Why is family so unsupportive of NC with Nada

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I have been NC with Nada since Sept. I am the only one happy with

this situation! I love the peace and quiet.. No chaos, NO critisms,

No raging at me or calling me names. Who wouldn't like this except

people that are not targeted by Nada anger.

The only problem is my DH, sister, and DH family think I am wrong

to NC with Nada and that I will have regrets. I know I do not have

any regrets and my only regret is that I wish I had done this sooner.

I do not have any emotional connection to Nada. I don't even know who

she is or want to know her at all. Nada is very narcisstic and only

cares about herself.

I don't want to go back. I am the sibling that is split into all

bad. I am so tired of being so good only to get raged at for

anything. Of course they want me back, otherwise, someone else gets

raged at!! Everyone wants to have this so called " Rose colored

glasses family " that doesn't exist. OR people will know something is

wrong with our family.. Oh--- the secret is out!

It is hard for others that don't understand BPD. My Nada is so

sweet to everyone else. Everyone thinks she is an angel! She is so

good at deception.

The only thing I can think of to do is to ignore the question when

asked and change the subject. To me it is no one business at all

except mine. I am the one who understands all the pain I have taken..

Does anybody have this problem and what can I do....