Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 In a message dated 4/2/01 2:03:03 PM Eastern Daylight Time, petra2000@... writes: << I still will not cave in to the threat of there being one set of rules, or diet for all!!!! >> , I was on another list, and no matter what I said, it was wrong, simply because I was not low-carbing. I was becoming a nervous wreck and my husband noticed it. I left that list. I read lots of lots of the messages on this list before becoming a member. I do not regret joining this list. There is nothing anyone can say to make me want to leave. You are doing a great job. Keep up the good work. I'm behind you 100%. Eunice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Well, list: I guess I am a real Nazi, who attacks you people and beats you if you don't stay in line!! I have an idea who are Italiano friend, and possibly Ada was. It was Meenie. I know many of you liked Meenie. I thought she was so special I made her our co-moderator. I really loved her for all she helped with the list and helped me when I was going through bad times, such as the death of my dad. However, a while back she got rather angry at me. Saying I didn't know how to be a friend, that I just " used " her as a co-moderator, and many other things. I did not tell the list about this as she did THREATEN me if I did so. I did pray for her, which she threw back in my face! I do believe she has other problems which are causing her erratic behavior. At the time of the problems with Meenie, I did take her Emails to my counselor and asked him if I had lost all reality of being a friend. He said definitely NOT. That I was the most caring person he knew. I'm sorry I didn't mention Meenie leaving sooner, but like I said, she did threaten me. I'm feeling she will be back time and again to taunt me in the guise of some other person. Just to flame the list and make things miserable. What do I do??????????? This is not a " poor , pity party " it's just telling you what I think is happening. This list will continue. I feel very devoted to helping others. I still will not cave in to the threat of there being one set of rules, or diet for all!!!! I'll hold firm to my two ideals: 1. Diabetes is a definite change-of-life. 2. Diabetes is not a one-fits-all-disease. That's all folks!!!! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Well, list: I guess I am a real Nazi, who attacks you people and beats you if you don't stay in line!! I have an idea who are Italiano friend, and possibly Ada was. It was Meenie. I know many of you liked Meenie. I thought she was so special I made her our co-moderator. I really loved her for all she helped with the list and helped me when I was going through bad times, such as the death of my dad. However, a while back she got rather angry at me. Saying I didn't know how to be a friend, that I just " used " her as a co-moderator, and many other things. I did not tell the list about this as she did THREATEN me if I did so. I did pray for her, which she threw back in my face! I do believe she has other problems which are causing her erratic behavior. At the time of the problems with Meenie, I did take her Emails to my counselor and asked him if I had lost all reality of being a friend. He said definitely NOT. That I was the most caring person he knew. I'm sorry I didn't mention Meenie leaving sooner, but like I said, she did threaten me. I'm feeling she will be back time and again to taunt me in the guise of some other person. Just to flame the list and make things miserable. What do I do??????????? This is not a " poor , pity party " it's just telling you what I think is happening. This list will continue. I feel very devoted to helping others. I still will not cave in to the threat of there being one set of rules, or diet for all!!!! I'll hold firm to my two ideals: 1. Diabetes is a definite change-of-life. 2. Diabetes is not a one-fits-all-disease. That's all folks!!!! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 , I am glad you are keeping the list open. I am a newbie, and really have used what I have read through here. Thanks for all your work. I moderate another list for Asthma and I know how much work it takes. Re: Attacked!! Well, list: I guess I am a real Nazi, who attacks you people and beats you if you don't stay in line!! I have an idea who are Italiano friend, and possibly Ada was. It was Meenie. I know many of you liked Meenie. I thought she was so special I made her our co-moderator. I really loved her for all she helped with the list and helped me when I was going through bad times, such as the death of my dad. However, a while back she got rather angry at me. Saying I didn't know how to be a friend, that I just " used " her as a co-moderator, and many other things. I did not tell the list about this as she did THREATEN me if I did so. I did pray for her, which she threw back in my face! I do believe she has other problems which are causing her erratic behavior. At the time of the problems with Meenie, I did take her Emails to my counselor and asked him if I had lost all reality of being a friend. He said definitely NOT. That I was the most caring person he knew. I'm sorry I didn't mention Meenie leaving sooner, but like I said, she did threaten me. I'm feeling she will be back time and again to taunt me in the guise of some other person. Just to flame the list and make things miserable. What do I do??????????? This is not a " poor , pity party " it's just telling you what I think is happening. This list will continue. I feel very devoted to helping others. I still will not cave in to the threat of there being one set of rules, or diet for all!!!! I'll hold firm to my two ideals: 1. Diabetes is a definite change-of-life. 2. Diabetes is not a one-fits-all-disease. That's all folks!!!! