Guest guest Posted August 31, 2011 Report Share Posted August 31, 2011 Being a caretaker is very difficult. I know as I took care if my Sister for seven years before cancer took her life. I also took care of both my grandparents too for several years. As I look back I'm very proud that I was there for them in their times of need. Yes, it was difficult and time consuming, but I would not take all the money in the world over those memories. I suffer EXTREME fatigue and pain among other symptoms with my Stills. I was unable to do anything but lay around, be depressed and depend on my spouse, who has M.S. I spoke to my doctor about it, on how my life was slipping by and the toll it takes in my wife and kids when I'm unable to attend family functions or even go on vacations. Last year my doctor put me on Adderall, two 20mg pills in the morning then one additional 20mg at noon. It's has changed my life dramatically. There are still times that I'm to tired to go out, but at least I manage to when the time is right. I suggest for the spouse who is unable to cope with their significant other's illness to seek therapy. My mother in law does because her husband is termally ill. Perhaps someday both spouses will be able to go to therapy together to work through these difficult times as my wife and I do. Also keep in mind the vows you may have taken on your wedding day! You may never want to have any regrets. Best of luck to you all. î„ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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