Re: Re: does anyone think i need help

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I agree and strongly suggest you see someone about how you are feeling. Its scary seeing someone about this for the first time and telling them everything you are feeling but the good thing is it only lasts a short while and then they can offer you things to help. It was honestly the best decision I made and now I feel stronger than before and like I can beat it, you can feel that way too and life will be easier for yo both at home and school when you get the assistance you need. Good luck please keep us updated and just keep in mind that living your life and reducing 4s is much better than wanting to leave it all behind with 4s at max. The help is better then the way out Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone on 3Sender: Soundsensitivity Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2010 03:44:39 -0000To: <Soundsensitivity >ReplyTo: Soundsensitivity Subject: Re: does anyone think i need help Yes, na, you need help. Locking yourself away from the world is no way to live your life. You are only 14 and have so much life yet to live. Trust me, I was 14 once, and though it was hard to have 4S along with normal 14 year old issues, I got through it... SO CAN YOU.Have you talked to your parents about this? Perhaps let them read things here to try and understand? Is there a school counselor you could talk to? I will be honest with you. Locking yourself away will not solve anything. I thought the same thing but it made me worse. Not only was I upset with having 4S but I was angry at the world for making me hide away. Then I changed my way of thinking. It wasn't the worlds fault. 4S was part of me whether I liked it or not. I decided not to let 4S rule my life. So, I took charge and started to live again. Yeah, its very difficult and I still get really angry, but I'm living and much happier about it. There are things you can do to try and help yourself. If you are able to see a psychologist, they can teach you Cognitive Behavioral Therapy that can help you learn how to deal with things better. Talk to your parents about it. It has helped me a great deal. I still have 4S but I can deal with life better.I know its hard, but being positive about things despite how miserable you feel can be helpful. Stay positive, stay strong. We are all here for you.>> my sensitivity has gotten so bad that im about ready to hide myself in m room forever but i share a room with my sister that i hear my triger sounds alot from and i have school so then it has made me think about dieing to end it and im onl 14 and has been sensitive for about 10 years>

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I agree and strongly suggest you see someone about how you are feeling. Its scary seeing someone about this for the first time and telling them everything you are feeling but the good thing is it only lasts a short while and then they can offer you things to help. It was honestly the best decision I made and now I feel stronger than before and like I can beat it, you can feel that way too and life will be easier for yo both at home and school when you get the assistance you need. Good luck please keep us updated and just keep in mind that living your life and reducing 4s is much better than wanting to leave it all behind with 4s at max. The help is better then the way out Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone on 3Sender: Soundsensitivity Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2010 03:44:39 -0000To: <Soundsensitivity >ReplyTo: Soundsensitivity Subject: Re: does anyone think i need help Yes, na, you need help. Locking yourself away from the world is no way to live your life. You are only 14 and have so much life yet to live. Trust me, I was 14 once, and though it was hard to have 4S along with normal 14 year old issues, I got through it... SO CAN YOU.Have you talked to your parents about this? Perhaps let them read things here to try and understand? Is there a school counselor you could talk to? I will be honest with you. Locking yourself away will not solve anything. I thought the same thing but it made me worse. Not only was I upset with having 4S but I was angry at the world for making me hide away. Then I changed my way of thinking. It wasn't the worlds fault. 4S was part of me whether I liked it or not. I decided not to let 4S rule my life. So, I took charge and started to live again. Yeah, its very difficult and I still get really angry, but I'm living and much happier about it. There are things you can do to try and help yourself. If you are able to see a psychologist, they can teach you Cognitive Behavioral Therapy that can help you learn how to deal with things better. Talk to your parents about it. It has helped me a great deal. I still have 4S but I can deal with life better.I know its hard, but being positive about things despite how miserable you feel can be helpful. Stay positive, stay strong. We are all here for you.>> my sensitivity has gotten so bad that im about ready to hide myself in m room forever but i share a room with my sister that i hear my triger sounds alot from and i have school so then it has made me think about dieing to end it and im onl 14 and has been sensitive for about 10 years>