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 , I am glad you are keeping the list open. I am a newbie, and really have used what I have read through here. Thanks for all your work. I moderate another list for Asthma and I know how much work it takes. Re: Attacked!! Well, list: I guess I am a real Nazi, who attacks you people and beats you if you don't stay in line!! I have an idea who are Italiano friend, and possibly Ada was. It was Meenie. I know many of you liked Meenie. I thought she was so special I made her our co-moderator. I really loved her for all she helped with the list and helped me when I was going through bad times, such as the death of my dad. However, a while back she got rather angry at me. Saying I didn't know how to be a friend, that I just " used " her as a co-moderator, and many other things. I did not tell the list about this as she did THREATEN me if I did so. I did pray for her, which she threw back in my face! I do believe she has other problems which are causing her erratic behavior. At the time of the problems with Meenie, I did take her Emails to my counselor and asked him if I had lost all reality of being a friend. He said definitely NOT. That I was the most caring person he knew. I'm sorry I didn't mention Meenie leaving sooner, but like I said, she did threaten me. I'm feeling she will be back time and again to taunt me in the guise of some other person. Just to flame the list and make things miserable. What do I do??????????? This is not a " poor , pity party " it's just telling you what I think is happening. This list will continue. I feel very devoted to helping others. I still will not cave in to the threat of there being one set of rules, or diet for all!!!! I'll hold firm to my two ideals: 1. Diabetes is a definite change-of-life. 2. Diabetes is not a one-fits-all-disease. That's all folks!!!! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Well that clears some of this up! I was wondering about all of this and the personal attack on you - I couldn't figure out why this 'person' chose to do this and I see that the drama continues. You certainly can contact Yahoo and give all the aliases, we had to do that in another club. I certainly maintain that these micro-societies have every type of person including those that spend too much time on the internet and confuse reality with fantasy. The Internet is a certain kind of reality but we can't lose track of our personal reality as we make friends and conduct interpersonal relationships on the net. Don't take this stuff so seriously! NANCY BROTZMAN on 04/02/2001 01:44:47 PM Please respond to diabetes To: diabetes cc: Subject: Re: Attacked!! Well, list:     I guess I am a real Nazi, who attacks you people and beats you if you don't stay in line!!     I have an idea who are Italiano friend, and possibly Ada was. It was Meenie. I know many of you liked Meenie. I thought she was so special I made her our co-moderator. I really loved her for all she helped with the list and helped me when I was going through bad times, such as the death of my dad.    However, a while back she got rather angry at me. Saying I didn't know how to be a friend, that I just " used " her as a co-moderator, and many other things. I did not tell the list about this as she did THREATEN me if I did so.    I did pray for her, which she threw back in my face!   I do believe she has other problems which are causing her erratic behavior.    At the time of the problems with Meenie, I did take her Emails to my counselor and asked him if I had lost all reality of being a friend. He said definitely NOT. That I was the most caring person he knew.    I'm sorry I didn't mention Meenie leaving sooner, but like I said, she did threaten me. I'm feeling she will be back time and again to taunt me in the guise of some other person. Just to flame the list and make things miserable.    What do I do???????????    This is not a " poor , pity party " it's just telling you what I think is happening. This list will continue. I feel very devoted to helping others. I still will not cave in to the threat of there being one set of rules, or diet for all!!!!    I'll hold firm to my two ideals: 1. Diabetes is a definite change-of-life. 2. Diabetes is not a one-fits-all-disease. That's all folks!!!! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 Well that clears some of this up! I was wondering about all of this and the personal attack on you - I couldn't figure out why this 'person' chose to do this and I see that the drama continues. You certainly can contact Yahoo and give all the aliases, we had to do that in another club. I certainly maintain that these micro-societies have every type of person including those that spend too much time on the internet and confuse reality with fantasy. The Internet is a certain kind of reality but we can't lose track of our personal reality as we make friends and conduct interpersonal relationships on the net. Don't take this stuff so seriously! NANCY BROTZMAN on 04/02/2001 01:44:47 PM Please respond to diabetes To: diabetes cc: Subject: Re: Attacked!! Well, list:     I guess I am a real Nazi, who attacks you people and beats you if you don't stay in line!!     