Guest guest Posted March 22, 2011 Report Share Posted March 22, 2011 Dear Lorraine, Hi My name is Bobby. I am 47 years old and am a moderator of this group. I am no doctor, but I will tell you what I know about end stage liver disease. It is technically " terminal liver disease " because the only known treatment is a liver transplant. There many many complications associated with it, and these can be treated, but the disease itself is rather more like a " condition " , where an organ is ruined, and doesn't function correctly anymore. Alcohol, obesity, hep C, and even unknown things cause the liver to become scarred up, and the blood cannot flow through it like it should. There is a massive vein which drapes over the small and large intestines, which goes through the liver to filter blood. This is the portal vein. The blood in the portal vein can actually back up because of the scar tissue, and even flow backward. This causes many of the complications, including bleeding iside the digestive tract, and mental status changes, and even swelling in the belly and feet. Varicies, encephalopathy, and ascites are three of the big complcations which usually signal the need for the transplant evaluation. Pills are given to slow down the swelling in the belly, and other pills are used to slow the heart, and lessen the blood pressure to slow the creation of extra veins in the digestive tract which tend to bleed. Lactulose which is non absorbency sugar helps with the nasty toxins in the gut, and helps keep them out of the blood stream. Diabetes can develop as a result of cirrhosis, but in my experience, it is usually a cause rather than a complication. Hope this help answer some questions Love, Bobby ________________________________ To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Mon, March 21, 2011 2:41:50 PM Subject: Question I was told about August 2010 that I had LC. I actually wasn't told, it was written on a lab slip I needed to get more blood transfusions, 4 in all, plus 5 IV iron treatments. They said the blood thing was not associated with the liver and now this new hemioncologist says it might be. I had a liver biopsy in January of this year and it was totally positive. My question is that I have received no treatment other than the above and does anyone have a blood disorder to get along with this disea6rra5ne6rrse. My blood counts dropped very low and my platelet count is also dropping. Is that the way it goes, no treatment until you get worse? I thought they had meds that would help slow it down. My other question is the Medtronic thingy you are talking about. Does diabetes or insulin deficiency syndrome kick in after a while? If anybody has thoughts on the above, I would love to hear them. Thanks. I am reading all the posts. You guys are great! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 13, 2011 Report Share Posted April 13, 2011 I have a question that some may be able to help with. Four weeks ago after a botched gallbladder removal, a portal vein was nicked and there was a loss of blood supply to my husband's right lobe. When they finally realized that he was hemorrhaging emergency surgery took place to stop the blood. Then infection set in and more surgery was done to remove the infected right lobe--which I was told disintegrated during the surgery. Yesterday the doctor told me that after doing cat scans he only lost 3/8 of this right lobe and it appears that some blood is making its way into the right lobe from the left lobe. The doc said the left lobe was looking better. His bilurubins are down very significantly down below 5--don;t know exactly I He is in intensive care 5 days alter and of course is fighting 2 infections with antibiotics. All his vitals are good controlled with medications. His urine output is good and he is on a respirator to assist his breathing and to allow him to heal. I guess that is true judging from other patient families I spoke to Can anyone offer any advice - general specific? I keep getting told that it is day to day for now and recovery could take 3 months. We do not care how long but we do care about procedures being done right... of course...Yes he was a drinker but not to extremes. Yes he took lots of vitamins and was taking over the counter medications for pain etc. And yes years ago he came down with an unspecified illness in Mexico - high fever chills and it was never determined or followed up on to see if it was a hepatitis strain. It recurred several times and then went away. I wonder if they can figure that out years later... thank you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2011 Report Share Posted December 1, 2011 Yep....my hubby has been Stage 4 for 7 years now. He has had many, many esophageal varices banded and  also has other symptoms of end stage. While his stomach is huge,his hep doc says he does not have acites yet. He has an ultrasound every 6 months top check for liver cancer....but the rest is a waiting game. But aren't we all in that waiting game? : )                                                                            Love,Jill  We don't remember days, we remember moments. Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. ________________________________ To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 11:42 PM Subject: Re: Question  Of course, I am not a Dr; but, I do have cirrhosis. My understanding is that one could live a pretty normal life on just 20% of their liver; but, of course remaining vigilant not to harm it. No, stage 4 liver disease is classified as End of Stage Liver Disease; but, it doesn't have to be the whole liver. In fact, there are many many folks that have been ESLD for over a decade. All the while that the liver is being damaged, it is constantly making new paths for the blood, because cirrhosis is killing that part. That's why our liver get very gnarly. Someone has told me that it takes about 8 years for the liver to completely mend itself. I'm not sure that is true. In 2004, I had my 1st biopsy. It came back as stage 3 fibrosis bridging to stage 4 cirrhosis. I wonder now if the Dr. hit the right spot and that I was actually already stage 4. The only reason for wondering is because for me the cirrhosis has caused my liver to be cancerous. I know that other folks on this site will tell you lots. Especially Bobby!! I swear that man knows more about the liver than most Drs do. Gloria ________________________________  If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? Fran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2011 Report Share Posted December 1, 2011 I have ESLD and my doctor has been talking live donor. I don't think that I could ask anyone to do that for me...but that is me. I am having to be drained every 10 days and they usually get 8 to 15 liters of fluid...so my doctor has suggested a TIPS procedure in hope that will slow down the fluid........OK I go off subject.....thanks yall....I am a Texan.    Lyncia To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 10:42 PM Subject: Re: Question  Of course, I am not a Dr; but, I do have cirrhosis. My understanding is that one could live a pretty normal life on just 20% of their liver; but, of course remaining vigilant not to harm it. No, stage 4 liver disease is classified as End of Stage Liver Disease; but, it doesn't have to be the whole liver. In fact, there are many many folks that have been ESLD for over a decade. All the while that the liver is being damaged, it is constantly making new paths for the blood, because cirrhosis is killing that part. That's why our liver get very gnarly. Someone has told me that it takes about 8 years for the liver to completely mend itself. I'm not sure that is true. In 2004, I had my 1st biopsy. It came back as stage 3 fibrosis bridging to stage 4 cirrhosis. I wonder now if the Dr. hit the right spot and that I was actually already stage 4. The only reason for wondering is because for me the cirrhosis has caused my liver to be cancerous. I know that other folks on this site will tell you lots. Especially Bobby!! I swear that man knows more about the liver than most Drs do. Gloria ________________________________  If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? Fran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2011 