Guest guest Posted September 3, 2011 Report Share Posted September 3, 2011 hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2011 Report Share Posted September 3, 2011 Oh Barbydoll...I am so sorry to hear this. You have so much to deal with,having to support Pam and knowing you will be in her shoes soon......I too, will be in those shoes someday. How awful that Pete cannot get help and keeps drinking and gets not one bot TWO livers! Where is the justice in that?  You know that I'm a Believer....but in these cases I wonder if God really listens. Has Pam joined our group?  Can you private message me your address on FB?  I will put Pete and Pam in my prayers...and you are always there too!  I love you Barbydoll!                                                                           Love,Jill  We don't remember days, we remember moments. Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Saturday, September 3, 2011 10:07 AM Subject: brother in law  hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2011 Report Share Posted September 3, 2011 You're in my prayers Barb!! Even though I don't post alot please know I still read the posts and think of everyone often. Love and Peace, MaC Subject: brother in law To: livercirrhosissupport Date: Saturday, September 3, 2011, 7:07 AM Â hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2011 Report Share Posted September 3, 2011 barby, sorry to hear about the hard times you are having will pray for you and your family.i can't believe your brother in law would drink with the new liver and got another one that quickly they sure would not do that here in houston.i have been sober almost 3 yrs and still they check me all the time and still have no liver.i guess we can pray he will not take this new liver for granted.  prayers are with you.  bev,tx To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Saturday, September 3, 2011 7:07 AM Subject: brother in law  hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2011 Report Share Posted September 3, 2011 Barby - I don't know what to say except that I will pray for all of you and I am so sorry. I had been sitting here mad because as usual, someone was trying to tell me how to lead my life what route to take on a trip he isn't even taking. Then I read your post and realized my problem is easy to take care of compared to yours. If this site did nothing else except let us vent at times like you are going through, it would be doing a great thing. I hope you feel a little lighter in the heart now than you did before you wrote it all down. If not, do it over again. maybe on paper this time and then take it and burn it up.. Of course, that won't change the situation, but doing so usually changes the person doing it. There is only so much you can do in both your husbands and brother in laws cases. If you can decide what that is and not beat yourself up for not being able to do more, you will be better at what you can do. As to the other brother in law, I would forget he exists until some time in the future when you can deal with it. I am sure it is very frustrating for him to get two livers when others can't even get one, especially since he was drinking after getting the first one. I don't understand why they would give him a second one either and I sort of feel like going and pulling it out of him and giving it to someone who would treasure it more than he seems to do. The rules seem so strict, and then we hear of cases that don't seem to follow the rules. I hope you don't mind that I am telling you how I would feel if I were in the same situation. Since we are all family, here I feel almost as if I am right there with you. The main reason I don't want to die of this terrible disease, not wanting my family to have to go through it too. Jan > hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but > dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys > shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt > seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys > sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the > home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... > strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get > disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they > cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in > law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass > got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for > me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but > someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. > > > > ------------------------------------ > > Group Email: livercirrhosissupport > web address: > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/livercirrhosissupport/ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2011 Report Share Posted September 4, 2011 thank you jill, and i love you to my friend!! i will send you my address. and i invited pam to our group but shes not a comp. person, so i doubt we will ever see her here,which is sad cause she relys on me for most of her info...and we know i am not the gal for that job. its just so sad to see the ins and louts of who gets to live and who doesnt.itt scares the crap outta me. thank you for your prayers. ya never know pete could experience a miracle....i wish we all could. love you toots > > Oh Barbydoll...I am so sorry to hear this. You have so much to deal with,having to support Pam and knowing you will be in her shoes soon......I too, will be in those shoes someday. How awful that Pete cannot get help and keeps drinking and gets not one bot TWO livers! Where is the justice in that?  You know that I'm a Believer....but in these cases I wonder if God really listens. Has Pam joined our group?  Can you private message me your address on FB?  I will put Pete and Pam in my prayers...and you are always there too!  