Guest guest Posted February 18, 2008 Report Share Posted February 18, 2008 > > dammit .. i investigate this issue again and again and again.. in many > forms many varations and it keeps coming back.. do you think one can > ever really get passed that? > Does your life end when you don't have this romantic love? Do you have moments where you do enjoy yourself without a girl and not thinking about a girl or needing love? Is it the *thought* " I need love " that troubles you or the fact that you don't that troubles you? Can you relax and enjoy yourself in the times where you find you are without a girl and trust reality to deliver you one when the time is right? Does stressing about not having a girl and needing love bring you joy? The funny thing about attracting a mate, I found, is that you are a lot more desirable when you seem like you are loving person (to yourself and others), when you are relaxed, confident, and capable of enjoying *your*self most of the time. Not only that, the quality of those you attract is higher as well... Nothing is more off-putting than someone who >ahem< seems NEEDY. :-) Light-heartedly, H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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