Guest guest Posted July 8, 2006 Report Share Posted July 8, 2006 Ok, if that is what you need to do I am on the way to take you to the Car Dealership... I guess I can sell some little rocks I have just to help you my friend.. I do understand but I will be glad when you get back from Ca. trip Peggy 09/04 ipf Peggy, because of HER I was effectively homeless, jobless and, many of my problems began with that woman. It affected our lives financially to an extent you just CANNOT believe. Sorry, this one I don't let go .... The ONLY way I can is to finally repay the $2,000.00 settlement from the divorce, in the presence of my wonderful family and, in a new car on the way to CA to visit my wife's relatives. Revenge, sure but, served cold and pointing out that we are not only living but, living WELL! Then and only then will I be able to let go easier. Phred ---- Original Message ---- From: pac1773@... <mailto:pac1773%40cfl.rr.com> To: Breathe-Support <mailto:Breathe-Support%40yahoogroups.com> Subject: Re: Re: Today Date: Sat, 08 Jul 2006 11:07:10 -0400 >I'm sure you won't forget. But I do know things and money are not >important >when it comes to life changes. Money it a great thing but not to >bring >happiness. When it becomes the most important thing to you. your >headed for >heartache. Things are just things. Money is just money. I can't >imagine >having that much money to worry about.. no thanks. God has always >supplied >everything we need and a bunch wants. But nothing I have ever owned >is worth >the happiness of my family. and peace of mind. >I can tell you have really been hurt but Fred with this monster on >our >backs, I still think it's enough to deal with.. " Let it go " just give >it >some fresh thought. What would change if I no longer let this problem >invade >my life for THIS day.. If you can get it out of your head I honestly >think >your last yearSSS will be so much better.... As for HER well I like >to >think what goes around comes around. She will get hers.. Just hide >and >watch. That's what I do.....on a much smaller scale... I'm praying >for you. >Join the chat next time and we'll all gang up on you. LOL LOL >HAHAHHAH God >Bless...Peggy 09/04 ipf > >... sorry, Peggy, this I CAN'T let go. The impact on my family has >been financially and, it has taken most of 20 years to overcome it. >As far as SHE is concerned, you have NO idea of the insults, to me >AND my family, from her and, the way it affected my duty. I STILL >have a remnent of the $250,000.00 to pay off that she cost me (yes, >the amount is correct!). One doesn't forget things like that easily. > >Phred > >---- Original Message ---- >From: pac1773@... <mailto:pac1773%40cfl.rr.com> <mailto:pac1773%40cfl.rr.com> >To: Breathe-Support <mailto:Breathe-Support%40yahoogroups.com> ><mailto:Breathe-Support%40yahoogroups.com> >Subject: Re: Re: Today >Date: Fri, 07 Jul 2006 13:17:56 -0400 > >>WOW FRED, You have a lot of anger your carrying around about your >>first >>wife. I do think it's time to " LET IT GO " Stress is a killer. It >does >>not >>matter what has happened in the past you are NOT being fair to your >>wife and >>daughter. One moment spent thinking about the past with that much >>anger is >>taking hours from your future, your health will suffer from it. >Think >>about >>it. Is it really worth the time and energy?? !! >>I do now know why when I pray I have such a burden for you. I am >>going to >>continue to pray for you. God Bless you...Peggy 09/04 ipf >> >>... with ref to the former husband's passing, I would dance on the >>grave of my ex-wife if I learned she had died (preferably horribly). >>That woman cost me my active duty career, gave me psychological and >>financial problems that still exist today after 21 years and, impact >>on my family's life today ... albeit in a greatly reduced form. Her >>own brother has broken off contact with her, following the death of >>their mother. She is/was a parasite who also hurt my own parents >with >>her actions. >> >>It may not be nice but, it is the truth. As the years go by the hurt >>recedes but, is never forgotten. >> >>Phred >> >>---- Original Message ---- >>From: joycedalton29@... <mailto:joycedalton29%40aol.com> <mailto:joycedalton29%40aol.com> ><mailto:joycedalton29%40aol.com> >>To: Breathe-Support <mailto:Breathe-Support%40yahoogroups.com> ><mailto:Breathe-Support%40yahoogroups.com> >><mailto:Breathe-Support%40yahoogroups.com> >>Subject: RE: Re: Today >>Date: Fri, 07 Jul 2006 00:10:59 -0000 >> >>> >>>Ginger, >>> >>>I hope you have a clue as to how important YOU are to all of us. I >>>am >>>in awe of your courage and your faith. Losing your life mate is >>>devastating....but for someone who is chronically and seriously ill >>>to >>>have to face being alone in the fight for her life....I am amazed >>>that >>>you didn't just curl up in a corner and give up. Instead, you fight >>>this >>>beast and you give us all encouragement to do the same, even when >we >>>are >>>so weak. >>> >>>Thank you, from me! I grieve with you today and will keep you in >my >>>heart. >>> >>>Love and hugs, >>> >>>Joyce PF 1997 >>> >>>> >>>> Today was a rough day for me, as it marks one year since my >>husband >>>Denny's >>>> death. I never would have believed I would survive such a >tragedy. >>>But >>>I >>>> have...and only by the love, support, and encouragement from this >>>group and >>>> others. I thank God everyday for each one of you. Because of all >>of >>>you, I do not >>>> walk this journey alone. >>>> kiss kiss, >>>> ~Ginger~ >>>> IPF 9/04 >>>> >>> >>> >> >> >> >> > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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