I love you Barbydoll! > > >                                        >                                    Love,Jill >  > We don't remember days, we remember moments. > Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. > > > To: livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Saturday, September 3, 2011 10:07 AM > Subject: brother in law > > >  > hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2011 Report Share Posted September 4, 2011 thank you mac...the knife i am not here as much as i should be....some days its easier to be an ostrich and keep my head in the sand love you too man!! > > > Subject: brother in law > To: livercirrhosissupport > Date: Saturday, September 3, 2011, 7:07 AM > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Â > > > > > > > > > > hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2011 Report Share Posted September 4, 2011 thank you bev!! > > barby, > sorry to hear about the hard times you are having will pray for you and your family.i can't believe your brother in law would drink with the new liver and got another one that quickly they sure would not do that here in houston.i have been sober almost 3 yrs and still they check me all the time and still have no liver.i guess we can pray he will not take this new liver for granted. >  > prayers are with you. >  > bev,tx > > > To: livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Saturday, September 3, 2011 7:07 AM > Subject: brother in law > > >  > > hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2011 Report Share Posted September 4, 2011 thank you jan, good solid advise. but i am afraid if i struck a match it would be to jump in the fire hahahahaha. i appreciate your insight.i have my pity party days thats for sure,sometimes it all gets to overwhelming and i need to cry. it does amaze me how some drs. will cont. to let someone dystroy their organs and others are kicked to the curb. i am sure theres a reason for it but its unfair, i too would like to snatch it out of him...the head lines will read SISTER IN LAW ARRESTED FOR STEALING ASSHOLE BROTHER IN LAWS LIVER FOR HER OWN HUSBAND update at 10 hahahahhaa.love you toots.keep paul pam and cain in your prayers. > > hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but > > dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys > > shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt > > seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys > > sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the > > home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... > > strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get > > disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they > > cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in > > law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass > > got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for > > me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but > > someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. > > > > > > > > ------------------------------------ > > > > Group Email: livercirrhosissupport > > web address: > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/livercirrhosissupport/ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2011 Report Share Posted September 4, 2011 Barby, I am so very sorry......sorry for you and Bobby Glen and for Pam and your BIL. I think recommending hospice to her was exactly the right thing to do. My experiences with them have been nothing but absolutely wonderful. As you may know, my Dad now lives with me and is in hospice due to C.O.P.D. The same team that helped me with Terry is now helping me with Daddy. I've already told them that I want them taking care of me when the time comes! So many times in my life I have wondered how things could be as they were and why God would allow things to be like that. I still don't know the answers to many of my questions. I know the pain of watching your soul mate leave you a little every day and knowing there isn't anything you can do for them but pray and trust the Lord to hold them close. I've reached the conclusion that sometimes we just don't need to know the answers because we couldn't deal with the truth. So, I trust the Lord to carry Daddy now as I trusted Him to carry Terry and as I trust Him to carry me as well. Please know my heart is broken for all of you and that I am praying fervently for healing in the way that the Lord sees most beneficial. I now realize that healing doesn't always mean the absence of disease and the postponement of death; it often means the ultimate healing and that is when the child of God is taken home to receive his/her eternal rest, never to suffer again. I love you my friend; I am praying....... Many hugs............. Diane C from TN > > hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2011 Report Share Posted September 4, 2011 Dear Barby, I didn't know all of these folks had bad livers too. It must be awful for you, but you mustn't paste anyone's out come over the picture of your life with Bobby Glenn. Because of you, if he takes a turn for the worse, you will make sure he gets a liver transplant pronto. They will cure is Hep just like they cured Penny's. The key difference that separates these relatives from you is YOU. You won't let any of this happen. I have spoken with you on the telephone, and I know that you will motivate anyone who gets in the way to get out of the way or fall in line. I am so sorry for Pete. When cancer spreads out, they cannot get a transplant. He needs that hospice eval yesterday. Hospitals suck at hospice care. The protocols make it really hard to put the patient first instead of life first. The number one reason why a hospital sucks at hospice care; Hospital=death is the ultimate enemy,suffering is unfortunate but not a real concern..................Hospice=suffering