Guest guest Posted May 22, 2012 Report Share Posted May 22, 2012 I will try to share my emotions and situation!! Been married 18 years. Housewife 16 years. 3 kids. A month ago , my psychiatrist(husbands also) felt J had aspergers. Since then, I have had a range of emotions. I felt validated. I felt no hope. These two are at the extremes. Since then, I have thought through every bad thing we have been through. I hope to start looking forward soon. I have no idea if this marriage is my future. In the short term, it is. In the long term, I have no idea. Is the grass greener without him? Over the past month, he seems to be trying very hard. Is it because I seem different? Did his psychiatrist say something to him? When I asked him why, he said he started thinking about the things I've said. I've wondered if he is capable of loving me and/or the kids. Does he just love himself? I can't figure out what attracted me to him. My father, an absent minded professor, is very warm and kind. My mother, an entitled socialite, is a little cold. I love them both dearly. I am fortunate to still have them alive. I guess, I married a combination of the two. Will I do this again, if I choose to leave. I wish I knew the answers!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2012 Report Share Posted May 22, 2012 Hello , I can only say Hi and am not able to answer any of your questions. I am sure, your husband loves you and the kids, he probably can just not express it properly. This is, what makes me be in an emotional storm right now, too. I am not sure, if you have read the thread, I sure know, I love my husband, and he has told me, he loves me, too and still we seem to keek hurting each others in ways that leave long and deep scars. Only openness and hard work can get us out of there :-) so I hope, you find a way to make it work, and I hope the same for us over here. nana. > [...] > Over the past month, he seems to be trying very hard. Is it because I seem different? Did his psychiatrist say something to him? When I asked him why, he said he started thinking about the things I've said. > > I've wondered if he is capable of loving me and/or the kids. Does he just love himself? [...] > I wish I knew the answers!!! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2012 Report Share Posted May 22, 2012 Hello , I can only say Hi and am not able to answer any of your questions. I am sure, your husband loves you and the kids, he probably can just not express it properly. This is, what makes me be in an emotional storm right now, too. I am not sure, if you have read the thread, I sure know, I love my husband, and he has told me, he loves me, too and still we seem to keek hurting each others in ways that leave long and deep scars. Only openness and hard work can get us out of there :-) so I hope, you find a way to make it work, and I hope the same for us over here. nana. > [...] > Over the past month, he seems to be trying very hard. Is it because I seem different? Did his psychiatrist say something to him? When I asked him why, he said he started thinking about the things I've said. > > I've wondered if he is capable of loving me and/or the kids. Does he just love himself? [...] > I wish I knew the answers!!! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2012 Report Share Posted May 22, 2012 Hello , I can only say Hi and am not able to answer any of your questions. I am sure, your husband loves you and the kids, he probably can just not express it properly. This is, what makes me be in an emotional storm right now, too. I am not sure, if you have read the thread, I sure know, I love my husband, and he has told me, he loves me, too and still we seem to keek hurting each others in ways that leave long and deep scars. Only openness and hard work can get us out of there :-) so I hope, you find a way to make it work, and I hope the same for us over here. nana. > [...] > Over the past month, he seems to be trying very hard. Is it because I seem different? Did his psychiatrist say something to him? When I asked him why, he said he started thinking about the things I've said. > > I've wondered if he is capable of loving me and/or the kids. Does he just love himself? [...] > I wish I knew the answers!!! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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