Re: MY ANSWER TO A quick question = BEVERLY

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HI BEVERLY,

MY NAME IS LYNN AND I AM 60 ALMOST 61 YEARS YOUNG AND I WILL BE SENDING A PERSONNAL INTRO TO ALL THE NEWBIES SOON I HAVE BEEN HAVEING PROBLEMS WITH PC SO HAVE NOT BEEN ON LINE ON A REGULAR BASIS FOR THE LAST MONTH OR SO.

WELCOME

THERE ARE TWO ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTION

NUMBER ONE: I DO NOT WANT TO INSULT YOU AS I DO NOT KNOW THAT MUCH ABOUT YOU I DO NOT KNOW HOW YOU WILL TAKE THIS BUT ON THE OTHER HAND WITH ALL YOUR PROBLEMS I FEEL SURE YOU HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD SO HERE IT GOES

PLACE ALL YOUR BURDENS AT THE FEET OF GOD IN PRAYER BUT YOU HAVE TO REMEMBER TO LEAVE THEM THERE DON'T GO BACK AND PICK THEM UP

SOMETIMES IT IS HARD TO LET GO OF SOMETHING BUT IF IT IS CAUSING YOU STRESS THEN TRY TO LEAVE IT AND LET GO AND LET GOD

NUMBER TWO: BUDGET YOUR ENERGY --- ALWAYS ALLOWING A LITTLE FOR UNEXPECTED THINGS--- IF YOU HAVE A DOCTORS APPOINTMENT THEN YOU WILL PROBABLY NOT HAVE THE ENERGY TO SCRUB THE FLOORS. LOL

DO WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT TODAY. IF THE DISHES DONT GET DONE THEY WILL NOT RUN AWAY JUST BECAUSE IT WAS MORE IMPORTANT TO SPEND YOUR ENERGY TAKING CARE OF YOUR CHILD OR EVEN PLAYED WITH YOUR CHILD BECAUSE THAT IS IMPORTANT TOO A LOT MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR DISHES HECK IT IT BECOMES A BIG PROBLEM USE PAPER PLATES CUT CORNERS WHERE YOU CAN SO YOU WILL HAVE ENERGY TO DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO. IN EMERGENCY YOU MAY FIND THAT YOU CAN GET THRU IT BUT YOU WILL HAVE TO PAY WHEN IT IS OVER. IF SOMETHING IS IMPORTANT ENOUGHT THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO PAY LATER BY HAVING A FLARE UP THEN GO FOR IT IF NOT THEN DONT DO IT AND DO SOMETHING ELSE.

I AM SORRY I AM GOING ON SO BUT I KNOW WHEN MY MOTHER WAS DYING I STAYED WITH HER IN THE HOSPITAL BECAUSE I FELT THAT WAS WHERE I NEEDED TO BE AND I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT SHE KNEW I WAS THERE. AFTER HER FUNERAL I WAS DOWN FOR AT LEAST THREE WEEKS BUT THAT TIME WAS PRECIOUS TO ME AND I AM GLAD THAT I DID IT.

SO SOME THINGS ARE WORTH THE EXTRA

ONE MORE THING I WAS WONDERING AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO ANSWER BUT IF NOT YOU MIGHT WANT TO CHECKINTO IT. ARE YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN GETTING SSI

OH ONE THING THAT IS VERY IMPORTANT IS THAT YOU TAKE CARE OF YOU AND DO NOT LET YOUR SELF GO WITH OUT SO THE KIDS DONT HAVE TO BECAUSE YOUR HEALTH IS IMPORTANT TOO

SENDING HAPPINESS AND BUTTERFLIES TO YOU AND YOURS

LYNNNmartmom@... wrote:

reduce your stress,

I keep wondering how to do this......I am single with two medically complex kids and my mom is ill also and I can't work so money is always an issue, I even homeschool so I don't have to argue with the schools anymore.....we are trying to move to a single level house that will be owned by my mom so no more landlord nightmares and lower payment....but other than that I don't know what else to do....my son just got out of an overnight sleep study at the hospital and now we have new diagnoses.....how do you reduce stress? inquiring minds want to know

Beverlyhttp://www.parsonwhitestudios.com/-North Central Texas Federation of Families for Children's Mental Health (NCTFFCMH) Website:http://pages.ivillage.com/nctffcmh/index.htmlNCTFFCMH Email: nctffcmh.x@...