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I agree and strongly suggest you see someone about how you are feeling. Its scary seeing someone about this for the first time and telling them everything you are feeling but the good thing is it only lasts a short while and then they can offer you things to help. It was honestly the best decision I made and now I feel stronger than before and like I can beat it, you can feel that way too and life will be easier for yo both at home and school when you get the assistance you need. Good luck please keep us updated and just keep in mind that living your life and reducing 4s is much better than wanting to leave it all behind with 4s at max. The help is better then the way out Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone on 3Sender: Soundsensitivity Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2010 03:44:39 -0000To: <Soundsensitivity >ReplyTo: Soundsensitivity Subject: Re: does anyone think i need help Yes, na, you need help. Locking yourself away from the world is no way to live your life. You are only 14 and have so much life yet to live. Trust me, I was 14 once, and though it was hard to have 4S along with normal 14 year old issues, I got through it... SO CAN YOU.Have you talked to your parents about this? Perhaps let them read things here to try and understand? Is there a school counselor you could talk to? I will be honest with you. Locking yourself away will not solve anything. I thought the same thing but it made me worse. Not only was I upset with having 4S but I was angry at the world for making me hide away. Then I changed my way of thinking. It wasn't the worlds fault. 4S was part of me whether I liked it or not. I decided not to let 4S rule my life. So, I took charge and started to live again. Yeah, its very difficult and I still get really angry, but I'm living and much happier about it. There are things you can do to try and help yourself. If you are able to see a psychologist, they can teach you Cognitive Behavioral Therapy that can help you learn how to deal with things better. Talk to your parents about it. It has helped me a great deal. I still have 4S but I can deal with life better.I know its hard, but being positive about things despite how miserable you feel can be helpful. Stay positive, stay strong. We are all here for you.>> my sensitivity has gotten so bad that im about ready to hide myself in m room forever but i share a room with my sister that i hear my triger sounds alot from and i have school so then it has made me think about dieing to end it and im onl 14 and has been sensitive for about 10 years>

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How many other people are in your area that you can talk to? The guilt is hard to deal with, I know just where you are coming from but your not doing this on purpose and that's important to remember and to keep telling others. Sometimes being completely open and honest with the way you are feeling to others can help them understand. Have you mentioned that you are finding life difficult to cope with ?What have you tried in the past to reduce your 4s and other sensitivities. We can read over that and give you some suggestions you many not have tried to help make things easier.We, as well as others closer to you, are all here to help out. Hang in there, getting over this is worth the fight Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone on 3Sender: Soundsensitivity Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2010 03:53:24 -0000To: <Soundsensitivity >ReplyTo: Soundsensitivity Subject: Re: does anyone think i need help i did talk to the counselor and he said " what is there to do about it " and im not sure its 4s anymore cuz im sensitive to smell,touch, and motions aswell as sounds and if i talked to my parents they either make me feel guilty cuz they feel guilty or they tell me to stop playing a game and i have tried blocking it off and can't and try to be prositive and stong> >> > my sensitivity has gotten so bad that im about ready to hide myself in m room forever but i share a room with my sister that i hear my triger sounds alot from and i have school so then it has made me think about dieing to end it and im onl 14 and has been sensitive for about 10 years> >>

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How many other people are in your area that you can talk to? The guilt is hard to deal with, I know just where you are coming from but your not doing this on purpose and that's important to remember and to keep telling others. Sometimes being completely open and honest with the way you are feeling to others can help them understand. Have you mentioned that you are finding life difficult to cope with ?What have you tried in the past to reduce your 4s and other sensitivities. We can read over that and give you some suggestions you many not have tried to help make things easier.We, as well as others closer to you, are all here to help out. Hang in there, getting over this is worth the fight Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone on 3Sender: Soundsensitivity Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2010 03:53:24 -0000To: <Soundsensitivity >ReplyTo: Soundsensitivity Subject: Re: does anyone think i need help i did talk to the counselor and he said " what is there to do about it " and im not sure its 4s anymore cuz im sensitive to smell,touch, and motions aswell as sounds and if i talked to my parents they either make me feel guilty cuz they feel guilty or they tell me to stop playing a game and i have tried blocking it off and can't and try to be prositive and stong> >> > my sensitivity has gotten so bad that im about ready to hide myself in m room forever but i share a room with my sister that i hear my triger sounds alot from and i have school so then it has made me think about dieing to end it and im onl 14 and has been sensitive for about 10 years> >>

