Guest guest Posted January 1, 2007 Report Share Posted January 1, 2007 Hi. I hope everyone is having a Happy New Year. I'm supposed to go over to my grandmother's house today so that she, my momster, and my dad can yell at me for being such a terrible, horrible, selfish, lying daughter. I talked to momster on the phone last night, and she warned me about this ahead of time. I don't want to put myself in this situation, but I'm afraid of what they might do if I don't. I've asked my boyfriend to come along with me - to kind of even the fight - but he wasn't invited, and I'm afraid it might provoke her wrath even more. He doesn't really want to go, either, because he knows how bad it will get, but he said he will do it for me, if I need him there. He did say, though, that if they tell him to leave, he will - immediately. I told him that I'm going with him. According to momster, I am destroying the family with my " lies " about being abused. She kept harping on the fact that I keep telling people she physically abused me, which I've never said. She has slapped me a few times - at least once when I was over 21, so that was really assault (and a completely inappropriate way to handle the argument). But I was talking more about the emotional abuse she has put me through my entire life. So, I'm supposed to tell my boyfriend " the truth " - that I was never abused. I told him this when I got off the phone with her - he was in the room at the time - and his response was, " Don't lie to me. " He knows how she is, and what she does to me. He's seen it. Anyway, I am completely at a loss as to how to handle this situation. Any advice? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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