Report Share Posted December 1, 2011 Hi, It has been a while since I posted (newbie with sister that needs a liver). My sister is being drained about the same amount you are. What is a TIPS? If you remember, live liver donor is what we are hoping for but I know it does not come without risk and a big ask of someone. As a sister I feel like it is my job to help ask for live liver donors since I know my sister feels similar to you. I didn't mean to go dark so quickly but soon after I sent my initial email I was diagnoses with breast cancer so I've been dealing with that. This week was my first back into the office. I also have an auto immune issue (IGM switch defect) and I'm over 50 so recover was a bit slow but everything is back up and running and I can focus on my sister again. Warm regards to all. . Re: Question  Of course, I am not a Dr; but, I do have cirrhosis. My understanding is that one could live a pretty normal life on just 20% of their liver; but, of course remaining vigilant not to harm it. No, stage 4 liver disease is classified as End of Stage Liver Disease; but, it doesn't have to be the whole liver. In fact, there are many many folks that have been ESLD for over a decade. All the while that the liver is being damaged, it is constantly making new paths for the blood, because cirrhosis is killing that part. That's why our liver get very gnarly. Someone has told me that it takes about 8 years for the liver to completely mend itself. I'm not sure that is true. In 2004, I had my 1st biopsy. It came back as stage 3 fibrosis bridging to stage 4 cirrhosis. I wonder now if the Dr. hit the right spot and that I was actually already stage 4. The only reason for wondering is because for me the cirrhosis has caused my liver to be cancerous. I know that other folks on this site will tell you lots. Especially Bobby!! I swear that man knows more about the liver than most Drs do. Gloria ________________________________  If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? Fran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2011 Report Share Posted December 1, 2011 This link explains TIPS.  http://www.hepatitis-central.com/hcv/whatis/shunt.html  Lyncia To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 10:43 AM Subject: RE: Question  Hi, It has been a while since I posted (newbie with sister that needs a liver). My sister is being drained about the same amount you are. What is a TIPS? If you remember, live liver donor is what we are hoping for but I know it does not come without risk and a big ask of someone. As a sister I feel like it is my job to help ask for live liver donors since I know my sister feels similar to you. I didn't mean to go dark so quickly but soon after I sent my initial email I was diagnoses with breast cancer so I've been dealing with that. This week was my first back into the office. I also have an auto immune issue (IGM switch defect) and I'm over 50 so recover was a bit slow but everything is back up and running and I can focus on my sister again. Warm regards to all. . Re: Question  Of course, I am not a Dr; but, I do have cirrhosis. My understanding is that one could live a pretty normal life on just 20% of their liver; but, of course remaining vigilant not to harm it. No, stage 4 liver disease is classified as End of Stage Liver Disease; but, it doesn't have to be the whole liver. In fact, there are many many folks that have been ESLD for over a decade. All the while that the liver is being damaged, it is constantly making new paths for the blood, because cirrhosis is killing that part. That's why our liver get very gnarly. Someone has told me that it takes about 8 years for the liver to completely mend itself. I'm not sure that is true. In 2004, I had my 1st biopsy. It came back as stage 3 fibrosis bridging to stage 4 cirrhosis. I wonder now if the Dr. hit the right spot and that I was actually already stage 4. The only reason for wondering is because for me the cirrhosis has caused my liver to be cancerous. I know that other folks on this site will tell you lots. Especially Bobby!! I swear that man knows more about the liver than most Drs do. Gloria ________________________________  If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? Fran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2011 Report Share Posted December 1, 2011 Ah... okay. My sister has mentioned that to me. Thanks, . Re: Question  Of course, I am not a Dr; but, I do have cirrhosis. My understanding is that one could live a pretty normal life on just 20% of their liver; but, of course remaining vigilant not to harm it. No, stage 4 liver disease is classified as End of Stage Liver Disease; but, it doesn't have to be the whole liver. In fact, there are many many folks that have been ESLD for over a decade. All the while that the liver is being damaged, it is constantly making new paths for the blood, because cirrhosis is killing that part. That's why our liver get very gnarly. Someone has told me that it takes about 8 years for the liver to completely mend itself. I'm not sure that is true. In 2004, I had my 1st biopsy. It came back as stage 3 fibrosis bridging to stage 4 cirrhosis. I wonder now if the Dr. hit the right spot and that I was actually already stage 4. The only reason for wondering is because for me the cirrhosis has caused my liver to be cancerous. I know that other folks on this site will tell you lots. Especially Bobby!! I swear that man knows more about the liver than most Drs do. Gloria ________________________________  If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? Fran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2011 Report Share Posted December 1, 2011 Dear Fran, a diagnosis of " cirrhosis " usually means stage 4 fibrosis. It is a state of the liver tissue, and not a clinical finding of the patient. Stage 3 fibrosis usually means a serious but possibly reversible condition, and does not involve all of the liver. A good pathologist will not usually get them mixed up, but we are all human. Stage 4 fibrosis, also known as " end stage liver disease " is usually not reversible, and is considered " terminal liver disease " . It means that the entire liver is completely scarred. I hope this helps with any confusion. Love, Bobby  ________________________________ From: f_fwb <no_reply > To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:57 PM Subject: Question  If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? Fran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2011 Report Share Posted December 1, 2011 We have not been given a stage for my husband's cirrhosis. He has not had a biopsy. We have not had any doctor sit down and give us his time to explain cirrhosis, even after I told the one who diagnosed him that I learned everything I knew by reading the Internet. They just assume you went to med school? As far as I can recall, it was the ultra sound that resulted in the diagnosis, along with the doctor's observations of my husband's physical features, such as the shape of his legs. Fran > > Dear Fran, a diagnosis of " cirrhosis " usually means stage 4 fibrosis. It is a state of the liver tissue, and not a clinical finding of the patient. Stage 3 fibrosis usually means a serious but possibly reversible condition, and does not involve all of the liver. A good pathologist will not usually get them mixed up, but we are all human. Stage 4 fibrosis, also known as " end stage liver disease " is usually not reversible, and is considered " terminal liver disease " . It means that the entire liver is completely scarred. > > I hope this helps with any confusion. Love, Bobby > > Â > > > ________________________________ > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > To: livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:57 PM > Subject: Question > > > Â > If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? > > Fran > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2011 Report Share Posted December 2, 2011 hi lyncia,wherein tx do you live? i live in houston and go to the tx liver center.they told me that to get a living donor i would have to to go to the east coast because they don't do them here in tx.my brother was going to give me part of his but