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NUMBER ONE: I DO NOT WANT TO INSULT YOU AS I DO NOT KNOW THAT MUCH ABOUT YOU I DO NOT KNOW HOW YOU WILL TAKE THIS BUT ON THE OTHER HAND WITH ALL YOUR PROBLEMS I FEEL SURE YOU HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD SO HERE IT GOES

PLACE ALL YOUR BURDENS AT THE FEET OF GOD IN PRAYER BUT YOU HAVE TO REMEMBER TO LEAVE THEM THERE DON'T GO BACK AND PICK THEM UP

SOMETIMES IT IS HARD TO LET GO OF SOMETHING BUT IF IT IS CAUSING YOU STRESS THEN TRY TO LEAVE IT AND LET GO AND LET GOD

I WOULD NOT SURVIVE WITHOUT MY FAITH.....

NUMBER TWO: BUDGET YOUR ENERGY --- ALWAYS ALLOWING A LITTLE FOR UNEXPECTED THINGS--- IF YOU HAVE A DOCTORS APPOINTMENT THEN YOU WILL PROBABLY NOT HAVE THE ENERGY TO SCRUB THE FLOORS. LOL

I TRY TO DO THIS BUT GET SO MUCH CRITICISM....I THINK IT WILL BE BETTER WHEN WE ARE MOVED AND I DO NOT HAVE TO LISTEN TO A LANDLORD....THAT IS IF WE EVER GET MOVED....

DO WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT TODAY. IF THE DISHES DONT GET DONE THEY WILL NOT RUN AWAY JUST BECAUSE IT WAS MORE IMPORTANT TO SPEND YOUR ENERGY TAKING CARE OF YOUR CHILD OR EVEN PLAYED WITH YOUR CHILD BECAUSE THAT IS IMPORTANT TOO A LOT MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR DISHES HECK IT IT BECOMES A BIG PROBLEM USE PAPER PLATES CUT CORNERS WHERE YOU CAN SO YOU WILL HAVE ENERGY TO DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO. IN EMERGENCY YOU MAY FIND THAT YOU CAN GET THRU IT BUT YOU WILL HAVE TO PAY WHEN IT IS OVER. IF SOMETHING IS IMPORTANT ENOUGHT THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO PAY LATER BY HAVING A FLARE UP THEN GO FOR IT IF NOT THEN DONT DO IT AND DO SOMETHING ELSE.

IT FEELS LIKE ONE EMERGENCY AFTER ANOTHER AT TIMES...WE ARE REALLY DOING NOTHING TODAY EXCEPT THE STRESS OF TRYING TO FIND A HOUSE...I HURT SO BADLY ALL THE TIME BUT NEURO WANTS TO WAIT AND SEE WHAT THE REBIF DOES IF I EVER GET STARTED ON IT.....SAME WITH SCOOTER SO I DON'T GO EVERYWHERE I WANT/NEED TO GO....

I AM SORRY I AM GOING ON SO BUT I KNOW WHEN MY MOTHER WAS DYING I STAYED WITH HER IN THE HOSPITAL BECAUSE I FELT THAT WAS WHERE I NEEDED TO BE AND I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT SHE KNEW I WAS THERE. AFTER HER FUNERAL I WAS DOWN FOR AT LEAST THREE WEEKS BUT THAT TIME WAS PRECIOUS TO ME AND I AM GLAD THAT I DID IT.

