Re: BPDs and NPDs revisited

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Trust me on this one - NPDs will bring tragedy to you and ANYONE that

gets involved with them. Dont think you are somehow special or

different. or that you can " fix " them. God please dont feel " sorry "

for them. They will lies to you like NOTHING you have ever heard in

your life. They are like BPD's dipped in sugar frosting. they could

look and sound fine but just a clusterf***ed as your mom.

Run and dont look back.

Cristie

In WTOAdultChildren1 , " mitchell_kristin "

wrote:

>

> Same for me Malinda. I am really struggling about my relationship

> and whether or not to stay in it. I am pretty much over it, have

> reached my breaking point. The main reason (in addition to the

> raging) is he gets drunk and beligerant and I have had enough.

> I told him over the weekend he has to go to counseling or leave.

He

> said he would go, but I think its just a temporary bandaid. I

don't

> believe he wants to change and I have lost faith in him. I can't

be

> the only one trying to better myself.

> Like Kyla said, we have to honor ourselves, I'm tired of wasting

> time...

>

>

>

>

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > This was discussed a while ago, but I just had a new

> > > insight

> > > > > that I

> > > > > > > wanted to share. I was having a hard time believing

that

> > > fada

> > > > had

> > > > > > NPD at the

> > > > > > > time of the original discussion. Recent events,

however,

> > > have

> > > > > caused

> > > > > > me to

> > > > > > > rethink this. For instance, his obsession with

> appearances,

> > > and

> > > > > his

> > > > > > > refusal to shake my fiancee's hand (and his reluctance

to

> > > even

> > > > > PRAY

> > > > > > with him)

> > > > > > > because fada feels my fiancee is " not worthy. " If

that's

> > not

> > > > > > > narcissistic, I don't know what is. So, yeah, nada's

BPD

> > and

> > > > > fada's

> > > > > > NPD. We're just one

> > > > > > > big, " happy, " personality-disordered family. ; )

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > >

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