Guest guest Posted December 28, 2011 Report Share Posted December 28, 2011 When I was first told I had cirrhosis was given 2 to 3 years to live. Told my whole family and we all prepared for me to die. After 2 years and not much change, I asked to be sent for evaluation by a transplant team where I was told I wouldn't qualify for a transplant " even if I needed one " and what made me think I needed one. They were very nasty. I had a mini breakdown. Was sobbing as I left. My whole family had been told and all my friends, now I had to tell them it wasn't true, and they had suffered with me. And was also concerned some would think I didn't really have a problem, just exaggerated since my mother always accused me of that until she started getting some of the same problems I had lived with most of my life. I asked for a second/third opinion at Mayo clinic, and they were much nicer and also said that I was not so short term. In the more than 10 years since then, I have been pretty much compensated with out too many symptoms, The itching does have a tendancy to drive me crazy, but have always had a tendancy toward that anyway, lol It is a roller coaster at points. I have a very similar story in our family with heart disease as yours with liver, so understand why the doctors wanted you checked out, too bad they hadn't caught it all before. My coronary artery problems were caught early enough that even with 9 stents in my body, my heart works full time. Someone else asked if cirrhosis can be reversed, and it can in a few cases, but you don't even know you have cirrhosis without a biopsy, and until it hits that point, you can do a lot to hold it off. Jan > Good afternoon, all! > I am really more of a browser and reader than I am an active person in the community. I've learned a great deal from everyone's information and experiences. > > In late Feb/early March this year, my 59 year old father was diagnosed with ESLD and liver cancer, and had a suspected " clot " in/near the billary duct. He was having some symptoms late in 2011 but his GP didn't think it was that serious. Long story short, in February - he checked himself in the ER and that is whenever they started the testing/prodding and etc. Not even 2.5 months later, and after countless hospital stays and doctor's visit, my father slipped into a coma and passed. He had had a knee replacement in August 2010, which I suspect caused some of this to speed up because of all the Loratab he was taking after. > > Since my mother has NASH and the caught my father's ailments so late, his doctor's recommended that my brother and myself get checked. Dad made us promise shortly before his passing to get it done. > > I was diagnosed with fatty liver in 2007 but was told " Lose weight " and no one ever mentioned a follow up. Well, I didn't and I continued to drink, eat bad foods, smoke, etc... until right before I got pregnant in 2009. My OBGYN didn't mention anything about the liver. > > Anywho, I went to the doctor in August and my AST was 79 and my ALT was 81 and he referred me to a specialist. I also had an ultrasound done on my gut. They ran all sorts of scarey tests, and most came back negative (cancer, the marker for liver disease, the hepatituses). He wanted to do a biopsy but wanted to wait. He believes I have late fatty liver, and judging by my past numbers, am not too far away from stage 1 liver disease. He was surprised no one referred me to him sooner based on my #s alone because I have been actively progressing for several year, and he estimates that if I continued, I would be seeing some dire health issues in as little as 10-15 years (just an estimate). > > This scared the living daylights out of me. I am only 30 with a child who is almost 2. I know now just a little of the fear my dad must have gone through whenever he was going through the diagonsis process. I cannot imagine leaving my child without a mom, or having them see me get sick. I mean death is scarey, but hurting/leaving/scaring my family is even worse. This year has been a real eye opener for me. I cannot image how my father felt, and how I bet some of you have felt or are feeling. I am starting to tear up as I write this. > > He gave me 4 months to turn around my eating habits and get working out to lose weight. Well, long story short, I just went back and my AST was 24 and my ALT is 28 and I am almost 40 pounds down. Because of the genetic tie with both my parents, I have to keep coming in to get checked a few times a year and since I have a fatty liver. I don't need a biopsy yet. > > I thank each one of you for your information and stories. You will never imagine how much all of this has meant to me. > > I wish you all happy holidays! I will continue lurking and learning. > > > > ------------------------------------ > > Group Email: livercirrhosissupport > web address: > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/livercirrhosissupport/ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2011 Report Share Posted December 28, 2011 Looks like my spam catcher, caught your original post and I didn't see it until Jan's comment. I'm sorry to hear about your father. He was certainly far too young to have his liver take him out. But, if you can, know that he did not