly mind and eye opening and it is the social systems version of interpersonal abuse and trauma.... Be well and thanks for your understanding, friendship, respect and support......... To: Sent: Tuesday, November 29, 2011 11:29 AMSubject: Staying on topic , Let me remind you and everyone else on the listserve that one of the rules on the listserve is to stay on topic and avoid being too wordy or rambling. I sympathize with you, but there are 900+ people on the listserve who are here to discuss/read about IMP, and not personal lives. This is not a forum for venting or ranting, as therapeutic as that may be. As Gordon has said, we have a pretty low screening threshold on this listserve, and as long as content is not libelous, illegal or abusive, we are likely to let people post away in the spirit of a free exchange of ideas. But you have to stay on topic and shorten your posts (I suggest 200 words or less). I don't mean to single you out, but your 2255 word post has caught my attention. An alternative is to start sending private messages to those whom you personally want to communicate with, rather than the whole listserve. Or you could start your own blog and post as much as you want, on whatever topic you want. Blogger.com and Wordpress.com are free blogging sites. Thanks for your cooperation. Seto Admin Thank You for your Support, BUT, most of what I need a chill from is Not here but in other really dysfunctional areas of my private life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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