Guest guest Posted January 27, 2002 Report Share Posted January 27, 2002 I forgot to mention that our oldest daughter went up north this weekend, and she called tonight and said that her first trip down the hill she fell (downhill skiing) and broke her arm/wrist!!!! She had to go to the hospital, get an IV, the works! She is in a cast I guess, all the way up to her shoulder, and its her right hand........yes, she is right handed! I guess she will be in the cast for at least 6 weeks, so no sports, no band......I dont' even know how she is going to do her school work! Well, always something I guess, but I feel bad that I'm not with her! But I was really proud with her when she called, she was so brave (probably the codiene! (sp) ), but what a trooper! Well, as always, thanks for listening! Hugs, in MI Psalm 91:1 says: " He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 - I can not believe they didn't call from the hospital. Was her dad or someone with her. Even still I think Id want to know but then again I am way to over protective. in WI Weekending I forgot to mention that our oldest daughter went up north this weekend, and she called tonight and said that her first trip down the hill she fell (downhill skiing) and broke her arm/wrist!!!! She had to go to the hospital, get an IV, the works! She is in a cast I guess, all the way up to her shoulder, and its her right hand........yes, she is right handed! I guess she will be in the cast for at least 6 weeks, so no sports, no band......I dont' even know how she is going to do her school work! Well, always something I guess, but I feel bad that I'm not with her! But I was really proud with her when she called, she was so brave (probably the codiene! (sp) ), but what a trooper! Well, as always, thanks for listening! Hugs, in MI Psalm 91:1 says: " He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 Yes, she was with her dad and his family. I'm actually glad she didn't call from the hospital cause I would have freaked. I'm better off not knowing until its over with. My poor baby. Anyway, that is just some of the crap that I have to put up with in my divorce agreement. I have joint custody and we share the kids, which sucks for me, but good for the kids and their adjustment. I get the kids every day and he gets them most of the nights. I get them quite often overnight, but regardless, it still hurts. I actually opted for this agreement because otherwise, the way divorces go here, joint custody usually goes two weeks on and two weeks off and there was no way in hell that I would go two weeks without seeing my babies! This arrangement has caused a lot of tension, etc. within my new marriage, but my main concern was my children and they have adjusted very well and no matter how much I don't like my ex, he is still the kids father and they deserve to have an ongoing consistent relationship with him. Life is not easy for me. I've shed a lot of tears. Weekending > > > I forgot to mention that our oldest daughter went up north this weekend, and she called tonight and said that her first trip down the hill she fell (downhill skiing) and broke her arm/wrist!!!! She had to go to the hospital, get an IV, the works! She is in a cast I guess, all the way up to her shoulder, and its her right hand........yes, she is right handed! I guess she will be in the cast for at least 6 weeks, so no sports, no band......I dont' even know how she is going to do her school work! > Well, always something I guess, but I feel bad that I'm not with her! But I was really proud with her when she called, she was so brave (probably the codiene! (sp) ), but what a trooper! > Well, as always, thanks for listening! > Hugs, in MI > > > > Psalm 91:1 says: " He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. " > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 - I have a friend that does week on, Week off and I agree with you that has to be hard on everyone including the kids. I think to that it would hurt to have a big costudy battle. I mean we all love the kids and thats why we fight for them but I think we sometimes get so obsessed with wantting our kids away from the other parent who maybe a good parent not a good spouse that we hurt the one we are trying to protect. Sorry this is an issue for me as my sisters going through a Divorce Hubby is good she cheated and left him. Now shes out for blood since he wont support her. But I ask who is really being hurt. The kids who can't see there dad. Thats not right. Glad you worked out something so they can have both parents. CIndy in WI PS when I write to you I always feel like I am talking to myself lol. Its odd to Right ,.......... ~CIndy lol Weekending > > > I forgot to mention that our oldest daughter went up north this weekend, and she called tonight and said that her first trip down the hill she fell (downhill skiing) and broke her arm/wrist!!!! She had to go to the hospital, get an IV, the works! She is in a cast I guess, all the way up to her shoulder, and its her right hand........yes, she is right handed! I guess she will be in the cast for at least 6 weeks, so no sports, no band......I dont' even know how she is going to do her school work! > Well, always something I guess, but I feel bad that I'm not with her! But I was really proud with her when she called, she was so brave (probably the codiene! (sp) ), but