Re: Gloria's Update> Lyncia>LYNCIA?

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Lyncia, I've thought about you off & on all day. I waited until this late to

check to make sure you had posted because if I checked earlier and you hadn't

then I would have been even more worried. So, I'm glad to see you posted but I'm

so sorry things are so hard for you right now. You are cheerful and funny so

much of the time but it's ok to be hurting too. PLEASE call me if you would

like. In case you don't still have my number it's . I know how you

feel about wanting out. I do as well. I talked to my son about it the other

night and apologized to him about feeling that way but he was so loving and kind

as to say he understood. Does he really? I don't know but I know he loves me and

you know your sons love you. They just may not understand. PLEASE let me know

you are ok. Let's get together and burn most of our big girl panties. We don't

have to wear them EVERY day !...Debbie

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> > > From: Gloria <gadamscanyahoo (DOT) ca>

> > > Subject: Gloria's Update

> > > To: livercirrhosissuppo rtyahoogroups (DOT) com

> > > Date: Saturday, March 27, 2010, 12:23 AM

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Sorry I have not been in contact everyone!!! Just been an extremely

> > > emotional and busy time.

> > > Well, I imagine that everyone here, whether male or female, can

> > > understand that my husband is really going through a great deal of fear

> > > himself. Doesn't know nor wants to think it possible that his wife

> > > might not always be able to keep the decks clear for him. He's just not

> > > easily able to express the fear as an emotion!! Therefore, anytime that

> > > things get scary for him, he prefers to go into his cave and bury

> > > himself deep. This time, of course which had already been quite awhile,

> > > I had to tread to that opening and haul him out!! That's always when he

> > > turns his anger on me; because, he wasn't finished getting his mind

> > > sorted. (This is from Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus)

> > > We even went for a counselling session together and with a fella that is

> > > a long timer in our step 12 program. Even though Hank tried his hardest

> > > that first day, hubby still wasn't ready to admit an emotion (at least

> > > not without the " but " she). Instead, he felt picked on!! I've worked

> > > at pointing out that no one was ganging up on him. It was simple - he

> > > had to let his face know that he didn't think he was angry because it

> > > showed clearly.

> > > It has taken until probably last night; but, I believe the light is

> > > beginning to get into that cave and he's on the verge of coming out with

> > > a much healthier attitude!!! Besides, as I've made it extremely clear -

> > > I have no more time nor the emotional stamina to wait any longer. He

> > > just has to put his " run away " attitude totally away now - or he will

> > > regret it for the rest of the days that HP allows him. This was

> > > definitely not the time to somehow patiently wait until he was ready to

> > > come out of that cave. It was time for him to stand up and be my white

> > > knight!!!

> > > So, for now, the news is much better. He actually gave me a surprising

> > > and warm kiss on his way out to his meeting tonight!!

> > > Thanks to everyone for your understanding and support. I truly have the

> > > highest regard for all of you!!!!

> > > Gloria

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> > >