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How many other people are in your area that you can talk to? The guilt is hard to deal with, I know just where you are coming from but your not doing this on purpose and that's important to remember and to keep telling others. Sometimes being completely open and honest with the way you are feeling to others can help them understand. Have you mentioned that you are finding life difficult to cope with ?What have you tried in the past to reduce your 4s and other sensitivities. We can read over that and give you some suggestions you many not have tried to help make things easier.We, as well as others closer to you, are all here to help out. Hang in there, getting over this is worth the fight Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone on 3Sender: Soundsensitivity Date: Fri, 31 Dec 2010 03:53:24 -0000To: <Soundsensitivity >ReplyTo: Soundsensitivity Subject: Re: does anyone think i need help i did talk to the counselor and he said " what is there to do about it " and im not sure its 4s anymore cuz im sensitive to smell,touch, and motions aswell as sounds and if i talked to my parents they either make me feel guilty cuz they feel guilty or they tell me to stop playing a game and i have tried blocking it off and can't and try to be prositive and stong> >> > my sensitivity has gotten so bad that im about ready to hide myself in m room forever but i share a room with my sister that i hear my triger sounds alot from and i have school so then it has made me think about dieing to end it and im onl 14 and has been sensitive for about 10 years> >>

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na, I am also a teenager suffering from 4S. I have had it since I was about 12 and now I am 17, so not as long as you, but I know what youre going through. My whole family makes me feel guilty for making them stop tapping, breathing heavily, and making small sounds. Its really diffiicult to deal with parents at this age and even more when they dont believe you and think you are playing a game. It is a lot harder than it sounds to just block it out. My parents still dont believe me and they think its all in my head, but they are kind of supportive. Once I told them my exact

feelings when I hear trigger sounds, they had some sympathy. Try that, maybe it will work. After telling them, they still got annoyed by me telling them to stop making noises, but at least they understood why. I was also living with my sister, who I resent for using sounds as leverage for things that she wants. I have moved out of that room and now live in a separate, sound proof room. I hope this helped, good luck!Camila ** Anybody with 4S in college? This fall I will be entering college and living with a roommate. I am nervous about their reaction to my 4S and how I will have to deal with living with them.To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Thu, December 30, 2010 11:59:32 PMSubject: Re: does anyone think i need help

Ok. I would suggest you really sit down with your parents and tell them flat out that you need help... its NO game. Have a heart to heart with them. Keep calm and tell them that you are really concerned. If they make you feel guilty for something you cannot help, then they need the help too. Honestly, I think 4S is a problem that families can benefit greatly from counseling together. Everyone needs to understand what its like and how to help. Even if it is not 4S, it could be sensory processing disorder or even something else. But if you are sensitive to these things, and they trouble you greatly, then your parents should listen to you. Ask them if you can see a doctor about it. I don't know what your parents are like, but maybe you can tell them that there are lots of people like you, and even parents on this website seeking help. Then they will know its not a game.

Just remember... no matter how horrible you feel today, tomorrow is a new and fresh day. A new beginning.

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na, I am also a teenager suffering from 4S. I have had it since I was about 12 and now I am 17, so not as long as you, but I know what youre going through. My whole family makes me feel guilty for making them stop tapping, breathing heavily, and making small sounds. Its really diffiicult to deal with parents at this age and even more when they dont believe you and think you are playing a game. It is a lot harder than it sounds to just block it out. My parents still dont believe me and they think its all in my head, but they are kind of supportive. Once I told them my exact

feelings when I hear trigger sounds, they had some sympathy. Try that, maybe it will work. After telling them, they still got annoyed by me telling them to stop making noises, but at least they understood why. I was also living with my sister, who I resent for using sounds as leverage for things that she wants. I have moved out of that room and now live in a separate, sound proof room. I hope this helped, good luck!Camila ** Anybody with 4S in college? This fall I will be entering college and living with a roommate. I am nervous about their reaction to my 4S and how I will have to deal with living with them.To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Thu, December 30, 2010 11:59:32 PMSubject: Re: does anyone think i need help