they said no and that the risk to the donor is higher then the recepitant.and i personally could not risk that.  lol bev,tx ________________________________ To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 12:08 PM Subject: RE: Question  Ah... okay. My sister has mentioned that to me. Thanks, . Re: Question  Of course, I am not a Dr; but, I do have cirrhosis. My understanding is that one could live a pretty normal life on just 20% of their liver; but, of course remaining vigilant not to harm it. No, stage 4 liver disease is classified as End of Stage Liver Disease; but, it doesn't have to be the whole liver. In fact, there are many many folks that have been ESLD for over a decade. All the while that the liver is being damaged, it is constantly making new paths for the blood, because cirrhosis is killing that part. That's why our liver get very gnarly. Someone has told me that it takes about 8 years for the liver to completely mend itself. I'm not sure that is true. In 2004, I had my 1st biopsy. It came back as stage 3 fibrosis bridging to stage 4 cirrhosis. I wonder now if the Dr. hit the right spot and that I was actually already stage 4. The only reason for wondering is because for me the cirrhosis has caused my liver to be cancerous. I know that other folks on this site will tell you lots. Especially Bobby!! I swear that man knows more about the liver than most Drs do. Gloria ________________________________  If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? Fran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2011 Report Share Posted December 2, 2011 Since we have focused on live liver donor we have also been given that pushback. They feel more comfortable with a couple of our options because they are so tall (6'6 " and 6' 5 " ) which apparently means their livers are larger and the smaller portion of the liver can be used thus less risky to the donor. This is just how we've been told at Stanford. I'm sure it is frustrating to have a donor but not given the option. We have felt that way with various donor options. . Re: Question  Of course, I am not a Dr; but, I do have cirrhosis. My understanding is that one could live a pretty normal life on just 20% of their liver; but, of course remaining vigilant not to harm it. No, stage 4 liver disease is classified as End of Stage Liver Disease; but, it doesn't have to be the whole liver. In fact, there are many many folks that have been ESLD for over a decade. All the while that the liver is being damaged, it is constantly making new paths for the blood, because cirrhosis is killing that part. That's why our liver get very gnarly. Someone has told me that it takes about 8 years for the liver to completely mend itself. I'm not sure that is true. In 2004, I had my 1st biopsy. It came back as stage 3 fibrosis bridging to stage 4 cirrhosis. I wonder now if the Dr. hit the right spot and that I was actually already stage 4. The only reason for wondering is because for me the cirrhosis has caused my liver to be cancerous. I know that other folks on this site will tell you lots. Especially Bobby!! I swear that man knows more about the liver than most Drs do. Gloria ________________________________  If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? Fran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2011 Report Share Posted December 2, 2011 Bev,  I am in Dallas. I go to the Liver Institute and was told that Baylor in Dallas are now doing the living donor and also Mayo in Nevada (?).  Let me know if you come this way.  Lyncia To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Friday, December 2, 2011 2:42 AM Subject: Re: Question  hi lyncia,wherein tx do you live? i live in houston and go to the tx liver center.they told me that to get a living donor i would have to to go to the east coast because they don't do them here in tx.my brother was going to give me part of his but they said no and that the risk to the donor is higher then the recepitant.and i personally could not risk that.  lol bev,tx ________________________________ To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 12:08 PM Subject: RE: Question  Ah... okay. My sister has mentioned that to me. Thanks, . Re: Question  Of course, I am not a Dr; but, I do have cirrhosis. My understanding is that one could live a pretty normal life on just 20% of their liver; but, of course remaining vigilant not to harm it. No, stage 4 liver disease is classified as End of Stage Liver Disease; but, it doesn't have to be the whole liver. In fact, there are many many folks that have been ESLD for over a decade. All the while that the liver is being damaged, it is constantly making new paths for the blood, because cirrhosis is killing that part. That's why our liver get very gnarly. Someone has told me that it takes about 8 years for the liver to completely mend itself. I'm not sure that is true. In 2004, I had my 1st biopsy. It came back as stage 3 fibrosis bridging to stage 4 cirrhosis. I wonder now if the Dr. hit the right spot and that I was actually already stage 4. The only reason for wondering is because for me the cirrhosis has caused my liver to be cancerous. I know that other folks on this site will tell you lots. Especially Bobby!! I swear that man knows more about the liver than most Drs do. Gloria ________________________________  If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? Fran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2011 Report Share Posted December 2, 2011 Dear Fran, this sounds very very unusual. I am only a friend, not a professional doctor, and cannot give out medical advice, but when a member tells me that they have not had a biopsy, I get very suspicious. It is a difficult road to travel without a map, and a definitive diagnosis gives us a very specific map. If it were me or my loved one, I would trust only the very very best Hepatologist at a high end transplant center like Cleveland clinic or Vanderbuilt or Loma to make a diagnosis without a biopsy. Needle biopsy is the gold standard for diagnosis of end stage liver disease. Have you ever considered a second opinion? Love, Bobby ________________________________ From: f_fwb <no_reply > To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 10:16 PM Subject: Re: Question  We have not been given a stage for my husband's cirrhosis. He has not had a biopsy. We have not had any doctor sit down and give us his time to explain cirrhosis, even after I told the one who diagnosed him that I learned everything I knew by reading the Internet. They just assume you went to med school? As far as I can recall, it was the ultra sound that resulted in the diagnosis, along with the doctor's observations of my husband's physical features, such as the shape of his legs. Fran > > Dear Fran, a diagnosis of " cirrhosis " usually means stage 4 fibrosis. It is a state of the liver tissue, and not a clinical finding of the patient. Stage 3 fibrosis usually means a serious but possibly reversible condition, and does not involve all of the liver. A good pathologist will not usually get them mixed up, but we are all human. Stage 4 fibrosis, also known as " end stage liver disease " is usually not reversible, and is considered " terminal liver disease " . It means that the entire liver is completely scarred. > > I hope this helps with any confusion. Love, Bobby > >  > > > ________________________________ > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > To: livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:57 PM > Subject: Question > > >  > If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? > > Fran > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2011 Report Share Posted December 2, 2011 bobby, i have asked my hepatolgist several times about having a biopsy of my liver and they told me it was only nessasary if it wasn't clear on the ultrasound and mri scans.they did say that over half of my liver is cirrhosis.another thing i am really confused about is the meld score my keeps going from 20 to 13 it changes in from month to month and i feel worse all the time now.sometimes i am so tired of fighting this. just some of my thoughts. bev,tx ________________________________ To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Friday, December 