3 cheer for n/c

[Guest guest]

I have n/c so many times I can't count. Nada finally did another melt

down and this time I opened my mouth up. It was the pregnancy

hormones. I told her I didn't want a relationship with her anymore. My

nada was here visiting me and got mad and drove 16 hours back home. It

is always a drama scene. She even took back her christmas presents to

me. I guess she thought this would hurt me.

It has been almost 1 month. I love the peace and quiet. No calls no

nothing.

I have noticed that I do have alot of angry built up inside and it

seems to be coming out by me being angry about little things. I know I

need to deal with it. How does one make this angry go away. How can I

forget everything Nada has done to me and move on??? Why do I feel I

am in prison even though Nada is gone. I am scared that she will find

a way to suck me back into her world. I just can't do it anymore. I

can't be this person who changes because I am scared to do anything or

say anything.

It is bad to not want my own Nada in my life. I really want to

grief and move on.. Is this how you have moved on??

Maybe I need to see a counselor to help me get all this anger out.

[Guest guest]

I think a counselor would be a good idea. I'm going to see one soon

for the first time.

I don't think it's bad to not want her in your life. I'm not saying

cut her out, because mine is still in my life and I'm not sure I

could not have in her in my life, though I get increasingly fed up

with her.

A counselor would be a good idea... I too, am very angry, and I need

to work thru it before I blow up at her and/or break something.

>

> I have n/c so many times I can't count. Nada finally did another

melt

> down and this time I opened my mouth up. It was the pregnancy

> hormones. I told her I didn't want a relationship with her

anymore. My

> nada was here visiting me and got mad and drove 16 hours back

home. It

> is always a drama scene. She even took back her christmas presents

to

> me. I guess she thought this would hurt me.

> It has been almost 1 month. I love the peace and quiet. No calls

no

> nothing.

> I have noticed that I do have alot of angry built up inside and

it

> seems to be coming out by me being angry about little things. I

know I

> need to deal with it. How does one make this angry go away. How

can I

> forget everything Nada has done to me and move on??? Why do I feel

I

> am in prison even though Nada is gone. I am scared that she will

find

> a way to suck me back into her world. I just can't do it anymore.

I

> can't be this person who changes because I am scared to do

anything or

> say anything.

> It is bad to not want my own Nada in my life. I really want to

> grief and move on.. Is this how you have moved on??

> Maybe I need to see a counselor to help me get all this anger

out.

>