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Yes. I've wondered about that a lot. How/if one's upbringing connects to sound sensitivity. Growing up I experienced (not asking for pity here) emotional abuse, manipulation, harrassment. In essence, trauma to my nervous system. Which has had profound effects in my adult life.Lately just realizing, nightmare of all nightmares, I'm repeating these behaviors. That must stop. Will be seeking help soon. I need to build up my inner resiliancy. Retrain my nervous system.Heartbreaking stuff, cuts to my core. Especially when these things are learned from the people that matter the most, your own parents. >

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>> Tammy, it sounds like your childhood may have been troubled. Mine was pure

>>crap. My father screamed at me and my siblings every day and frequently he beat

>>us. He used fear to control his children. We were not allowed to be afraid of

>>anything but him. Has anyone else experienced a troubled childhood? Maybe it has

>>something to do with our sound sensitivity.

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Gena, I understand about repeating the damage that was done to you. I've done

that to people that I love. The good thing is that YOU realize you have a

tendency and are determined not to repeat it. I do find some solace in knowing

that my father believed he was being a good father. He learned parenting from

his parents who abused him terribly. I also have closure with my father,

something he never had with his parents. He has apoligized many times and in

many ways. It's still hard sometimes though. When the little girl inside me

has a flashback, or smells a particular smell and she's catapulted back in time

and it's as though it's happening all over again. The sadness, the pain, the

anger are all back and very real. I still cry over my 'missed' childhood. You

are definitely not alone.

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Gena Perkins wrote:

>Yes. I've wondered about that a lot. How/if one's upbringing connects to sound

sensitivity.

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>Growing up I experienced (not asking for pity here) emotional abuse,

manipulation, harrassment. In essence, trauma to my nervous system.  Which has

had profound effects in my adult life.

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>Lately just realizing, nightmare of all nightmares, I'm repeating these

behaviors. That must stop. Will be seeking help soon. I need to build up my

inner resiliancy. Retrain my nervous system.

>

>Heartbreaking stuff, cuts to my core. Especially when these things are learned

from the people that matter the most, your own parents.  

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>>> Tammy, it sounds like your childhood may have been troubled. Mine was pure

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>>>crap. My father screamed at me and my siblings every day and frequently he

beat

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>>>us. He used fear to control his children. We were not allowed to be afraid of

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>>>anything but him.

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>Has anyone else experienced a troubled childhood? Maybe it has

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>>>something to do with our sound sensitivity.

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