go through a long lingering degeneration of his body. A great deal of folks out there, did not even know their livers were in jeopardy until the damage was extensive. I am an example. I learned that I had Hep C early 2002, when my insurance company turned me down!! It was a shock. In 2004, I was getting ready to go and have a chat with the only Dr. in our town, that was willing to study the liver. They did a biopsy and I was already in Stage 3 bridging to Stage 4. Stage 4 is cirrhotic and also when the person has the beginning to ESLD. I did the Hep C treatment in 2004/2005; but, it didn't work to kick the dragon right on outta here. In 2009, I was asked to participate in a clinical trial for a new combination of meds, to get the dragon gone. On that score, I have been a winner. However, the dragon might be gone; but, had done so much damage that my cirrhotic liver started producing those little cancer tumors. I have had the only operation I can ever have and in just 15 months, the cancer is back. This time, I will not do any further chemo!!! Much of my living since 2004 has been fighting for my liver and the treatment for Hep C, almost makes one wonder which was worse? The degenerating liver disease or that treatment. So, I'm trudging down the final road with my spiritual Creator. The reason that I tell you this. I think you are extremely lucky!!! It's not Hepatitis and sounds like it can be dealt with by diet and exercise.  I hate the thought of both of those words; but, I think if I was told that it was either that or where I am right now - don't think it's hard to figure out where I'd rather be. So, I can't even say that you were given a 2nd chance because your liver is hardly damaged at all. But, learn to love that liver. It's the organ that has the most work, flushing our blood and trying to get rid of the crap we put into our bodies. > Good afternoon, all! > I am really more of a browser and reader than I am an active person in the community.  I've learned a great deal from everyone's information and experiences. > > In late Feb/early March this year, my 59 year old father was diagnosed with ESLD and liver cancer, and had a suspected " clot " in/near the billary duct.  He was having some symptoms late in 2011 but his GP didn't think it was that serious.  Long story short, in February - he checked himself in the ER and that is whenever they started the testing/prodding and etc.  Not even 2.5 months later, and after countless hospital stays and doctor's visit, my father slipped into a coma and passed.  He had had a knee replacement in August 2010, which I suspect caused some of this to speed up because of all the Loratab he was taking after. > > Since my mother has NASH and the caught my father's ailments so late, his doctor's recommended that my brother and myself get checked.  Dad made us promise shortly before his passing to get it done. > > I was diagnosed with fatty liver in 2007 but was told " Lose weight " and no one ever mentioned a follow up.  Well, I didn't and I continued to drink, eat bad foods, smoke, etc... until right before I got pregnant in 2009.  My OBGYN didn't mention anything about the liver. > > Anywho, I went to the doctor in August and my AST was 79 and my ALT was 81 and he referred me to a specialist. I also had an ultrasound done on my gut. They ran all sorts of scarey tests, and most came back negative (cancer, the marker for liver disease, the hepatituses).  He wanted to do a biopsy but wanted to wait.  He believes I have late fatty liver, and judging by my past numbers, am not too far away from stage 1 liver disease.  He was surprised no one referred me to him sooner based on my #s alone because I have been actively progressing for several year, and he estimates that if I continued, I would be seeing some dire health issues in as little as 10-15 years (just an estimate). > > This scared the living daylights out of me.  I am only 30 with a child who is almost 2.  I know now just a little of the fear my dad must have gone through whenever he was going through the diagonsis process. I cannot imagine leaving my child without a mom, or having them see me get sick.  I mean death is scarey, but hurting/leaving/scaring my family is even worse. This year has been a real eye opener for me.  I cannot image how my father felt, and how I bet some of you have felt or are feeling. I am starting to tear up as I write this. > > He gave me 4 months to turn around my eating habits and get working out to lose weight.  Well, long story short, I just went back and my AST was 24 and my ALT is 28 and I am almost 40 pounds down. Because of the genetic tie with both my parents, I have to keep coming in to get checked a few times a year and since I have a fatty liver.  I don't need a biopsy yet. > > I thank each one of you for your information and stories.  You will never imagine how much all of this has meant to me. > > I wish you all happy holidays!  I will continue lurking and learning. > > > > ------------------------------------ > > Group Email:   livercirrhosissupport > web address: > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/livercirrhosissupport/ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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