Guest guest Posted April 28, 2007 Report Share Posted April 28, 2007 How romantic! I wish I could do this but my dh has been home only a handful of days the last 2 months and next month is not looking any better. That is s good that you to be able to do that. I know music can be so healing to the soul. I have personally always felt a connection with music. I just imagine how nice that must be for you. How comforting. It seems like now with dh's new job we hardly see each other and when we do it is stressful and we are just buggen to get everything done in a short time. Keep dancing as long as you can this is not only healing to your soul but it heats up the relationship to! Love Lizzy > > Last week, my husband wrote " dance " on our weekly schedule chalkboard. Now we are NOT dancers...never have been. So I was curious, but he was not telling. Monday night, after things were done for the day and we were settled in, he turned off the TV and put in a CD and said, " let's dance. " Right. Turned out he had made a compilation of soft, slow songs about how he felt about me and the importance I had in his life. Some were new to me and some were old favorites. For the next hour, we just held each other and slow danced in our living room. Each night after, around 9pm, he said, " let's dance " . I don't know where he got the idea, but I cannot even begin to describe the comfort and warmth and confidence that it has brought to me. No matter how rough the day gets, I know now that each night around 9 (when I'm not at work, of course), the one I love most will dance with me and tell me I am the most important person in his world. Try it out with someone you love - a > husband or wife, a significant other, a child, a pet...just hold them close and dance. I'd never have believed how much healing it has brought to my heart already. - > > --------------------------------- > Ahhh...imagining that irresistible " new car " smell? > Check outnew cars at Yahoo! Autos. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2007 Report Share Posted April 29, 2007 , What an awesome and beautiful story of love and healing. Made me teary-eyed. Thanks for sharing it. Your dh's idea is great. Enjoy. One Non-BP Recovering Man --- L Kay wrote: > Last week, my husband wrote " dance " on our weekly > schedule chalkboard. Now we are NOT dancers...never > have been. So I was curious, but he was not telling. > Monday night, after things were done for the day > and we were settled in, he turned off the TV and put > in a CD and said, " let's dance. " Right. Turned > out he had made a compilation of soft, slow songs > about how he felt about me and the importance I had > in his life. Some were new to me and some were old > favorites. For the next hour, we just held each > other and slow danced in our living room. Each > night after, around 9pm, he said, " let's dance " . I > don't know where he got the idea, but I cannot even > begin to describe the comfort and warmth and > confidence that it has brought to me. No matter how > rough the day gets, I know now that each night > around 9 (when I'm not at work, of course), the > one I love most will dance with me and tell me I am > the most important person in his world. Try it out > with someone you love - a > husband or wife, a significant other, a child, a > pet...just hold them close and dance. I'd never > have believed how much healing it has brought to my > heart already. - > > --------------------------------- > Ahhh...imagining that irresistible " new car " smell? > Check outnew cars at Yahoo! Autos. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2007 Report Share Posted April 29, 2007 , This was so very sweet and romantic. You have a very special relationship with your husband...he gets and understands you. That is so very beautiful! Malinda > > Last week, my husband wrote " dance " on our weekly schedule chalkboard. Now we are NOT dancers...never have been. So I was curious, but he was not telling. Monday night, after things were done for the day and we were settled in, he turned off the TV and put in a CD and said, " let's dance. " Right. Turned out he had made a compilation of soft, slow songs about how he felt about me and the importance I had in his life. Some were new to me and some were old favorites. For the next hour, we just held each other and slow danced in our living room. Each night after, around 9pm, he said, " let's dance " . I don't know where he got the idea, but I cannot even begin to describe the comfort and warmth and confidence that it has brought to me. No matter how rough the day gets, I know now that each night around 9 (when I'm not at work, of course), the one I love most will dance with me and tell me I am the most important person in his world. Try it out with someone you love - a > husband or wife, a significant other, a child, a pet...just hold them close and dance. I'd never have believed how much healing it has brought to my heart already. - > > --------------------------------- > Ahhh...imagining that irresistible " new car " smell? > Check outnew cars at Yahoo! Autos. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2007 Report Share Posted April 29, 2007 , This was so very sweet and romantic. You have a very special relationship with your husband...he gets and understands you. That is so very beautiful! Malinda > > Last week, my husband wrote " dance " on our weekly schedule chalkboard. Now we are NOT dancers...never have been. So I was curious, but he was not telling. Monday night, after things were done for the day and we were settled in, he turned off the TV and put in a CD and said, " let's dance. " Right. Turned out he had made a compilation of soft, slow songs about how he felt about me and the importance I had in his life. Some were new to me and some were old favorites. For the next hour, we just held each other and slow danced in our living room. Each night after, around 9pm, he said, " let's dance " . I don't know where he got the idea, but I cannot even begin to describe the comfort and warmth and confidence that it has brought to me. No matter how rough the day gets, I know now that each night around 9 (when I'm not at work, of course), the one I love most will dance with me and tell me I am the most important person in his world. Try it out with someone you love - a > husband or wife, a significant other, a child, a pet...just hold them close and dance. I'd never have believed how much healing it has brought to my heart already. - > > --------------------------------- > Ahhh...imagining that irresistible " new car " smell? > Check outnew cars at Yahoo! Autos. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2007 Report Share Posted April 29, 2007 , This was so very sweet and romantic. You have a very special relationship with your husband...he gets and understands you. That is so very beautiful! Malinda > > Last week, my husband wrote " dance " on our weekly schedule chalkboard. Now we are NOT dancers...never have been. So I was curious, but he was not telling. Monday night, after things were done for the day and we were settled in, he turned off the TV and put in a CD and said, " let's dance. " Right. Turned out he had made a compilation of soft, slow songs about how he felt about me and the importance I had in his life. Some were new to me and some were old favorites. For the next hour, we just held each other and slow danced in our living room. Each night after, around 9pm, he said, " let's dance " . I don't know where he got the idea, but I cannot even begin to describe the comfort and warmth and confidence that it has brought to me. No matter how rough the day gets, I know now that each night around 9 (when I'm not at work, of course), the one I love most will dance with me and tell me I am the most important person in his world. Try it out with someone you love - a > husband or wife, a significant other, a child, a pet...just hold them close and dance. I'd never have believed how much healing it has brought to my heart already. - > > --------------------------------- > Ahhh...imagining that irresistible " new car " smell? > Check outnew cars at Yahoo! Autos. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2007 Report Share Posted April 29, 2007 Yeah, he's pretty great. I count my blessings to have him because the guy I was engaged to before I met him would have beaten me up by now. I never realized how controlling and dangerous he was until I broke up with him. DH and I have had our ups and downs over the years, but we have learned that marriage takes intensive care. We don't let the 'little hurts' slide and we're pretty close. Took awhile (for me especially) to learn that though. -L maparise17 wrote: , This was so very sweet and romantic. You have a very special relationship with your husband...he gets and understands you. That is so very beautiful! Malinda > > Last week, my husband wrote " dance " on our weekly schedule chalkboard. Now we are NOT dancers...never have been. So I was curious, but he was not telling. Monday night, after things were done for the day and we were settled in, he turned off the TV and put in a CD and said, " let's dance. " Right. Turned out he had made a compilation of soft, slow songs about how he felt about me and the importance I had in his life. Some were new to me and some were old favorites. For the next hour, we just held each other and slow danced in our living room. Each night after, around 9pm, he said, " let's dance " . I don't know where he got the idea, but I cannot even begin to describe the comfort and warmth and confidence that it has brought to me. No matter how rough the day gets, I know now that each night around 9 (when I'm not at work, of course), the one I love most will dance with me and tell me I am the most important person in his world. Try it out with someone you love - a > husband or wife, a significant other, a child, a pet...just hold them close and dance. I'd never have believed how much healing it has brought to my heart already. - > > --------------------------------- > Ahhh...imagining that irresistible " new car " smell? > Check outnew cars at Yahoo! Autos. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2007 Report Share Posted April 29, 2007 Yeah, he's pretty great. I count my blessings to have him because the guy I was engaged to before I met him would have beaten me up by now. I never realized how controlling and dangerous he was until I broke up with him. DH and I have had our ups and downs over the years, but we have learned that marriage takes intensive care. We don't let the 'little hurts' slide and we're pretty close. Took awhile (for me especially) to learn that though. -L maparise17 wrote: , This was so very sweet and romantic. You have a very special relationship with your husband...he gets and understands you. That is so very beautiful! Malinda > > Last week, my husband wrote " dance " on our weekly schedule chalkboard. Now we are NOT dancers...never have been. So I was curious, but he was not telling. Monday night, after things were done for the day and we were settled in, he turned off the TV and put in a CD and said, " let's dance. " Right. Turned out he had made a compilation of soft, slow songs about how he felt about me and the importance I had in his life. Some were new to me and some were old favorites. For the next hour, we just held each other and slow danced in our living room. Each night after, around 9pm, he said, " let's dance " . I don't know where he got the idea, but I cannot even begin to describe the comfort and warmth and confidence that it has brought to me. No matter how rough the day gets, I know now that each night around 9 (when I'm not at work, of course), the one I love most will dance with me and tell me I am the most important person in his world. Try it out with someone you love - a > husband or wife, a significant other, a child, a pet...just hold them close and dance. I'd never have believed how much healing it has brought to my heart already. - > > --------------------------------- > Ahhh...imagining that irresistible " new car " smell? > Check outnew cars at Yahoo! Autos. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2007 Report Share Posted April 29, 2007 Yeah, he's pretty great. I count my blessings to have him because the guy I was engaged to before I met him would have beaten me up by now. I never realized how controlling and dangerous he was until I broke up with him. DH and I have had our ups and downs over the years, but we have learned that marriage takes intensive care. We don't let the 'little hurts' slide and we're pretty close. Took awhile (for me especially) to learn that though. -L maparise17 wrote: , This was so very sweet and romantic. You have a very special relationship with your husband...he gets and understands you. That is so very beautiful! Malinda > > Last week, my husband wrote " dance " on our weekly schedule chalkboard. Now we are NOT dancers...never have been. So I was curious, but he was not telling. Monday night, after things were done for the day and we were settled in, he turned off the TV and put in a CD and said, " let's dance. " Right. Turned out he had made a compilation of soft, slow songs about how he felt about me and the importance I had in his life. Some were new to me and some were old favorites. For the next hour, we just held each other and slow danced in our living room. Each night after, around 9pm, he said, " let's dance " . I don't know where he got the idea, but I cannot even begin to describe the comfort and warmth and confidence that it has brought to me. No matter how rough the day gets, I know now that each night around 9 (when I'm not at work, of course), the one I love most will dance with me and tell me I am the most important person in his world. Try it out with someone you love - a > husband or wife, a significant other, a child, a pet...just hold them close and dance. I'd never have believed how much healing it has brought to my heart already. - > > --------------------------------- > Ahhh...imagining that irresistible " new car " smell? > Check outnew cars at Yahoo! Autos. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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