is the ultimate enemy, death is a welcome friend You aren't going to be next, dont even say that !! ... You won't just give up...not without a FIGHT! Bobby Glenn has to be watched like a hawk, CT scan on a regular basis to catch HCC early., get on the top of the list. . Just remember you and Bobby are a team, and you are gonna SHAKE and BAKE when the time comes. Love, Bobby A  To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Saturday, September 3, 2011 8:07 AM Subject: brother in law  hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2011 Report Share Posted September 4, 2011 Barby - sometimes crying is the most healing, relaxing thing you can do. Cry when you need to. Jan > thank you jan, good solid advise. but i am afraid if i struck a match it > would be to jump in the fire hahahahaha. i appreciate your insight.i have my > pity party days thats for sure,sometimes it all gets to overwhelming and i > need to cry. it does amaze me how some drs. will cont. to let someone > dystroy their organs and others are kicked to the curb. i am sure theres a > reason for it but its unfair, i too would like to snatch it out of him...the > head lines will read SISTER IN LAW ARRESTED FOR STEALING ASSHOLE BROTHER IN > LAWS LIVER FOR HER OWN HUSBAND update at 10 hahahahhaa.love you toots.keep > paul pam and cain in your prayers. > > >> > hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 >> > months,but >> > dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys >> > shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. >> > doesnt >> > seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys >> > sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the >> > home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... >> > strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get >> > disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, >> > they >> > cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other >> > brother in >> > law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the >> > ass >> > got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard >> > for >> > me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but >> > someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. >> > >> > >> > >> > ------------------------------------ >> > >> > Group Email: livercirrhosissupport >> > web address: >> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/livercirrhosissupport/ >> > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2011 Report Share Posted September 4, 2011 Hi Barby, I'm sorry to hear about your brother in law. The other brother in law makes me mad. How could he get a new liver, then drink, and get another one? He obviously wasn't appreciative of his new liver. I haven't and never will drink with my new liver. I never was a drinker anyway. When I had my transplant, one of the nurses told me about a guy who got a new liver and wouldn't take his meds after he got out of the hospital and went into rejection, of course, and passed away. He didn't get another liver. You're not next. Hopefully Bobby will get a new liver, do the Hep C treatment and clear it, and have a good, long life. Penny > > hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 thank you diane, you ALWAYS have away of saying things so eliquently,it makes me cry,then smile.you are a true angel here on earth!! you my friend have been thru alot and i admire you so much and your daddy is so lucky to have you!! i pray he is happy and comfortable,you will have a special crown in heaven my friend! i love you !!! > > > > hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 ohhhhhhh bobby you know me so well dont you my brother lol. you are absolutely right,i have never backed down without a fight and i wont start now, i have my boo-whooo moments, then i get back on my high horse, and today i am reaching for the sky...running scared isnt an option for me...for very long anyhow lol. its weird tho, how bobby was diagnosed, the pete...paul was before bobby, now we have his sisters two of them with hep also...i see the connection now. and i just wonder who got the hep first but we may never now,doesnt matter it spread thru his family, i am the fortunate one, i am still neg.and bobby takes every precaution to keep it that way. he will get a liver i have no doubt about that,i will make sure of that even if i have to move across the country he will get one, and he will live,theres no dieing on my watch!! love you bobby!! > > Dear Barby, I didn't know all of these folks had bad livers too. It must be awful for you, but you mustn't paste anyone's out come over the picture of your life with Bobby Glenn. Because of you, if he takes a turn for the worse, you will make sure he gets a liver transplant pronto. They will cure is Hep just like they cured Penny's. The key difference that separates these relatives from you is YOU. You won't let any of this happen. I have spoken with you on the telephone, and I know that you will motivate anyone who gets in the way to get out of the way or fall in line. I am so sorry for Pete. When cancer spreads out, they cannot get a transplant. He needs that hospice eval yesterday. Hospitals suck at hospice care. The protocols make it really hard to put the patient first instead of life first. > > The number one reason why a hospital sucks at hospice care; > > > Hospital=death is the ultimate enemy,suffering is unfortunate but not a real concern..................Hospice=suffering is the ultimate enemy, death is a welcome friend > > > You aren't going to be next, dont even say that !! ... You won't just give up...not without a FIGHT! Bobby Glenn has to be watched like a hawk, CT scan on a regular basis to catch HCC early., get on the top of the list. . Just remember you and Bobby are a team, and you are gonna SHAKE and BAKE when the time