what a trooper! > Well, as always, thanks for listening! > Hugs, in MI > > > > Psalm 91:1 says: " He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. " > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 - I have a friend that does week on, Week off and I agree with you that has to be hard on everyone including the kids. I think to that it would hurt to have a big costudy battle. I mean we all love the kids and thats why we fight for them but I think we sometimes get so obsessed with wantting our kids away from the other parent who maybe a good parent not a good spouse that we hurt the one we are trying to protect. Sorry this is an issue for me as my sisters going through a Divorce Hubby is good she cheated and left him. Now shes out for blood since he wont support her. But I ask who is really being hurt. The kids who can't see there dad. Thats not right. Glad you worked out something so they can have both parents. CIndy in WI PS when I write to you I always feel like I am talking to myself lol. Its odd to Right ,.......... ~CIndy lol Weekending > > > I forgot to mention that our oldest daughter went up north this weekend, and she called tonight and said that her first trip down the hill she fell (downhill skiing) and broke her arm/wrist!!!! She had to go to the hospital, get an IV, the works! She is in a cast I guess, all the way up to her shoulder, and its her right hand........yes, she is right handed! I guess she will be in the cast for at least 6 weeks, so no sports, no band......I dont' even know how she is going to do her school work! > Well, always something I guess, but I feel bad that I'm not with her! But I was really proud with her when she called, she was so brave (probably the codiene! (sp) ), but what a trooper! > Well, as always, thanks for listening! > Hugs, in MI > > > > Psalm 91:1 says: " He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. " > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 I know , I get confused when I read posts that are directed to " " and I'm like, what? oh, the other ! LOL Yes, in the end, its really about the kids and how everything affects them and that was my main concern. Thank you for being understanding. Some times I feel like the most horrible mother in the world. Some people have accused me " of giving up my kids " , I beg to differ! I have them everyday, several weeks at a time thruout the year and I feel that it is SELFISH to fight for full custody if there are no extenuating circumstances. Anyway, thanks for listening. I've done a lot of crying when they leave, but then again, I've done a lot of rejoicing when they leave too! LOL Weekending > > > > > > I forgot to mention that our oldest daughter went up north this weekend, > and she called tonight and said that her first trip down the hill she fell > (downhill skiing) and broke her arm/wrist!!!! She had to go to the hospital, > get an IV, the works! She is in a cast I guess, all the way up to her > shoulder, and its her right hand........yes, she is right handed! I guess > she will be in the cast for at least 6 weeks, so no sports, no band......I > dont' even know how she is going to do her school work! > > Well, always something I guess, but I feel bad that I'm not with her! > But I was really proud with her when she called, she was so brave (probably > the codiene! (sp) ), but what a trooper! > > Well, as always, thanks for listening! > > Hugs, in MI > > > > > > > > Psalm 91:1 says: " He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High > shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. " > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 I know , I get confused when I read posts that are directed to " " and I'm like, what? oh, the other ! LOL Yes, in the end, its really about the kids and how everything affects them and that was my main concern. Thank you for being understanding. Some times I feel like the most horrible mother in the world. Some people have accused me " of giving up my kids " , I beg to differ! I have them everyday, several weeks at a time thruout the year and I feel that it is SELFISH to fight for full custody if there are no extenuating circumstances. Anyway, thanks for listening. I've done a lot of crying when they leave, but then again, I've done a lot of rejoicing when they leave too! LOL Weekending > > > > > > I forgot to mention that our oldest daughter went up north this weekend, > and she called tonight and said that her first trip down the hill she fell > (downhill skiing) and broke her arm/wrist!!!! She had to go to the hospital, > get an IV, the works! She is in a cast I guess, all the way up to her > shoulder, and its her right hand........yes, she is right handed! I guess > she will be in the cast for at least 6 weeks, so no sports, no band......I > dont' even know how she is going to do her school work! > > Well, always something I guess, but I feel bad that I'm not with her! > But I was really proud with her when she called, she was so brave (probably > the codiene! (sp) ), but what a trooper! > > Well, as always, thanks for listening! > > Hugs, in MI > > > > > > > > Psalm 91:1 says: " He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High > shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. " > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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