Guest guest Posted March 27, 2007 Report Share Posted March 27, 2007 " Beyond terrified " -- yeah, that pretty much sums it up right now. I'm in the " waiting for nada to speak to me again " phase (funny how I feel like I have to tiptoe around my own house). My boyfriend, his mother, his sister, and my assistant at work all know I'm pregnant, and they're happy, but I haven't even been able to tell my own mother. Ugh. Anyway, once she decides to speak to me again, and pretend like nothing ever happened, I'm going to bring up my boundaries and by jove, I'm going to stick to them! But man, this is really really hard. I cannot live with this woman anymore. Especially now. n mitchell_kristin wrote: Congratulations! I was shocked and surprised when I found out I was pregnant too; I had been misdiagnosed as being unable to get pregnant so I was 8 weeks when I found out and thought I had had the flu for a month. I even went to the ER for flu symptoms. Can you get your nada out of your house? It is so important to take care of you right now and to minimize your stress. I was extrememly stressed in the beginning of my pregnancy- my boyfriend and I had a lot of problems- and it made things much more difficult to process. If this is what you want, it's an exciting and amazing time- I was beyond terrified at first. Good Luck! Sometimes I wish the decision would be made for me, though, like in > your case (either way), like knowing I couldn't have them or getting > pregant by " surprise " . It would kind of take the pressure off me > mentally, knowing that it's not ultimately up to me. I'm not a > religious person, and feel that we all choose our own destinies... > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Now that's room service! Choose from over 150,000 hotels > in 45,000 destinations on Yahoo! Travel to find your fit. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 27, 2007 Report Share Posted March 27, 2007 " Beyond terrified " -- yeah, that pretty much sums it up right now. I'm in the " waiting for nada to speak to me again " phase (funny how I feel like I have to tiptoe around my own house). My boyfriend, his mother, his sister, and my assistant at work all know I'm pregnant, and they're happy, but I haven't even been able to tell my own mother. Ugh. Anyway, once she decides to speak to me again, and pretend like nothing ever happened, I'm going to bring up my boundaries and by jove, I'm going to stick to them! But man, this is really really hard. I cannot live with this woman anymore. Especially now. n mitchell_kristin wrote: Congratulations! I was shocked and surprised when I found out I was pregnant too; I had been misdiagnosed as being unable to get pregnant so I was 8 weeks when I found out and thought I had had the flu for a month. I even went to the ER for flu symptoms. Can you get your nada out of your house? It is so important to take care of you right now and to minimize your stress. I was extrememly stressed in the beginning of my pregnancy- my boyfriend and I had a lot of problems- and it made things much more difficult to process. If this is what you want, it's an exciting and amazing time- I was beyond terrified at first. Good Luck! Sometimes I wish the decision would be made for me, though, like in > your case (either way), like knowing I couldn't have them or getting > pregant by " surprise " . It would kind of take the pressure off me > mentally, knowing that it's not ultimately up to me. I'm not a > religious person, and feel that we all choose our own destinies... > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Now that's room service! Choose from over 150,000 hotels > in 45,000 destinations on Yahoo! Travel to find your fit. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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