Short version of the situation with my mom and son...

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Good Morning,

A lot of the time, when I post, I am just sharing, but I was

overwhelmed with the kindness in the posts during my recent crisis

situation with my son and mom. I did not even post all the crushing

details and I got responses. Short version: My mom said that my

last visit(I stayed three overnights and I thought it was an

excellant visit, back in September) made her so ill that she thought

she was going to die and for that reason she does not want us to

stay with her the two nights that we will be in the area on Dec 28

and 29. Think about it...my mom thinks my mere presence will make

her die.

Short version on my son: I gave his address to the minister of the

church(he has known since he was 5 and confirmed ) to

start the process of removing him from the membership of the church.

was deeply offended that I gave out his address, demanded an

apology, accused me of giving his address out to have the minister

shame him and told me to tell the minister to " kiss his ass, " Of

course, I said that I would not apologize and I was upset and

offended by his e-mail and by the time was done responding

he said that I was a hyprocite, a phony Christian and the reason he

did not go to church. He said that my illness was just an act to

get people to feel sorry for me and that I was not an authentic

person.

I told him that I was saddened and upset by his opinion of me and

that he was showing me a lack of respect and he said there was

nothing to respect...Then I got really mad and I finally said that

we need to calm down and talk in a few days in a civilised matter

and he said that I need to calm down and apologize for all the hate

that I have spewed!!!Huh???

Anyway, sorry for the long post and I just wanted to put it into a

post now that I have calmed down enough to write it. Penny