2, 2011 3:33 PM Subject: Re: Question  Dear Fran, this sounds very very unusual. I am only a friend, not a professional doctor, and cannot give out medical advice, but when a member tells me that they have not had a biopsy, I get very suspicious. It is a difficult road to travel without a map, and a definitive diagnosis gives us a very specific map. If it were me or my loved one, I would trust only the very very best Hepatologist at a high end transplant center like Cleveland clinic or Vanderbuilt or Loma to make a diagnosis without a biopsy. Needle biopsy is the gold standard for diagnosis of end stage liver disease. Have you ever considered a second opinion? Love, Bobby ________________________________ From: f_fwb <no_reply > To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 10:16 PM Subject: Re: Question  We have not been given a stage for my husband's cirrhosis. He has not had a biopsy. We have not had any doctor sit down and give us his time to explain cirrhosis, even after I told the one who diagnosed him that I learned everything I knew by reading the Internet. They just assume you went to med school? As far as I can recall, it was the ultra sound that resulted in the diagnosis, along with the doctor's observations of my husband's physical features, such as the shape of his legs. Fran > > Dear Fran, a diagnosis of " cirrhosis " usually means stage 4 fibrosis. It is a state of the liver tissue, and not a clinical finding of the patient. Stage 3 fibrosis usually means a serious but possibly reversible condition, and does not involve all of the liver. A good pathologist will not usually get them mixed up, but we are all human. Stage 4 fibrosis, also known as " end stage liver disease " is usually not reversible, and is considered " terminal liver disease " . It means that the entire liver is completely scarred. > > I hope this helps with any confusion. Love, Bobby > >  > > > ________________________________ > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > To: livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:57 PM > Subject: Question > > >  > If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? > > Fran > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2011 Report Share Posted December 2, 2011 Ed's hepatologist diagnosed him without a biopsy. Dr is the Asst head of the Dept of Hepatology and also part of thr transplant team at The Cleveland Clinic. He said a biopsy is invasive and not necessary in Ed's case as Ed has alot of other problems that can only stem from Cirrhosis. We go back up next week for a check up...ultrasound and doc visit. Ed is not having an EGD thios time because his insurance changed and he says i;'s too expensive and he feels good right now....and says he feels so bad after having an EGD with bandings..... Soooooo I guess he will simply bleed out one day. Do I sound callous? I'm just tired of Ed burying his head in the sand and pretending it will be okay. It's hard! My friend's husband died in August after having pretty much the same attitude as Ed.. Ed has been so lucky for about 7 years now.....how much longer can his luck hold?                                                                     Love,Jill  We don't remember days, we remember moments. Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. ________________________________ To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Friday, December 2, 2011 6:33 PM Subject: Re: Question  Dear Fran, this sounds very very unusual. I am only a friend, not a professional doctor, and cannot give out medical advice, but when a member tells me that they have not had a biopsy, I get very suspicious. It is a difficult road to travel without a map, and a definitive diagnosis gives us a very specific map. If it were me or my loved one, I would trust only the very very best Hepatologist at a high end transplant center like Cleveland clinic or Vanderbuilt or Loma to make a diagnosis without a biopsy. Needle biopsy is the gold standard for diagnosis of end stage liver disease. Have you ever considered a second opinion? Love, Bobby ________________________________ From: f_fwb <no_reply > To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 10:16 PM Subject: Re: Question  We have not been given a stage for my husband's cirrhosis. He has not had a biopsy. We have not had any doctor sit down and give us his time to explain cirrhosis, even after I told the one who diagnosed him that I learned everything I knew by reading the Internet. They just assume you went to med school? As far as I can recall, it was the ultra sound that resulted in the diagnosis, along with the doctor's observations of my husband's physical features, such as the shape of his legs. Fran > > Dear Fran, a diagnosis of " cirrhosis " usually means stage 4 fibrosis. It is a state of the liver tissue, and not a clinical finding of the patient. Stage 3 fibrosis usually means a serious but possibly reversible condition, and does not involve all of the liver. A good pathologist will not usually get them mixed up, but we are all human. Stage 4 fibrosis, also known as " end stage liver disease " is usually not reversible, and is considered " terminal liver disease " . It means that the entire liver is completely scarred. > > I hope this helps with any confusion. Love, Bobby > >  > > > ________________________________ > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > To: livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:57 PM > Subject: Question > > >  > If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? > > Fran > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2011 Report Share Posted December 2, 2011 We are each responsible for our own heath...I found that out with my hubby who had heart problemsI told him I will cook for him but he wanted the bad stuff... he tried the last year but it was to late for himI am very lonely now I did my best to take care of him...but it was up to him to be well Annie > To: livercirrhosissupport > From: jillkstewart@... > Date: Fri, 2 Dec 2011 21:31:32 -0800 > Subject: Re: Question > > > > Ed's hepatologist diagnosed him without a biopsy. Dr is the Asst head of the Dept of Hepatology and also part of thr transplant team at The Cleveland Clinic. He said a biopsy is invasive and not necessary in Ed's case as Ed has alot of other problems that can only stem from Cirrhosis. We go back up next week for a check up...ultrasound and doc visit. Ed is not having an EGD thios time because his insurance changed and he says i;'s too expensive and he feels good right now....and says he feels so bad after having an EGD with bandings..... Soooooo I guess he will simply bleed out one day. Do I sound callous? I'm just tired of Ed burying his head in the sand and pretending it will be okay. It's hard! My friend's husband died in August after having pretty much the same attitude as Ed.. Ed has been so lucky for about 7 years now.....how much longer can his luck hold? > > > > > > Love,Jill > > We don't remember days, we remember moments. > Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. > > > ________________________________ > > To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > > Sent: Friday, December 2, 2011 6:33 PM > Subject: Re: Question > > > > Dear Fran, this sounds very very unusual. I am only a friend, not a professional doctor, and cannot give out medical advice, but when a member tells me that they have not had a biopsy, I get very suspicious. It is a difficult road to travel without a map, and a definitive diagnosis gives us a very specific map. If it were me or my loved one, I would trust only the very very best Hepatologist at a high end transplant center like Cleveland clinic or Vanderbuilt or Loma to make a diagnosis without a biopsy. Needle biopsy is the gold standard for diagnosis of end stage liver disease. Have you ever considered a second opinion? Love, Bobby > > ________________________________ > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > To: livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 10:16 PM > Subject: Re: Question > > > > We have not been given a stage for my husband's cirrhosis. He has not had a biopsy. > We have not had any doctor sit down and give us his time to explain cirrhosis, even