Guest guest Posted February 4, 2010 Report Share Posted February 4, 2010 Hi, I am horrified with my husbands coughing and burping and fiddling with his nose!! It angers me so much that I feel I want to hack his head off, run away, or throw a brick through our large glass window and be done with it!!! I have sat here before today and wanted to scream like I have never screamed before - it drives me insane!! How can I possibly enjoy a normal married life with this troubling me?!! There are lots of other things that I cannot tolerate either. But this is about the worst. I cant be happy with this hovvering around like a Black cloud all the time. I haven't been happy either.Yet if I were to tell hubby about it, he would think I was crazy. He would probably not go along with the 4s information about it either. But I know how wild these things make me feel inside.I have just recently got over a breakdown I had 4 years ago - in the summer - that resulted in anxiety for 3.5 years! Its the 4th breakdown I have had in 30 years so I am prone to anxiety etc. And hubby was not interested in being a rock for me during this dreadful time either. But I have been troubled with 4s for years and years and did not know it. I thought I was just being over sensitive and stupid. It was only when I looked at a post at a website by chance, the other day, that I found out what my problem is. I was amazed to be honest.Now I want it sorting but I believe there is no cure for it. I don't know what to do. This problem puts me off being close to hubby because I am so disgusted. Not only when he is coughing etc, but even when he isn't, the disgust/anger/irritation etc is still there, winding me up!!!!Any ideas would be appreciated.Many thanks for listening.Shirley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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