SO SOME THINGS ARE WORTH THE EXTRA

ONE MORE THING I WAS WONDERING AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO ANSWER BUT IF NOT YOU MIGHT WANT TO CHECKINTO IT. ARE YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN GETTING SSI

BOTH OF MY KIDS GET SSI AND I HAVE APPLIED.....JUST SEEMS TO TAKE SO LONG AND THEY HAVE NOT ADJUSTED THEIR INCOME SINCE I STOPPED WORK....

OH ONE THING THAT IS VERY IMPORTANT IS THAT YOU TAKE CARE OF YOU AND DO NOT LET YOUR SELF GO WITH OUT SO THE KIDS DONT HAVE TO BECAUSE YOUR HEALTH IS IMPORTANT TOO

SENDING HAPPINESS AND BUTTERFLIES TO YOU AND YOURS

THANK YOU SO MUCH LYNN....I CAN SEE I WILL LIKE IT HERE....I REALLY AM NOT WHINING JUST TRYING TO FIND MY WAY.....

Beverlyhttp://www.parsonwhitestudios.com/-North Central Texas Federation of Families for Children's Mental Health (NCTFFCMH) Website:http://pages.ivillage.com/nctffcmh/index.htmlNCTFFCMH Email: nctffcmh.x@...

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Nmartmom@... wrote:

NUMBER ONE: I DO NOT WANT TO INSULT YOU AS I DO NOT KNOW THAT MUCH ABOUT YOU I DO NOT KNOW HOW YOU WILL TAKE THIS BUT ON THE OTHER HAND WITH ALL YOUR PROBLEMS I FEEL SURE YOU HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD SO HERE IT GOES

PLACE ALL YOUR BURDENS AT THE FEET OF GOD IN PRAYER BUT YOU HAVE TO REMEMBER TO LEAVE THEM THERE DON'T GO BACK AND PICK THEM UP

SOMETIMES IT IS HARD TO LET GO OF SOMETHING BUT IF IT IS CAUSING YOU STRESS THEN TRY TO LEAVE IT AND LET GO AND LET GOD

I WOULD NOT SURVIVE WITHOUT MY FAITH.....

NUMBER TWO: BUDGET YOUR ENERGY --- ALWAYS ALLOWING A LITTLE FOR UNEXPECTED THINGS--- IF YOU HAVE A DOCTORS APPOINTMENT THEN YOU WILL PROBABLY NOT HAVE THE ENERGY TO SCRUB THE FLOORS. LOL

I TRY TO DO THIS BUT GET SO MUCH CRITICISM....I THINK IT WILL BE BETTER WHEN WE ARE MOVED AND I DO NOT HAVE TO LISTEN TO A LANDLORD....THAT IS IF WE EVER GET MOVED....

IF THE LANDLORD COMES IN AND COMPLAINS BECAUSE YOU DID NOT PICK UP AND PUT AWAY OR DID NOT DO THE DISHES ASK IF THEY WANT TO TRADE PLACES INCLUDING BODIES AND HEALTH PROBLEMS FOR A WEEK.

DO WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT TODAY. IF THE DISHES DONT GET DONE THEY WILL NOT RUN AWAY JUST BECAUSE IT WAS MORE IMPORTANT TO SPEND YOUR ENERGY TAKING CARE OF YOUR CHILD OR EVEN PLAYED WITH YOUR CHILD BECAUSE THAT IS IMPORTANT TOO A LOT MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR DISHES HECK IT IT BECOMES A BIG PROBLEM USE PAPER PLATES CUT CORNERS WHERE YOU CAN SO YOU WILL HAVE ENERGY TO DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO. IN EMERGENCY YOU MAY FIND THAT YOU CAN GET THRU IT BUT YOU WILL HAVE TO PAY WHEN IT IS OVER. IF SOMETHING IS IMPORTANT ENOUGHT THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO PAY LATER BY HAVING A FLARE UP THEN GO FOR IT IF NOT THEN DONT DO IT AND DO SOMETHING ELSE.