after I told the one who diagnosed him that I learned everything I knew by reading the Internet. They just assume you went to med school? > As far as I can recall, it was the ultra sound that resulted in the diagnosis, along with the doctor's observations of my husband's physical features, such as the shape of his legs. > > Fran > > > > > > Dear Fran, a diagnosis of " cirrhosis " usually means stage 4 fibrosis. It is a state of the liver tissue, and not a clinical finding of the patient. Stage 3 fibrosis usually means a serious but possibly reversible condition, and does not involve all of the liver. A good pathologist will not usually get them mixed up, but we are all human. Stage 4 fibrosis, also known as " end stage liver disease " is usually not reversible, and is considered " terminal liver disease " . It means that the entire liver is completely scarred. > > > > I hope this helps with any confusion. Love, Bobby > > > > Â > > > > > > ________________________________ > > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > > To: livercirrhosissupport > > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:57 PM > > Subject: Question > > > > > > Â > > If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? > > > > Fran > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2011 Report Share Posted December 2, 2011 You're right,Annie. It's hard to watch,tho!                                                                           Love,Jill  We don't remember days, we remember moments. Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. ________________________________ To: liver cirrhosis support <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:35 AM Subject: RE: Question  We are each responsible for our own heath...I found that out with my hubby who had heart problemsI told him I will cook for him but he wanted the bad stuff... he tried the last year but it was to late for himI am very lonely now I did my best to take care of him...but it was up to him to be well Annie > To: livercirrhosissupport > From: jillkstewart@... > Date: Fri, 2 Dec 2011 21:31:32 -0800 > Subject: Re: Question > > > > Ed's hepatologist diagnosed him without a biopsy. Dr is the Asst head of the Dept of Hepatology and also part of thr transplant team at The Cleveland Clinic. He said a biopsy is invasive and not necessary in Ed's case as Ed has alot of other problems that can only stem from Cirrhosis. We go back up next week for a check up...ultrasound and doc visit. Ed is not having an EGD thios time because his insurance changed and he says i;'s too expensive and he feels good right now....and says he feels so bad after having an EGD with bandings..... Soooooo I guess he will simply bleed out one day. Do I sound callous? I'm just tired of Ed burying his head in the sand and pretending it will be okay. It's hard! My friend's husband died in August after having pretty much the same attitude as Ed.. Ed has been so lucky for about 7 years now.....how much longer can his luck hold? > > > > > > Love,Jill > > We don't remember days, we remember moments. > Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. > > > ________________________________ > > To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > > Sent: Friday, December 2, 2011 6:33 PM > Subject: Re: Question > > > > Dear Fran, this sounds very very unusual. I am only a friend, not a professional doctor, and cannot give out medical advice, but when a member tells me that they have not had a biopsy, I get very suspicious. It is a difficult road to travel without a map, and a definitive diagnosis gives us a very specific map. If it were me or my loved one, I would trust only the very very best Hepatologist at a high end transplant center like Cleveland clinic or Vanderbuilt or Loma to make a diagnosis without a biopsy. Needle biopsy is the gold standard for diagnosis of end stage liver disease. Have you ever considered a second opinion? Love, Bobby > > ________________________________ > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > To: livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 10:16 PM > Subject: Re: Question > > > > We have not been given a stage for my husband's cirrhosis. He has not had a biopsy. > We have not had any doctor sit down and give us his time to explain cirrhosis, even after I told the one who diagnosed him that I learned everything I knew by reading the Internet. They just assume you went to med school? > As far as I can recall, it was the ultra sound that resulted in the diagnosis, along with the doctor's observations of my husband's physical features, such as the shape of his legs. > > Fran > > > > > > Dear Fran, a diagnosis of " cirrhosis " usually means stage 4 fibrosis. It is a state of the liver tissue, and not a clinical finding of the patient. Stage 3 fibrosis usually means a serious but possibly reversible condition, and does not involve all of the liver. A good pathologist will not usually get them mixed up, but we are all human. Stage 4 fibrosis, also known as " end stage liver disease " is usually not reversible, and is considered " terminal liver disease " . It means that the entire liver is completely scarred. > > > > I hope this helps with any confusion. Love, Bobby > > > > Â > > > > > > ________________________________ > > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > > To: livercirrhosissupport > > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:57 PM > > Subject: Question > > > > > > Â > > If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? > > > > Fran > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2011 Report Share Posted December 2, 2011 yes,,, my hubby kept going till the day before he passed..which was aug 7th...very fresh in my mind Annie > To: livercirrhosissupport > From: jillkstewart@... > Date: Fri, 2 Dec 2011 21:49:13 -0800 > Subject: Re: Question > > You're right,Annie. It's hard to watch,tho! > > > > Love,Jill > > We don't remember days, we remember moments. > Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. > > > ________________________________ > > To: liver cirrhosis support <livercirrhosissupport > > Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:35 AM > Subject: RE: Question > > > > > > We are each responsible for our own heath...I found that out with my hubby who had heart problemsI told him I will cook for him but he wanted the bad stuff... he tried the last year but it was to late for himI am very lonely now I did my best to take care of him...but it was up to him to be well > Annie > > To: livercirrhosissupport > > From: jillkstewart@... > > Date: Fri, 2 Dec 2011 21:31:32 -0800 > > Subject: Re: Question > > > > > > > > Ed's hepatologist diagnosed him without a biopsy. Dr is the Asst head of the Dept of Hepatology and also part of thr transplant team at The Cleveland Clinic. He said a biopsy is invasive and not necessary in Ed's case as Ed has alot of other problems that can only stem from Cirrhosis. We go back up next week for a check up...ultrasound and doc visit. Ed is not having an EGD thios time because his insurance changed and he says i;'s too expensive and he feels good right now....and says he feels so bad after having an EGD with bandings..... Soooooo I guess he will simply bleed out one day. Do I sound callous? I'm just tired of Ed burying his head in the sand and pretending it will be okay. It's hard! My friend's husband died in August after having pretty much the same attitude as Ed.. Ed has been so lucky for about 7 years now.....how much longer can his luck hold? > > > > > > > > > > > > Love,Jill > > > > We don't remember days, we remember moments. > > Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > > > Sent: Friday, December 2, 2011 6:33 PM > > Subject: Re: Question > > > > > > > > Dear Fran, this sounds very very unusual. I am only a friend, not a professional doctor, and cannot give out medical advice, but when a member tells me that they have not had a biopsy, I get very suspicious. It is a difficult road to travel without a map, and a definitive diagnosis gives us a very specific map. If it were me or my loved one, I would trust only the very very best Hepatologist at a high end transplant center like Cleveland clinic or Vanderbuilt or Loma to make a diagnosis