Guest guest Posted November 18, 2001 Report Share Posted November 18, 2001 > Let it be, if you can Jacquie... > Surprisingly enough, (for me), I haven't second-guessed myself on this one at all. I know that what I said and did were justified, and that the reaction and the insults were unjustified. Sometimes, when the unsubbing is painful and could be avoided because the person is hurt and sad, I fight to keep the member -- like I did with you, Penny. But in this case, the member is just too angry and reactionary to deal with at the moment, and I don't need to spend all my energy fighting a bitter and ugly battle to keep them. Maybe later, when that level of feeling has subsided, they will contact the list, and then we'll see what's what. But until then, I don't see myself spending much time worrying about it. I've had no contact with them since the accusation that I am a dictator; any response to that email will just take me down a road I really don't want to travel. :-) Jacquie mom to , 5 Parenting Autism moderator " Am I the only one who allows his mind to prance outside the box? " --Dale Gribble, from King Of The Hill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2001 Report Share Posted November 18, 2001 > Let it be, if you can Jacquie... > Surprisingly enough, (for me), I haven't second-guessed myself on this one at all. I know that what I said and did were justified, and that the reaction and the insults were unjustified. Sometimes, when the unsubbing is painful and could be avoided because the person is hurt and sad, I fight to keep the member -- like I did with you, Penny. But in this case, the member is just too angry and reactionary to deal with at the moment, and I don't need to spend all my energy fighting a bitter and ugly battle to keep them. Maybe later, when that level of feeling has subsided, they will contact the list, and then we'll see what's what. But until then, I don't see myself spending much time worrying about it. I've had no contact with them since the accusation that I am a dictator; any response to that email will just take me down a road I really don't want to travel. :-) Jacquie mom to , 5 Parenting Autism moderator " Am I the only one who allows his mind to prance outside the box? " --Dale Gribble, from King Of The Hill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 20, 2001 Report Share Posted November 20, 2001 We're Not perfect???? Damn..... I was soo hoping.... Kerri Re: never mind Jacquie -- I know, I already said I have said my last word on the subject but.... " this too shall pass " . The reason why you started this list is because we are NOT perfect. We are NOT super-moms and super-dads. It is inevitable that it will happen that someone will offend, be offended, mis-interpret, and take things the wrong way. And...because we are NOT perfect, super-humans, we are eventually going to break, depending on our circumstances. Personalities are going to conflict. I really have no doubt that you and Sissi will work things out in due time. We will miss her not being here. Let it be, if you can Jacquie... There is still 170+ of us. Penny - who has unsubbed before out of being offended...so I understand. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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