Ah Ha! Forced Intimacy by BPD

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My nada is still blowing past my request for NC and sent to me in a

mail a recipe she cut out of a magazine. The writing on the envelope

said " receipe enclosed. " I had to laugh when I saw it. It's like

she's continuing to have this relationship with me even though I'm not

replying. Did she really think I'd pick up the phone and say, " Gee,

thanks for the recipe. It really shows that you care about me. Sorry

I made such a fuss before! " LOL

I realize she's forced intimacy with me, assumed she's known me, and

generally has lived in a fantasy world when it's come to our

relationship during my lifetime.

It reminds me of my bridal shower when my best friend started a game

called " How Much Do You Know About a " and she asked questions and

people had to guess what I would answer. My BP Sis announces

loudly, " Oh! I should win this one. I'm your sister! " I think she

had the lowest score and I wasn't one bit surprised.

None of my FOO know how to have healthy and give/take relationships.

So sad.

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