without a biopsy. Needle biopsy is the gold standard for diagnosis of end stage liver disease. Have you ever considered a second opinion? Love, Bobby > > > > ________________________________ > > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > > To: livercirrhosissupport > > Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 10:16 PM > > Subject: Re: Question > > > > > > > > We have not been given a stage for my husband's cirrhosis. He has not had a biopsy. > > We have not had any doctor sit down and give us his time to explain cirrhosis, even after I told the one who diagnosed him that I learned everything I knew by reading the Internet. They just assume you went to med school? > > As far as I can recall, it was the ultra sound that resulted in the diagnosis, along with the doctor's observations of my husband's physical features, such as the shape of his legs. > > > > Fran > > > > > > > > > > Dear Fran, a diagnosis of " cirrhosis " usually means stage 4 fibrosis. It is a state of the liver tissue, and not a clinical finding of the patient. Stage 3 fibrosis usually means a serious but possibly reversible condition, and does not involve all of the liver. A good pathologist will not usually get them mixed up, but we are all human. Stage 4 fibrosis, also known as " end stage liver disease " is usually not reversible, and is considered " terminal liver disease " . It means that the entire liver is completely scarred. > > > > > > I hope this helps with any confusion. Love, Bobby > > > > > > Â > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > > > To: livercirrhosissupport > > > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:57 PM > > > Subject: Question > > > > > > > > > Â > > > If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? > > > > > > Fran > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2011 Report Share Posted December 3, 2011 I can appreciate some of these comments. My sister stopped taking her medication for a week because she was just sick of it all. Unfortunately, it landed her in the hospital and the rest of us needed to jump in and help. While I didn't think that was fair to all of her caregivers at the same time I could appreciate why she did it because I have had many medical issues myself (IGM switch defect - autoimmune, cancer recently, etc). You just get sick of being sick. (I'm sure most of you understand.) Ultimately, she is a grown woman and has her free agency. I was with her when she was first diagnosed. I cried because I had been ill for a few years and had an idea what was ahead of her. Many times I wish that I could give her my liver so one of us could move on as one complete healthy person. :-) Thank goodness I was with her when her varices (sp?) burst. It is so hard to watch someone you love suffer. My heart goes out to all of you who are struggling with health issues. The liver is an amazing organ and until my sisters diagnosis I really didn't understand the complexity or the number of functions the liver is responsible for. Kinda made me feel like I should put my hand over my liver vs hand over my heart. :-) I appreciate each day I feel well enough to enjoy a sunset, work, travel or doing something/anything. Each day and moment is a gift. Warm regards, . Question > > > > > > Â > > If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? > > > > Fran > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2011 Report Share Posted December 3, 2011 Jill Exactly the thing - none of us know how long we have!! You know, I feel blessed somehow, because I have a warning. The warning is to get my affairs in order. Not that my husband would have done it; but, he didn't get much of a warning. ________________________________  Yep....my hubby has been Stage 4 for 7 years now. He has had many, many esophageal varices banded and  also has other symptoms of end stage. While his stomach is huge,his hep doc says he does not have acites yet. He has an ultrasound every 6 months top check for liver cancer....but the rest is a waiting game. But aren't we all in that waiting game? : )                                                                            Love,Jill  We don't remember days, we remember moments. Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. ________________________________ To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 11:42 PM Subject: Re: Question  Of course, I am not a Dr; but, I do have cirrhosis. My understanding is that one could live a pretty normal life on just 20% of their liver; but, of course remaining vigilant not to harm it. No, stage 4 liver disease is classified as End of Stage Liver Disease; but, it doesn't have to be the whole liver. In fact, there are many many folks that have been ESLD for over a decade. All the while that the liver is being damaged, it is constantly making new paths for the blood, because cirrhosis is killing that part. That's why our liver get very gnarly. Someone has told me that it takes about 8 years for the liver to completely mend itself. I'm not sure that is true. In 2004, I had my 1st biopsy. It came back as stage 3 fibrosis bridging to stage 4 cirrhosis. I wonder now if the Dr. hit the right spot and that I was actually already stage 4. The only reason for wondering is because for me the cirrhosis has caused my liver to be cancerous. I know that other folks on this site will tell you lots. Especially Bobby!! I swear that man knows more about the liver than most Drs do. Gloria ________________________________  If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? Fran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2011 Report Share Posted December 3, 2011 With an auto immune issue, I doubt that you would be classified as a candidate.  I'm sorry to hear about your own cancer. That's a lot for family members of both of you to deal with. I lost a baby brother at 51 yrs old to colon cancer last January. It was such a shock for all of us. So, when I had to go and tell my Mom that my cancer is back - she started to cry. Honestly, I think I've seen my mother cry, maybe 5 times in my life. It's so hard to lose the people we love. ________________________________  Hi, It has been a while since I posted (newbie with sister that needs a liver). My sister is being drained about the same amount you are. What is a TIPS? If you remember, live liver donor is what we are hoping for but I know it does not come without risk and a big ask of someone. As a sister I feel like it is my job to help ask for live liver donors since I know my sister feels similar to you. I didn't mean to go dark so quickly but soon after I sent my initial email I was diagnoses with breast cancer so I've been dealing with that. This week was my first back into the office. I also have an auto immune issue (IGM switch defect) and I'm over 50 so recover was a bit slow but everything is back up and running and I can focus on my sister again. Warm regards to all. . Re: Question  Of course, I am not a Dr; but, I do have cirrhosis. My understanding is that one could live a pretty normal life on just 20% of their liver; but, of course remaining vigilant not to harm it. No, stage 4 liver disease is classified as End of Stage Liver Disease; but, it doesn't have to be the whole liver. In fact, there are many many folks that have been ESLD for over a decade. All the while that the liver is being damaged, it is constantly making new paths for the blood, because cirrhosis is killing that part. That's why our liver get very gnarly. Someone has told me that it takes about 8 years for the liver to completely mend itself. I'm not sure that is true. In 2004, I had my 1st biopsy. It came back as stage 3 fibrosis bridging to stage 4 cirrhosis. I wonder now if the Dr. hit the right spot and that I was actually already stage 4. The only reason for wondering is because for me the cirrhosis has caused my liver to be cancerous. I know that other folks on this site will tell you lots. Especially Bobby!! I swear that man knows more about the liver than most Drs do. Gloria ________________________________  If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? Fran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2011 Report Share Posted December 3, 2011 For me it was my mother who