IT FEELS LIKE ONE EMERGENCY AFTER ANOTHER AT TIMES... DONT I KNOW IT AND MY CHILDREN WERE ALL FAIRLY HEALTHY THE ALL HAD BRONCHITIS WHEN THEY WERE YOUNG AND THEY ALL OUT GREW IT. THAT AND THE TWINS HAVING TO HAVE TUBES IN THEIR EARS WERE THE WORST TIMES I HAD HEALTH WISE I DO HAVE AT LEAST 3 GRANDSONS THAT HAVE BEEN DXed WITH ADHD PLUS OTHER LETTERS THAT I DO NOT TRY TO KEEP STRAIGHT.

BUT I DO KNOW THAT WHEN ONE THING HAPPENS THERE IS USUALLY TWO MORE FOLLOWING RIGHT ON THE COATTAILS OF THE OTHERS BUT IF YOU WATCH THE GOOD THINGS AND MIRACLES DO TOO.

WE ARE REALLY DOING NOTHING TODAY EXCEPT THE STRESS OF TRYING TO FIND A HOUSE...I HURT SO BADLY ALL THE TIME BUT NEURO WANTS TO WAIT AND SEE WHAT THE REBIF DOES IF I EVER GET STARTED ON IT.....SAME WITH SCOOTER SO I DON'T GO EVERYWHERE I WANT/NEED TO GO....

IF YOU CAN TAKE IT TRY ADVIL BILL LIKES IT REAL WELL FOR THE PAIN AND I THINK HE SAID IT HELPS WITH HIS SPASMS MY DOCTOR TOOK ME OFF ALL OTC PAIN PILLS SO I RELY ON WHAT HE GIVES ME ALSO LOOKING AT LEMONS OR EVEN A PICTURE OF THEM AND THE B VITAMINS ARE SUPPOSED TO RELIEVE STRESS TAKING THE B COMPLEX VITAMINS ON A REGULAR BASIS IS SUPPOSED TO SURPRESS THE PAIN.

I AM SORRY I AM GOING ON SO BUT I KNOW WHEN MY MOTHER WAS DYING I STAYED WITH HER IN THE HOSPITAL BECAUSE I FELT THAT WAS WHERE I NEEDED TO BE AND I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT SHE KNEW I WAS THERE. AFTER HER FUNERAL I WAS DOWN FOR AT LEAST THREE WEEKS BUT THAT TIME WAS PRECIOUS TO ME AND I AM GLAD THAT I DID IT.

SO SOME THINGS ARE WORTH THE EXTRA

ONE MORE THING I WAS WONDERING AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO ANSWER BUT IF NOT YOU MIGHT WANT TO CHECKINTO IT. ARE YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN GETTING SSI

BOTH OF MY KIDS GET SSI AND I HAVE APPLIED.....JUST SEEMS TO TAKE SO LONG AND THEY HAVE NOT ADJUSTED THEIR INCOME SINCE I STOPPED WORK....

OH YES YOU HAVE TO KEEP AT THEM BUT BE CURTIOUS

OH ONE THING THAT IS VERY IMPORTANT IS THAT YOU TAKE CARE OF YOU AND DO NOT LET YOUR SELF GO WITH OUT SO THE KIDS DONT HAVE TO BECAUSE YOUR HEALTH IS IMPORTANT TOO

SENDING HAPPINESS AND BUTTERFLIES TO YOU AND YOURS

THANK YOU SO MUCH LYNN....I CAN SEE I WILL LIKE IT HERE....I REALLY AM NOT WHINING JUST TRYING TO FIND MY WAY.....ARENT WE ALL

Beverly YOU ARE SO WELCOME http://www.parsonwhitestudios.com/-North Central Texas Federation of Families for Children's Mental Health (NCTFFCMH) Website:http://pages.ivillage.com/nctffcmh/index.htmlNCTFFCMH Email: nctffcmh.x@...