Ok. I would suggest you really sit down with your parents and tell them flat out that you need help... its NO game. Have a heart to heart with them. Keep calm and tell them that you are really concerned. If they make you feel guilty for something you cannot help, then they need the help too. Honestly, I think 4S is a problem that families can benefit greatly from counseling together. Everyone needs to understand what its like and how to help. Even if it is not 4S, it could be sensory processing disorder or even something else. But if you are sensitive to these things, and they trouble you greatly, then your parents should listen to you. Ask them if you can see a doctor about it. I don't know what your parents are like, but maybe you can tell them that there are lots of people like you, and even parents on this website seeking help. Then they will know its not a game.

Just remember... no matter how horrible you feel today, tomorrow is a new and fresh day. A new beginning.

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> > > my sensitivity has gotten so bad that im about ready to hide myself in m room forever but i share a room with my sister that i hear my triger sounds alot from and i have school so then it has made me think about dieing to end it and im onl 14 and has been sensitive for about 10 years

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na, I am also a teenager suffering from 4S. I have had it since I was about 12 and now I am 17, so not as long as you, but I know what youre going through. My whole family makes me feel guilty for making them stop tapping, breathing heavily, and making small sounds. Its really diffiicult to deal with parents at this age and even more when they dont believe you and think you are playing a game. It is a lot harder than it sounds to just block it out. My parents still dont believe me and they think its all in my head, but they are kind of supportive. Once I told them my exact

feelings when I hear trigger sounds, they had some sympathy. Try that, maybe it will work. After telling them, they still got annoyed by me telling them to stop making noises, but at least they understood why. I was also living with my sister, who I resent for using sounds as leverage for things that she wants. I have moved out of that room and now live in a separate, sound proof room. I hope this helped, good luck!Camila ** Anybody with 4S in college? This fall I will be entering college and living with a roommate. I am nervous about their reaction to my 4S and how I will have to deal with living with them.To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Thu, December 30, 2010 11:59:32 PMSubject: Re: does anyone think i need help

Ok. I would suggest you really sit down with your parents and tell them flat out that you need help... its NO game. Have a heart to heart with them. Keep calm and tell them that you are really concerned. If they make you feel guilty for something you cannot help, then they need the help too. Honestly, I think 4S is a problem that families can benefit greatly from counseling together. Everyone needs to understand what its like and how to help. Even if it is not 4S, it could be sensory processing disorder or even something else. But if you are sensitive to these things, and they trouble you greatly, then your parents should listen to you. Ask them if you can see a doctor about it. I don't know what your parents are like, but maybe you can tell them that there are lots of people like you, and even parents on this website seeking help. Then they will know its not a game.

Just remember... no matter how horrible you feel today, tomorrow is a new and fresh day. A new beginning.

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> > > my sensitivity has gotten so bad that im about ready to hide myself in m room forever but i share a room with my sister that i hear my triger sounds alot from and i have school so then it has made me think about dieing to end it and im onl 14 and has been sensitive for about 10 years

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good news brianna!  i hope that you can talk to someone that can help.   it may sound trite, but i find that meditation tapes - it really doesnt matter what kind they are - concentration, the secret to happiness, slimming, whatever it is - they seem to help me relax.  i cant deal with much noise at all, but if i put on a meditation/relaxation tape on my ipod, i go to sleep before they say " take a deep breath and begin to relax " .  maybe you could try those for just a little respite from the insanity.

hugs.

 

that's great news. Please keep us posted as to how it goes for you.

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> > > my parents understand except when i threten to kill mself and alot of the trigger sounds they can't help and if i say anyhting they just say i can't help it and the other sounds they make the excuse i can't help it and i use my ipod but i can't be using it all the time i have to socalize and i can't bring my ipod to school does anyone know a doctor in durango,co that can atleast diagnose me with somehting if its sensory processing disorder with misophonia like symptoms or misophonia i just need a diagnosis so i can get help or go to star center and get treatment if its sensory processing disorder and i start every day in a good mood untill i have to deal with the stuff from school and home

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good news brianna!  i hope that you can talk to someone that can help.   it may sound trite, but i find that meditation tapes - it really doesnt matter what kind they are - concentration, the secret to happiness, slimming, whatever it is - they seem to help me relax.  i cant deal with much noise at all, but if i put on a meditation/relaxation tape on my ipod, i go to sleep before they say " take a deep breath and begin to relax " .  maybe you could try those for just a little respite from the insanity.

hugs.