offered. Thank heavens she's far too old to donate. I could not live with that on my conscience if it turned her health. Besides, I didn't tell her; but, with her heart issues, she would never have been a candidate. ________________________________  hi lyncia,wherein tx do you live? i live in houston and go to the tx liver center.they told me that to get a living donor i would have to to go to the east coast because they don't do them here in tx.my brother was going to give me part of his but they said no and that the risk to the donor is higher then the recepitant.and i personally could not risk that.  lol bev,tx ________________________________ To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 12:08 PM Subject: RE: Question  Ah... okay. My sister has mentioned that to me. Thanks, . Re: Question  Of course, I am not a Dr; but, I do have cirrhosis. My understanding is that one could live a pretty normal life on just 20% of their liver; but, of course remaining vigilant not to harm it. No, stage 4 liver disease is classified as End of Stage Liver Disease; but, it doesn't have to be the whole liver. In fact, there are many many folks that have been ESLD for over a decade. All the while that the liver is being damaged, it is constantly making new paths for the blood, because cirrhosis is killing that part. That's why our liver get very gnarly. Someone has told me that it takes about 8 years for the liver to completely mend itself. I'm not sure that is true. In 2004, I had my 1st biopsy. It came back as stage 3 fibrosis bridging to stage 4 cirrhosis. I wonder now if the Dr. hit the right spot and that I was actually already stage 4. The only reason for wondering is because for me the cirrhosis has caused my liver to be cancerous. I know that other folks on this site will tell you lots. Especially Bobby!! I swear that man knows more about the liver than most Drs do. Gloria ________________________________  If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? Fran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2011 Report Share Posted December 3, 2011 Oh Jill I sooo understand the " husband sticking head in the sand " syndrome. I too lived with it for 21 years. Then, his time ran out!! I just have to wonder how long he was really sick and would not, go to a Dr. For heaven's sake, I was in the city hospital for 2 weeks and I know he was extremely sick then. At least, now I know. I always figured that my husband didn't want to make a decision and continually left everything up to me. THEN of course he would bit-h if it didn't go his way... Somehow, I think I was to blame for his lung cancer even. Gloria ________________________________ Ed's hepatologist diagnosed him without a biopsy. Dr is the Asst head of the Dept of Hepatology and also part of thr transplant team at The Cleveland Clinic. He said a biopsy is invasive and not necessary in Ed's case as Ed has alot of other problems that can only stem from Cirrhosis. We go back up next week for a check up...ultrasound and doc visit. Ed is not having an EGD thios time because his insurance changed and he says i;'s too expensive and he feels good right now....and says he feels so bad after having an EGD with bandings..... Soooooo I guess he will simply bleed out one day. Do I sound callous? I'm just tired of Ed burying his head in the sand and pretending it will be okay. It's hard! My friend's husband died in August after having pretty much the same attitude as Ed.. Ed has been so lucky for about 7 years now.....how much longer can his luck hold?                                                                     Love,Jill  We don't remember days, we remember moments. Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. ________________________________ To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Friday, December 2, 2011 6:33 PM Subject: Re: Question  Dear Fran, this sounds very very unusual. I am only a friend, not a professional doctor, and cannot give out medical advice, but when a member tells me that they have not had a biopsy, I get very suspicious. It is a difficult road to travel without a map, and a definitive diagnosis gives us a very specific map. If it were me or my loved one, I would trust only the very very best Hepatologist at a high end transplant center like Cleveland clinic or Vanderbuilt or Loma to make a diagnosis without a biopsy. Needle biopsy is the gold standard for diagnosis of end stage liver disease. Have you ever considered a second opinion? Love, Bobby ________________________________ From: f_fwb <no_reply > To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 10:16 PM Subject: Re: Question  We have not been given a stage for my husband's cirrhosis. He has not had a biopsy. We have not had any doctor sit down and give us his time to explain cirrhosis, even after I told the one who diagnosed him that I learned everything I knew by reading the Internet. They just assume you went to med school? As far as I can recall, it was the ultra sound that resulted in the diagnosis, along with the doctor's observations of my husband's physical features, such as the shape of his legs. Fran > > Dear Fran, a diagnosis of " cirrhosis " usually means stage 4 fibrosis. It is a state of the liver tissue, and not a clinical finding of the patient. Stage 3 fibrosis usually means a serious but possibly reversible condition, and does not involve all of the liver. A good pathologist will not usually get them mixed up, but we are all human. Stage 4 fibrosis, also known as " end stage liver disease " is usually not reversible, and is considered " terminal liver disease " . It means that the entire liver is completely scarred. > > I hope this helps with any confusion. Love, Bobby > >  > > > ________________________________ > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > To: livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:57 PM > Subject: Question > > >  > If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? > > Fran > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2011 Report Share Posted December 3, 2011 I am so sorry to hear of your loss, Annie!! My husband made sure that he'd pushed me so far away that I didn't even live at home. So, actually we were separated for 6 months before he died. I had another memory just today. I had called him in Dec last year so that I could get some of the Christmas decorations. When he couldn't talk me out of coming to the home and pick for myself - he made sure that I didn't see him. He knew.... ________________________________  yes,,, my hubby kept going till the day before he passed..which was aug 7th...very fresh in my mind Annie > To: livercirrhosissupport > From: jillkstewart@... > Date: Fri, 2 Dec 2011 21:49:13 -0800 > Subject: Re: Question > > You're right,Annie. It's hard to watch,tho! > > > > Love,Jill > > We don't remember days, we remember moments. > Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. > > > ________________________________ > > To: liver cirrhosis support <livercirrhosissupport > > Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:35 AM > Subject: RE: Question > > > > > > We are each responsible for our own heath...I found that out with my hubby who had heart problemsI told him I will cook for him but he wanted the bad stuff... he tried the last year but it was to late for himI am very lonely now I did my best to take care of him...but it was up to him to be well > Annie > > To: livercirrhosissupport > > From: jillkstewart@... > > Date: Fri, 2 Dec 2011 21:31:32 -0800 > > Subject: Re: Question > > > > > > > > Ed's hepatologist diagnosed him without a biopsy. Dr is the Asst head of the Dept of Hepatology and also part of thr transplant team at The Cleveland Clinic. He said a biopsy is invasive and not necessary in Ed's case as Ed has alot of other problems that can only stem from Cirrhosis. We go back up next week for a check up...ultrasound and doc visit. Ed is not having an EGD thios time because his insurance changed and he says i;'s too expensive and he feels good right now....and says he feels so bad after having an EGD with bandings..... Soooooo I guess he will simply bleed out one day. Do I sound callous? I'm just tired of Ed burying his head in the sand and pretending it will be