Re: I;m gonna kill him!!!!!

[Guest guest]

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> He is the most contradictory, obnoxious, whiny, bratty, obnoxious,

annoying, grouchy, obnoxious, crabby..did I say obnoxious?

You did, dearie.

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> So if you all don't hear from me for a while, it's because I've killed my

son or run away to in ohio's house to hide out, or maybe Salli's to

hide under the stairs and play with Putter.

It's pretty spidery under our basement stairs. You wouldn't like it. Trust

me. Why not play video games with Enrique?

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> GRRRRRRR.....I HATE autism on days like this!!!

Yeah.

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> (don't worry, I'm not actually gonna kill him...I might just hurt him a

little)

Aww, give him a hug (and he'll pull away) and a kiss (which he will wipe

off) and pat yourself on the back for making it this far through the day.

Salli

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" smgaska " wrote:

>Oh oh, this doesn't sound good! What happened?

>Sue

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More specifically, what DIDN'T happen. We have been running errands today,.

which normally loves. He loves going to the store, even if it's just to

look around. He's been obnoxious all night. Every time I tell him to do

something, (eat your pizza, please don't hit with the hairbrush, come give

Mommy a hug, etc) he screams NO>>RYAN DONWAN!!! and throws something. He threw

his sister, or tried to, at least once. I just canNOT deal with this. What am I

supposed to do with him?? I can't clean. I can't get any laundry done, I can't

even get him to get in teh tub. (normally he'll take a bath for, and I'm not

exaggerating, 2-6 hours.) I am so beyond frustrated with him, and I really am

getting short on patience. I actually felt the urge to litterally beat the crap

out of him a while ago. I didn't do it, I walked away from him, and he's

currently playing in his room, and I have Beffers out here woith me, but my

temper is getting short, and frankly, I'm scared that if my temper does blow, I

might hurt him. I know it's not his fault, and that 95% of it is the autism, but

I just can't deal with this right now. The worst part is, none of my familiy is

willing to take him, even for an hour so I can calm down a little. I don't

normally have violent tendencies towards my kids, hell, I feel horrid for

batting on the hand!! I'm really kinda scared, and I have no clue how to

deal with this!!!

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Mom to:

, 3, Pro-Wrestler in hiding

, 1, Opera Soprano in-the-making

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> I don't normally have violent tendencies towards my kids, hell, I feel horrid

for batting on the hand!! I'm really kinda scared, and I have no clue how

to deal with this!!! <

ah kelly, welcome to the life of me. sucks, doesn't it?

how is his tummy today? did he ever manage to poop? maybe that's part of the

problem too.

i don't really have any advice, but if you want to just chat, i'm on aim...

" Why is it that everytime I think I know the answers, someone goes and changes

the questions?? " - Fox Mulder

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Yeah, he pooped. He's just being a monster.

" gina muollo " wrote:

>> I don't normally have violent tendencies towards my kids, hell, I feel horrid

for batting on the hand!! I'm really kinda scared, and I have no clue how

to deal with this!!! <

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>ah kelly, welcome to the life of me. sucks, doesn't it?

>how is his tummy today? did he ever manage to poop? maybe that's part of the

problem too.

>i don't really have any advice, but if you want to just chat, i'm on aim...

>

>

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> " Why is it that everytime I think I know the answers, someone goes and changes

the questions?? " - Fox Mulder

>

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[Guest guest]

Sometimes, jail looks like respite, doesn't it? And MUCH easier to get... But

remember, sweetie, you don't want to end up being somebody's girlfriend when you

don't have a choice in the matter... ;-)

Hope things got a little better, or that he at least went to bed on time!

Jacquie

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>I actually felt the urge to litterally beat the crap out of him a while ago. I

didn't do it, I walked away from him, and he's currently playing in his room,

and I have Beffers out here woith me, but my temper is getting short, and

frankly, I'm scared that if my temper does blow, I might hurt him.

, I've felt the same way.

But what keeps him safe is that YOU WALKED AWAY. And you will continue to walk

away. You know where the line is, and you don't cross it.

I think it's normal to have the urge to whack a child senseless. At least I

HOPE it's normal, because I have that urge a lot. But thinking about it and

doing it are two different things.

(((hugs)))

Jacquie

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No such luck, but he's finally gotten quiet. He's zoned out in front of our new

27 inch TV <g>!!! I LOVE cartoon network. watches that like the other kids

watch Weather Channel and PPV loop. At least it's a channel I like too......

Hopefully I'll get to go to the party I was invited to tomorrow, and start the

week fresh.

" The Hunny Family " wrote:

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>Sometimes, jail looks like respite, doesn't it? And MUCH easier to get... But

remember, sweetie, you don't want to end up being somebody's girlfriend when you

don't have a choice in the matter... ;-)

>

>Hope things got a little better, or that he at least went to bed on time!

>

>Jacquie

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Mom to:

, 3, Pro-Wrestler in hiding

, 1, Opera Soprano in-the-making

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BTDT. At three these are the choices I had/have with

Chris/.

Put him in the crib or playpen if viable.

Put him in his room.

Put him in his room with a gate up.

Put him in his room with the door shut.

Put him in his room with his door locked from the outside.

Put him in his carseat and go for a drive. Turn the music up

louder than his hollering.

Put you and daughter in the bathroom with locked door while he

hollers on the other side of it. Run bath for daughter.

Put him in the bath with a sucker to keep his mouth busy.

Check out your community and see if there is a crisis nursery/daycare

that you can access.

Write us and vent away.

Hang in there.