Guest guest Posted September 19, 2001 Report Share Posted September 19, 2001 Good post. I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. My mother had such terrible health problems, heart mostly, and she couldn't climb stairs. However, I do think most of us take the easy way out. Ok...I'm not around stairs anymore, except in my house, and I do climb them often. Also, with a small child, stairs are a pain. This spring, if you had told one change will start your journey, I would have totally ignored you forever. As you see the same people starting each September, it's because they haven't had the " click " yet. They're not taking their health seriously. They're in denial. I was. Been there, done that. I have had the click now, and I'm NOT going back. It's hard.....you can lead a horse to water, but can't make them drink. I knew about nutrition, I knew my family's history of heart disease, I knew exercising was crucial....but I sure wouldn't act on it. I don't know the exact moment I had the click. But I'm sure glad I have it now. And I have started noticing people more. I think....if only you'd try WW, it's so easy. But they have to be ready. A friend of mine, once she found out I was doing WW, decided that she would too. She's probably my weight or a little more, she's taller. Anyway, she bought the at home kit as well for her DH and her to do. My DH and I ran into her at the grocery store the other night. I didn't even look into her cart, but she was " caught. " She had her calculator in her hand, but promptly held up the box of chocolate covered donuts and said...we're splurging tomorrow, they're only 5 points! She hasn't had the click! After we parted, my DH said...did you look in her cart? I hadn't. He said it was full of food, none of which was healthy or nutritious. I always resisted the " it's not a diet, it's a lifestyle change " phrase. I still think it's a diet, however, it's a learning tool to teach me to eat nutritiously for the rest of my life. So, I guess I'll concede and admit it IS a lifestyle change. For me, at least. Although I do have a treat occasionally, I am trying to change the overall way I eat from here on out. Sure, I like chocolate covered donuts, but they're not worth it to me. Sorry, I ramble. Lyn How serious are you Do you work in exercise somehow, somewhere, every day. Even if it is only an extra flight of stairs, or parking further away from the store, etc. Every step counts, absolutely every step. I was at an awards ceremony this a.m. This is for people who walk one of our local malls. Due to it being voting day, the number in attendance was down. But saw something. A public health nurse was there to give BP readings. She definitely needs to attend WW (who knows, maybe she does). While ALL the rest of us took the stairs, she rode the elevator. One flight, and she took the elevator. I was wearing a W W t-shirt and was standing up on the level she was headed for, leaning over the railing watching her in the glass elevator. I said nothing, I did smile. There are times you want to grab people by the ears and scream 'Hey, one change. Just one change will be the start of your journey'. But, over the years I have learned I can't do it for them. That is why I would see the same people wander in each September and January. Not willing to make changes. This week, you look around. What change can you make. What do you observe other people doing. I love watching people. Eileen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2001 Report Share Posted September 19, 2001 Good post. I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. My mother had such terrible health problems, heart mostly, and she couldn't climb stairs. However, I do think most of us take the easy way out. Ok...I'm not around stairs anymore, except in my house, and I do climb them often. Also, with a small child, stairs are a pain. This spring, if you had told one change will start your journey, I would have totally ignored you forever. As you see the same people starting each September, it's because they haven't had the " click " yet. They're not taking their health seriously. They're in denial. I was. Been there, done that. I have had the click now, and I'm NOT going back. It's hard.....you can lead a horse to water, but can't make them drink. I knew about nutrition, I knew my family's history of heart disease, I knew exercising was crucial....but I sure wouldn't act on it. I don't know the exact moment I had the click. But I'm sure glad I have it now. And I have started noticing people more. I think....if only you'd try WW, it's so easy. But they have to be ready. A friend of mine, once she found out I was doing WW, decided that she would too. She's probably my weight or a little more, she's taller. Anyway, she bought the at home kit as well for her DH and her to do. My DH and I ran into her at the grocery store the other night. I didn't even look into her cart, but she was " caught. " She had her calculator in her hand, but promptly held up the box of chocolate covered donuts and said...we're splurging tomorrow, they're only 5 points! She hasn't had the click! After we parted, my DH said...did you look in her cart? I hadn't. He said it was full of food, none of which was healthy or nutritious. I always resisted the " it's not a diet, it's a lifestyle change " phrase. I still think it's a diet, however, it's a learning tool to teach me to eat nutritiously for the rest of my life. So, I guess I'll concede and admit it IS a lifestyle change. For me, at least. Although I do have a treat occasionally, I am trying to change the overall way I eat from here on out. Sure, I like chocolate covered donuts, but they're not worth it to me. Sorry, I ramble. Lyn How serious are you Do you work in exercise somehow, somewhere, every day. Even if it is only an extra flight of stairs, or parking further away from the store, etc. Every step counts, absolutely every step. I was at an awards ceremony this a.m. This is for people who walk one of our local malls. Due to it being voting day, the number in attendance was down. But saw something. A public health nurse was there to give BP readings. She definitely needs to attend WW (who knows, maybe she does). While ALL the rest of us took the stairs, she rode the elevator. One flight, and she took the elevator. I was wearing a W W t-shirt and was standing up on the level she was headed for, leaning over the railing watching her in the glass elevator. I said nothing, I did smile. There are times you want to grab people by the ears and scream 'Hey, one change. Just one change will be the start of your journey'. But, over the years I have learned I can't do it for them. That is why I would see the same people wander in each September and January. Not willing to make changes. This week, you look around. What change can you make. What do you observe other people doing. I love watching people. Eileen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2001 Report Share Posted September 19, 2001 >I'd have taken the elevator. I have bad knees, and stairs *hurt.* I do work extra steps into my day -- park at the far side of the lot, that kind of thing -- but I avoid climbing stairs (going downstairs doesn't hurt, though it's not the best feeling in the world, so I do walk downstairs) whenever possible. < This is true. But in this particular instance, I know this nurse. No bad knees. Eileen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2001 Report Share Posted September 19, 2001 --- Bäkken wrote: > This is true. But in this particular instance, I > know this nurse. No bad > knees. Fair enough. (Although if you know me, you still probably don't know. My knee problems aren't something I bring up on a regular basis, since they don't affect my life that greatly--I just avoid stairs.) I'm just saying that we shouldn't be quick to judge other people. ===== -- Wren-Moyer mwrenmoyer@..., mwrenmoyer@... __________________________________________________ Terrorist Attacks on U.S. - How can you help? Donate cash, emergency relief information http://dailynews.yahoo.com/fc/US/Emergency_Information/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2001 Report Share Posted September 19, 2001 I agree. Judge not lest we be judged. ----- Original Message ----- I'm just saying that we shouldn't be quick to judge other people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2001 Report Share Posted September 19, 2001 I agree. Judge not lest we be judged. ----- Original Message ----- I'm just saying that we shouldn't be quick to judge other people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2001 Report Share Posted September 19, 2001 As Connie wrote (and a few others)>I agree. Judge not lest we be judged. I wrote a more in depth background but it comes down to this..this particular woman has been in and out of my meetings for fifteen years. I know her well. Well enough to become friends and 'do lunch' on occasion. If all of you could see 'me', you would see a healthy appearing woman. I have heart disease, osteopororsis, and osteoarthritis. There are days I bicycle and walk. Other days I do not. In this ONE instance I knew the lady in question and I made an ACCURATE judgment call. So, back off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2001 Report Share Posted September 19, 2001 Perhaps it's best to keep ourjudgements to ourselves. ----- Original Message ----- From: Bäkken I made an ACCURATE judgment call. So, back off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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