 

that's great news. Please keep us posted as to how it goes for you.

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> > > my parents understand except when i threten to kill mself and alot of the trigger sounds they can't help and if i say anyhting they just say i can't help it and the other sounds they make the excuse i can't help it and i use my ipod but i can't be using it all the time i have to socalize and i can't bring my ipod to school does anyone know a doctor in durango,co that can atleast diagnose me with somehting if its sensory processing disorder with misophonia like symptoms or misophonia i just need a diagnosis so i can get help or go to star center and get treatment if its sensory processing disorder and i start every day in a good mood untill i have to deal with the stuff from school and home

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-- UK Mobile:  +44.7771.805.732

US Mobile: +1.Skype: +1.

Skype: stacy.c.anderson " To understand the world, you must first understand a place like Mississippi. " ~ Faulkner

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good news brianna!  i hope that you can talk to someone that can help.   it may sound trite, but i find that meditation tapes - it really doesnt matter what kind they are - concentration, the secret to happiness, slimming, whatever it is - they seem to help me relax.  i cant deal with much noise at all, but if i put on a meditation/relaxation tape on my ipod, i go to sleep before they say " take a deep breath and begin to relax " .  maybe you could try those for just a little respite from the insanity.

hugs.

 

that's great news. Please keep us posted as to how it goes for you.

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> > > my parents understand except when i threten to kill mself and alot of the trigger sounds they can't help and if i say anyhting they just say i can't help it and the other sounds they make the excuse i can't help it and i use my ipod but i can't be using it all the time i have to socalize and i can't bring my ipod to school does anyone know a doctor in durango,co that can atleast diagnose me with somehting if its sensory processing disorder with misophonia like symptoms or misophonia i just need a diagnosis so i can get help or go to star center and get treatment if its sensory processing disorder and i start every day in a good mood untill i have to deal with the stuff from school and home

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-- UK Mobile:  +44.7771.805.732

US Mobile: +1.Skype: +1.

Skype: stacy.c.anderson " To understand the world, you must first understand a place like Mississippi. " ~ Faulkner

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na,

Do let us know how things go and the help you receive. My parents really

didn't understand what I was dealing with until I was an adult. I also

didn't get the help I needed until I was an adult. What I would do to go

back and help the younger me find a therapist or someone to help me out

with dealing with this condition. My life could be much different today.

All the best,

Randall

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na,

Do let us know how things go and the help you receive. My parents really

didn't understand what I was dealing with until I was an adult. I also

didn't get the help I needed until I was an adult. What I would do to go

back and help the younger me find a therapist or someone to help me out

with dealing with this condition. My life could be much different today.

All the best,

Randall

[Guest guest]

I would concur. Life could be very different wioth some education and assistance much earlier.

It takes persistence and boldness to ask for what we need, but you are worth it. Keep pushing forward to get help.

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Mon, January 3, 2011 11:00:27 PMSubject: Re: Re: does anyone think i need help

na,Do let us know how things go and the help you receive. My parents really didn't understand what I was dealing with until I was an adult. I also didn't get the help I needed until I was an adult. What I would do to go back and help the younger me find a therapist or someone to help me out with dealing with this condition. My life could be much different today.All the best,Randall

[Guest guest]

I would concur. Life could be very different wioth some education and assistance much earlier.

It takes persistence and boldness to ask for what we need, but you are worth it. Keep pushing forward to get help.

To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Mon, January 3, 2011 11:00:27 PMSubject: Re: Re: does anyone think i need help

na,Do let us know how things go and the help you receive. My parents really didn't understand what I was dealing with until I was an adult. I also didn't get the help I needed until I was an adult. What I would do to go back and help the younger me find a therapist or someone to help me out with dealing with this condition. My life could be much different today.All the best,Randall