Re: What to do about girlfriend?

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I agree with . Don't put her health above yours. She needs to take responsibility for her illness. Following s ideas sound like a good start.~

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > I'm currently in a long-distance relationship with someone,

> so

> > > > > > obviously our only time together is over the phone. By the way

> she does

> > > > > > know about my 4S. My only problems are A: She snores when she

> falls

> > > > > > asleep and B: Sometimes she breathes really heavy and loud.

> The snoring

> > > > > > isn't that big of a deal, because I can usually just hang up.

> The real

> > > > > > problem comes with her heavy breathing. The reason she does

> this is from

> > > > > > a heart condition she has causing her problems. This breathing

> is one of

> > > > > > my worst, if not the worst trigger sounds that I have. My body

> literally

> > > > > > goes into shut down, I cant think, I cant talk, I cant do much

> of

> > > > > > anything when she breathes like that. However, it's caused by

> her having

> > > > > > problems with her heart. So where does the compromise begin?

> The whole

> > > > > > situation is caused by both of us having something wrong we

> cant

> > > > > > control, and I want to be there for her, but it seriously puts

> me out of

> > > > > > commission while it's happening and sometimes hours afterward.

> Is there

> > > > > > anything I can do or say to her, or do I be a good boyfriend

> and put her

> > > > > > first?

> > > > > > >

> > > > > >

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >>

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Usually the heavy breathing is before she falls asleep, but she's still very

much awake. The only thing she does when she's asleep is snore, but I can hang

up without fear of being yelled at.

I'm in the process of getting some earbud headphones again soon, I'll try

playing some music or one of the relaxing apps I got for my iPod, my current

headphones wouldn't work in this situation.

I'll also try and look into this sleep apnea, maybe I can help her out in the

process of helping myself. Thank you both for all your help!

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > I'm currently in a long-distance relationship with someone,

> so

> > > > > > obviously our only time together is over the phone. By the way

> she does

> > > > > > know about my 4S. My only problems are A: She snores when she

> falls

> > > > > > asleep and B: Sometimes she breathes really heavy and loud.

> The snoring

> > > > > > isn't that big of a deal, because I can usually just hang up.

> The real

> > > > > > problem comes with her heavy breathing. The reason she does

> this is from

> > > > > > a heart condition she has causing her problems. This breathing

> is one of

> > > > > > my worst, if not the worst trigger sounds that I have. My body

> literally

> > > > > > goes into shut down, I cant think, I cant talk, I cant do much

> of

> > > > > > anything when she breathes like that. However, it's caused by

> her having

> > > > > > problems with her heart. So where does the compromise begin?

> The whole

> > > > > > situation is caused by both of us having something wrong we

> cant

> > > > > > control, and I want to be there for her, but it seriously puts

> me out of

> > > > > > commission while it's happening and sometimes hours afterward.

> Is there

> > > > > > anything I can do or say to her, or do I be a good boyfriend

> and put her

> > > > > > first?

> > > > > > >

> > > > > >

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Usually the heavy breathing is before she falls asleep, but she's still very

much awake. The only thing she does when she's asleep is snore, but I can hang

up without fear of being yelled at.

I'm in the process of getting some earbud headphones again soon, I'll try

playing some music or one of the relaxing apps I got for my iPod, my current

headphones wouldn't work in this situation.

I'll also try and look into this sleep apnea, maybe I can help her out in the

process of helping myself. Thank you both for all your help!

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > I'm currently in a long-distance relationship with someone,

> so

> > > > > > obviously our only time together is over the phone. By the way

> she does

> > > > > > know about my 4S. My only problems are A: She snores when she

> falls

> > > > > > asleep and B: Sometimes she breathes really heavy and loud.

> The snoring

> > > > > > isn't that big of a deal, because I can usually just hang up.

> The real

> > > > > > problem comes with her heavy breathing. The reason she does

> this is from

> > > > > > a heart condition she has causing her problems. This breathing

> is one of

> > > > > > my worst, if not the worst trigger sounds that I have. My body

> literally

> > > > > > goes into shut down, I cant think, I cant talk, I cant do much

> of

> > > > > > anything when she breathes like that. However, it's caused by

> her having

> > > > > > problems with her heart. So where does the compromise begin?

> The whole

> > > > > > situation is caused by both of us having something wrong we

> cant

> > > > > > control, and I want to be there for her, but it seriously puts

> me out of

> > > > > > commission while it's happening and sometimes hours afterward.

> Is there

> > > > > > anything I can do or say to her, or do I be a good boyfriend

> and put her

> > > > > > first?

> > > > > > >

> > > > > >

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

That's another option we've been discussing, but we both need webcams.

> > > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > I'm currently in a long-distance relationship with someone, so

> > > > > > > obviously our only time together is over the phone. By the way she

does

> > > > > > > know about my 4S. My only problems are A: She snores when she

falls

> > > > > > > asleep and B: Sometimes she breathes really heavy and loud. The

snoring

> > > > > > > isn't that big of a deal, because I can usually just hang up. The

real

> > > > > > > problem comes with her heavy breathing. The reason she does this

is from

> > > > > > > a heart condition she has causing her problems. This breathing is

one of

> > > > > > > my worst, if not the worst trigger sounds that I have. My body

literally

> > > > > > > goes into shut down, I cant think, I cant talk, I cant do much of

> > > > > > > anything when she breathes like that. However, it's caused by her

having

> > > > > > > problems with her heart. So where does the compromise begin? The

whole

> > > > > > > situation is caused by both of us having something wrong we cant

> > > > > > > control, and I want to be there for her, but it seriously puts me

out of

> > > > > > > commission while it's happening and sometimes hours afterward. Is

there

> > > > > > > anything I can do or say to her, or do I be a good boyfriend and

put her

> > > > > > > first?

> > > > > > > >

> > > > > > >

> > > > > >

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Still don't have a mic .

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> > > > > > > > > > I'm currently in a long-distance relationship with someone,

> > so

> > > > > > > > > obviously our only time together is over the phone. By the

> > way she does

> > > > > > > > > know about my 4S. My only problems are A: She snores when she

> > falls

> > > > > > > > > asleep and B: Sometimes she breathes really heavy and loud.

> > The snoring

> > > > > > > > > isn't that big of a deal, because I can usually just hang up.

> > The real

> > > > > > > > > problem comes with her heavy breathing. The reason she does

> > this is from

> > > > > > > > > a heart condition she has causing her problems. This

> > breathing is one of

> > > > > > > > > my worst, if not the worst trigger sounds that I have. My

> > body literally

> > > > > > > > > goes into shut down, I cant think, I cant talk, I cant do

> > much of

> > > > > > > > > anything when she breathes like that. However, it's caused by

> > her having

> > > > > > > > > problems with her heart. So where does the compromise begin?

> > The whole

> > > > > > > > > situation is caused by both of us having something wrong we

> > cant

> > > > > > > > > control, and I want to be there for her, but it seriously

> > puts me out of

> > > > > > > > > commission while it's happening and sometimes hours

> > afterward. Is there

> > > > > > > > > anything I can do or say to her, or do I be a good boyfriend

> > and put her

> > > > > > > > > first?

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