comes. Love, Bobby A > >  > > To: livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Saturday, September 3, 2011 8:07 AM > Subject: brother in law > > >  > hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 hi penny thanks for the encouragement we are still awaiting the new treatment to be approved,where as he was almost done him in. i will be glad when it happens and we can move forward tho. thanks my friend, i am so blessed to have you all!!! > > > > hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 Barby Did the brother-in-law who got the 2 new livers, pay for either one of them?? That's the only it makes any sense to me at all. Here I don't even want one because there are people waiting for one that are a whole sight younger than me. (I hold the opinion only for myself). ________________________________ hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 Barby You definitely are an exceptional person!! All those people relying on you AND knowing that your own liver will get sick soon enough!! In this lifetime, I will forever be amazed at what people do.       I TRULY DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE BELIEF (or lack of) THAT THEY LIVE BY. But, I will forever feel grateful to all of the fabulous people that I've met online and in my life. Any strength I appear to have, comes directly from my faith. I am truly nothing when I put it aside. I have a great deal of difficulty with some of my husband's children and a sister. Yet, I'm sure there is a message there somewhere and I just haven't seen or heard it yet. Perhaps the message isn't for me at all and it's simply that someone else needs it through me! Since I chat with my Higher Power quite often, I'll certainly include you in one of our conversations. Actually, who knows, perhaps I was supposed to receive a lesson from you. Gloria ________________________________  thank you jill, and i love you to my friend!! i will send you my address. and i invited pam to our group but shes not a comp. person, so i doubt we will ever see her here,which is sad cause she relys on me for most of her info...and we know i am not the gal for that job. its just so sad to see the ins and louts of who gets to live and who doesnt.itt scares the crap outta me. thank you for your prayers. ya never know pete could experience a miracle....i wish we all could. love you toots > > Oh Barbydoll...I am so sorry to hear this. You have so much to deal with,having to support Pam and knowing you will be in her shoes soon......I too, will be in those shoes someday. How awful that Pete cannot get help and keeps drinking and gets not one bot TWO livers! Where is the justice in that?  You know that I'm a Believer....but in these cases I wonder if God really listens. Has Pam joined our group?  Can you private message me your address on FB?  I will put Pete and Pam in my prayers...and you are always there too!  I love you Barbydoll! > > >                     \                    >                     \                Love,Jill >  > We don't remember days, we remember moments. > Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. > > > To: livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Saturday, September 3, 2011 10:07 AM > Subject: brother in law > > >  > hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 I really need someone to talk to to one on one. Ihjave reached out to a few different indivdualsi n this group only to be ingnored. I love this gourp and feel this is the plae for reach to for help, but if I a wrong then i am wrong, if and this is ot the place to make personal friendships then please forgive me. I am so sorry, I really need somtone to talk to talk to on a one to om a one to one bass s, I have reached ogerts .coout to a few people wit no luck so far. I am fjoany@rogersc,om, if anyonew needs a friemd or someme to talk to. I kow I sure d0. This group is great its just that a little on once in a while I could use a more persomal contact, If ayone feesls the same way and needs a frined ti talk to listenI am here, Joan is my name. Thnaks for yor time and atenetion . oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo\ ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Hospital=death is the ultimate enemy,suffering is unfortunate but not a real concern..................Hospice=suffering is the ultimate enemy, death is a welcome friend You aren't going to be next, dont even say that !! ... You won't just give up...not without a FIGHT! Bobby Glenn has to be watched like a hawk, CT scan on a regular basis to catch HCC early., get on the top of the list. . Just remember you and Bobby are a team, and you are gonna SHAKE and BAKE when the time comes. Love, Bobby A To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Saturday, September 3, 2011 8:07 AM Subject: brother in law hi gang,pete our brother in law is in bad shape, theygave him 6 months,but dont think he will make it that long. hes in and outta hosp. kidneys shutting down, crazy in his head, needless to say the hosp. in la. doesnt seem to give a damn, they send him home and in 2 days hes back. bobbys sister pam is beside herself, so i suggested hospice to come into the home,shes gonna check into it. they are raising a 4 yearold grandson.... strikingly similiar to our lives...raising a grandchild...cant get disability....husband slowly dieing....petes liver became cancerous, they cant save him it spread everywhere even into his lungs. our other brother in law paul, got a liver, started drinking again, new liver failed and the ass got another one!!!! yup i am angry i am sad, correction pissed. its hard for me to listen to pam cry...because i know i am next, not in 6 months, but someday.just needed to vent and ask for your prayers .i love ya all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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