Guest guest Posted December 19, 2003 Report Share Posted December 19, 2003 In a message dated 12/19/2003 8:56:39 AM Central Standard Time, miamicouple1421@... writes: > I think people subconciously DO want us to fail. The more weight I loose, > the fatter they look, kind of thing. > That is kind of funny. I have been doing great since June. I have lost just over 15 pounds(and a bunch of inches) and there is a girl at work that just wants to bring me down when she can. She is tall but the older we get the bigger her bottom 1/2 has gotten. She was in a wedding a couple of weeks ago and in June she said she needed to lose 40 pounds by Dec. She knows about BFL and watched another co-worker and myself start BFL but " she can't eat that kind of food " . She can't get rid of her fried chicken and fried pork chops. Well, here we are in the middle of Dec and my jeans are falling off and in front of a couple people she asks me what is wrong with stomach. Is it the jeans, T-shirt, and the bulky sweater or is it my stomach? I pulled up my sweater and didn't have to say a word. DBC(Debbie) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 22, 2003 Report Share Posted December 22, 2003 It is upsetting that people who try to live a healthy lifestyle face this type of ridicule. You just have to learn to ignore the ridicule or it will tear you apart. I had a BFL webpage that I ended up having to change the address due to some online harrassment from someone in my local community that found the web page. Andy > I notice the better that I do the more stupid comments my co workers > make. They were much happier when I was fatter and eating like a > pig. My boss has three small children and a not so happy marriage... > she can't stand the fact that I " have the luxury " of time to go to > the gym etc... now thaty i have lost all this weight and i am > feeling so much better etc, it has definately improved my > relationship with my husband as well and we are spending a lot more > time together and having more fun etc, and they cant stand that > either, im getting a olt of those " must be NICE " comments.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 22, 2003 Report Share Posted December 22, 2003 Andy, sometimes I think BFLers can get a bit " high and mighty " also. We tend to forget about the give and take relationship. Jas -3 > > I notice the better that I do the more stupid comments my co > workers > > make. They were much happier when I was fatter and eating like a > > pig. My boss has three small children and a not so happy > marriage... > > she can't stand the fact that I " have the luxury " of time to go to > > the gym etc... now thaty i have lost all this weight and i am > > feeling so much better etc, it has definately improved my > > relationship with my husband as well and we are spending a lot more > > time together and having more fun etc, and they cant stand that > > either, im getting a olt of those " must be NICE " comments.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 22, 2003 Report Share Posted December 22, 2003 If that comment is directed to me, please let me know and take it off the list. Andy > Andy, sometimes I think BFLers can get a bit " high and mighty " also. > We tend to forget about the give and take relationship. > > Jas -3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 22, 2003 Report Share Posted December 22, 2003 I'm sorry. That comment should have been posted off list. Andy > > Andy, sometimes I think BFLers can get a bit " high and mighty " > also. > > We tend to forget about the give and take relationship. > > > > Jas -3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 22, 2003 Report Share Posted December 22, 2003 It was probably directed to me, the know-it-all ass.... > I'm sorry. That comment should have been posted off list. > > Andy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 22, 2003 Report Share Posted December 22, 2003 The comment was a general comment. I have seen some interesting retorts on other boards thats all. Jas -- In bodyforlife , " miamicouple1421 " <miamicouple1421@y...> wrote: > It was probably directed to me, the know-it-all ass.... > > > > I'm sorry. That comment should have been posted off list. > > > > Andy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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