okay. It's hard! My friend's husband died in August after having pretty much the same attitude as Ed.. Ed has been so lucky for about 7 years now.....how much longer can his luck hold? > > > > > > > > > > > > Love,Jill > > > > We don't remember days, we remember moments. > > Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > > > Sent: Friday, December 2, 2011 6:33 PM > > Subject: Re: Question > > > > > > > > Dear Fran, this sounds very very unusual. I am only a friend, not a professional doctor, and cannot give out medical advice, but when a member tells me that they have not had a biopsy, I get very suspicious. It is a difficult road to travel without a map, and a definitive diagnosis gives us a very specific map. If it were me or my loved one, I would trust only the very very best Hepatologist at a high end transplant center like Cleveland clinic or Vanderbuilt or Loma to make a diagnosis without a biopsy. Needle biopsy is the gold standard for diagnosis of end stage liver disease. Have you ever considered a second opinion? Love, Bobby > > > > ________________________________ > > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > > To: livercirrhosissupport > > Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 10:16 PM > > Subject: Re: Question > > > > > > > > We have not been given a stage for my husband's cirrhosis. He has not had a biopsy. > > We have not had any doctor sit down and give us his time to explain cirrhosis, even after I told the one who diagnosed him that I learned everything I knew by reading the Internet. They just assume you went to med school? > > As far as I can recall, it was the ultra sound that resulted in the diagnosis, along with the doctor's observations of my husband's physical features, such as the shape of his legs. > > > > Fran > > > > > > > > > > Dear Fran, a diagnosis of " cirrhosis " usually means stage 4 fibrosis. It is a state of the liver tissue, and not a clinical finding of the patient. Stage 3 fibrosis usually means a serious but possibly reversible condition, and does not involve all of the liver. A good pathologist will not usually get them mixed up, but we are all human. Stage 4 fibrosis, also known as " end stage liver disease " is usually not reversible, and is considered " terminal liver disease " . It means that the entire liver is completely scarred. > > > > > > I hope this helps with any confusion. Love, Bobby > > > > > > Â > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > > > To: livercirrhosissupport > > > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:57 PM > > > Subject: Question > > > > > > > > > Â > > > If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? > > > > > > Fran > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2011 Report Share Posted December 3, 2011 awwww my hubby and I were very close we depended on each other and I so miss him Annie > To: livercirrhosissupport > From: gadamscan@... > Date: Sat, 3 Dec 2011 20:22:14 -0800 > Subject: Re: Question > > I am so sorry to hear of your loss, Annie!! My husband made sure that he'd pushed me so far away that I didn't even live at home. So, actually we were separated for 6 months before he died. I had another memory just today. I had called him in Dec last year so that I could get some of the Christmas decorations. When he couldn't talk me out of coming to the home and pick for myself - he made sure that I didn't see him. He knew.... > > > > ________________________________ > > > > > yes,,, my hubby kept going till the day before he passed..which was aug 7th...very fresh in my mind > > Annie > > To: livercirrhosissupport > > From: jillkstewart@... > > Date: Fri, 2 Dec 2011 21:49:13 -0800 > > Subject: Re: Question > > > > You're right,Annie. It's hard to watch,tho! > > > > > > > > Love,Jill > > > > We don't remember days, we remember moments. > > Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > To: liver cirrhosis support <livercirrhosissupport > > > Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 12:35 AM > > Subject: RE: Question > > > > > > > > > > > > We are each responsible for our own heath...I found that out with my hubby who had heart problemsI told him I will cook for him but he wanted the bad stuff... he tried the last year but it was to late for himI am very lonely now I did my best to take care of him...but it was up to him to be well > > Annie > > > To: livercirrhosissupport > > > From: jillkstewart@... > > > Date: Fri, 2 Dec 2011 21:31:32 -0800 > > > Subject: Re: Question > > > > > > > > > > > > Ed's hepatologist diagnosed him without a biopsy. Dr is the Asst head of the Dept of Hepatology and also part of thr transplant team at The Cleveland Clinic. He said a biopsy is invasive and not necessary in Ed's case as Ed has alot of other problems that can only stem from Cirrhosis. We go back up next week for a check up...ultrasound and doc visit. Ed is not having an EGD thios time because his insurance changed and he says i;'s too expensive and he feels good right now....and says he feels so bad after having an EGD with bandings..... Soooooo I guess he will simply bleed out one day. Do I sound callous? I'm just tired of Ed burying his head in the sand and pretending it will be okay. It's hard! My friend's husband died in August after having pretty much the same attitude as Ed.. Ed has been so lucky for about 7 years now.....how much longer can his luck hold? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Love,Jill > > > > > > We don't remember days, we remember moments. > > > Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > > > To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > > > > Sent: Friday, December 2, 2011 6:33 PM > > > Subject: Re: Question > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Fran, this sounds very very unusual. I am only a friend, not a professional doctor, and cannot give out medical advice, but when a member tells me that they have not had a biopsy, I get very suspicious. It is a difficult road to travel without a map, and a definitive diagnosis gives us a very specific map. If it were me or my loved one, I would trust only the very very best Hepatologist at a high end transplant center like Cleveland clinic or Vanderbuilt or Loma to make a diagnosis without a biopsy. Needle biopsy is the gold standard for diagnosis of end stage liver disease. Have you ever considered a second opinion? Love, Bobby > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > > > To: livercirrhosissupport > > > Sent: Thursday, December 1, 2011 10:16 PM > > > Subject: Re: Question > > > > > > > > > > > > We have not been given a stage for my husband's cirrhosis. He has not had a biopsy. > > > We have not had any doctor sit down and give us his time to explain cirrhosis, even after I told the one who diagnosed him that I learned everything I knew by reading the Internet. They just assume you went to med school? > > > As far as I can recall, it was the ultra sound that resulted in the diagnosis, along with the doctor's observations of my husband's physical features, such as the shape of his legs. > > > > > > Fran > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Dear Fran, a diagnosis of " cirrhosis " usually means stage 4 fibrosis. It is a state of the liver tissue, and not a clinical finding of the patient. Stage 3 fibrosis usually means a serious but possibly reversible condition, and does not involve all of the liver. A good pathologist will not usually get them mixed up, but we are all human. Stage 4 fibrosis, also known as " end stage liver disease " is usually not reversible, and is considered " terminal liver disease " . It means that the entire liver is completely scarred. > > > > > > > > I hope this helps with any confusion. Love, Bobby > > > > > > > > Â > > > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > From: f_fwb <no_reply > > > > > To: livercirrhosissupport > > > > Sent: Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:57 PM > > > > Subject: Question > > > > > > > > > > > > Â > > > > If one has cirrhosis, does that mean it is the entire liver? If not, can the undamaged portion of the liver regenerate itself? > > > > > > > > Fran > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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