What to do about girlfriend?

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I'm currently in a long-distance relationship with someone, so obviously our

only time together is over the phone. By the way she does know about my 4S. My

only problems are A: She snores when she falls asleep and B: Sometimes she

breathes really heavy and loud. The snoring isn't that big of a deal, because I

can usually just hang up. The real problem comes with her heavy breathing. The

reason she does this is from a heart condition she has causing her problems.

This breathing is one of my worst, if not the worst trigger sounds that I have.

My body literally goes into shut down, I cant think, I cant talk, I cant do much

of anything when she breathes like that. However, it's caused by her having

problems with her heart. So where does the compromise begin? The whole situation

is caused by both of us having something wrong we cant control, and I want to be

there for her, but it seriously puts me out of commission while it's happening

and sometimes hours afterward. Is there anything I can do or say to her, or do I

be a good boyfriend and put her first?