I have an idea who are Italiano friend, and possibly Ada was. It was Meenie. I know many of you liked Meenie. I thought she was so special I made her our co-moderator. I really loved her for all she helped with the list and helped me when I was going through bad times, such as the death of my dad.    However, a while back she got rather angry at me. Saying I didn't know how to be a friend, that I just " used " her as a co-moderator, and many other things. I did not tell the list about this as she did THREATEN me if I did so.    I did pray for her, which she threw back in my face!   I do believe she has other problems which are causing her erratic behavior.    At the time of the problems with Meenie, I did take her Emails to my counselor and asked him if I had lost all reality of being a friend. He said definitely NOT. That I was the most caring person he knew.    I'm sorry I didn't mention Meenie leaving sooner, but like I said, she did threaten me. I'm feeling she will be back time and again to taunt me in the guise of some other person. Just to flame the list and make things miserable.    What do I do???????????    This is not a " poor , pity party " it's just telling you what I think is happening. This list will continue. I feel very devoted to helping others. I still will not cave in to the threat of there being one set of rules, or diet for all!!!!    I'll hold firm to my two ideals: 1. Diabetes is a definite change-of-life. 2. Diabetes is not a one-fits-all-disease. That's all folks!!!! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 I'm so sorry, . Meenie seemed nice even though she had strong opinions about her diet plan. I'm not too surprised, though, that these other people were her under an alias. I don't know much about computers and the internet yet being a newbie to it all, but I would think you could report her to someone, because it shouldn't be legal to be able to use a false idenity the way she is doing it. She obviously sounds very mentally unstable. Debbie in Utah > Well, list: > > > I guess I am a real Nazi, who attacks you people > and beats you if you don't stay in line!! > > I have an idea who are Italiano friend, and > possibly Ada was. It was Meenie. I know many of you > liked Meenie. I thought she was so special I made her > our co-moderator. I really loved her for all she > helped with the list and helped me when I was going > through bad times, such as the death of my dad. > > However, a while back she got rather angry at me. > Saying I didn't know how to be a friend, that I just > " used " her as a co-moderator, and many other things. > I did not tell the list about this as she did THREATEN > me if I did so. > > I did pray for her, which she threw back in my > face! > I do believe she has other problems which are > causing her erratic behavior. > > At the time of the problems with Meenie, I did > take her Emails to my counselor and asked him if I had > lost all reality of being a friend. He said > definitely NOT. > That I was the most caring person he knew. > > I'm sorry I didn't mention Meenie leaving sooner, > but like I said, she did threaten me. I'm feeling she > will be back time and again to taunt me in the guise > of some other person. Just to flame the list and make > things miserable. > > What do I do??????????? > > This is not a " poor , pity party " it's just > telling you what I think is happening. This list will > continue. I feel very devoted to helping others. > I still will not cave in to the threat of there being > one set of rules, or diet for all!!!! > > I'll hold firm to my two ideals: > 1. Diabetes is a definite change-of-life. > 2. Diabetes is not a one-fits-all-disease. > > That's all folks!!!! > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2001 Report Share Posted April 2, 2001 In a message dated 4/2/01 7:34:45 PM Eastern Daylight Time, crazydaizy_ca@... writes: << The insults and flames are not about you ...they say far more about the writers >> Jane, I agree with you. I see the writers as very unhappy people, that cannot stand to see others happy. They will not pull me down to their level. And I do know how to use the delete key. Eunice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2001 Report Share Posted April 3, 2001 Hi Everyone; wrote: << I'm sorry I didn't mention Meenie leaving sooner, but like I said, she did threaten me. I'm feeling she will be back time and again to taunt me in the guise of some other person. Just to flame the list and make things miserable. What do I do???????????>>> First I don't feel this list is run in a " Nazi " manner. My first impression when I read the messages from " Italia " was that we had a troll on the list...someone who delights in spreading negativity and discontent. You wanted a solution ....judicious use of the delete key. In fact my yahoo account has an auto address block. I have already applied it to Ada and Italia. Most of us seem to be adults here and behave accordingly. Don't let the list suffer because a few people have not learned to manage their social behavior. The insults and flames are not about you ...they say far more about the writers.... Take care and don't stress over this. Jane __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2001 Report Share Posted April 3, 2001 To all who have written to offer positive affirmations. " Hugs " to you all. I remember reading somewhere that a Email list doesn't get better unless it goes through a negative time. While we've had 2 in a month. Hopefully, things will get better. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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